MY WISH { I WiSH We CoulD ReViEw CliEnTs}

*singing*

This is the thread that never ends
yes it goes on and on my friends
some people started reading it not knowing what it was
and they'll continue reading it forever just because.... Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

YEP....

Hi vk!

I tend to just hangaround and piss off the guys in dfw who want their girls w\out any grey matter...

But what's crazy is...everytime I sho I've got some...they are tripping over eachother to come see me.

Men!

Y'all never know what you really want. Originally Posted by tntangie

I didn't know it till just now but I know what I really want and it's you..

For gosh sakes...it's a business deal. Nothing happens unless BOTH parties agree to play

Why make it more complex than that

BTW, glad to see ur input TNT!!! Originally Posted by vkmaster

It is a business deal and the most important single factor in any business is sales. Nothing happens until somebody sells something. When the sale is made and both parties are happy that is the definition of a good deal..
Speaking of sales, I'll bet we could sell a lot of tickets to a mud wrestling match between Catnipdipper and TNT.. Might even put it on pay per view. I would pay to see it..in fact I will even donate my time to be TNTs manager, trainer, assistant, bitch..whatever

Cmon kids, what do you say?

................ Plus - dating sucks. This kind of handles all that sex drive stuff so I don't mess with emotions.
.............If the men were NOT willing to give money in the first place silly girl - you would not be here with the pussy.
.............You do NOT win........................... . Originally Posted by tntangie

Sorry about just the highlights of your post! I think the essential point is that we do not mess with out emotions; but, we all have a sex drive. This does not mean that guys need to be abused by someone who justifies the bad attitude on the idea that, she has the pussey.

No thank you, the guys are asking for a little help with a problem we all go through at sometime in life.

JR

Hi vk!

I tend to just hangaround and piss off the guys in dfw who want their girls w\out any grey matter...

But what's crazy is...everytime I sho I've got some...they are tripping over eachother to come see me.

Men!

Y'all never know what you really want. Originally Posted by tntangie

You probably don't have clients that want you without grey matter.
You probably don't have clients that you offend.

You have shown your grey matter, and you have clients!
Do you think they are a different group of men; maybe the guys who can appreciate your achievements.

All guys are not the same. All girls are not the same.

JR

Big she sure has some sexy lips I might add

TNT bring your sexy self and those cute freckles up here and lets count em....or maybe I can connect them.! Originally Posted by bigdeal

I also don't agree with the post about women faking O's. Some of us are lucky to get one quite easily and have plenty to go around.
Originally Posted by Allie_Kat

It is pretty easy to spot a faker. At banks, they teach tellers how to spot counterfeit money by handling lots & lots of real money. When you spend a lot of time dealing with real O's, the fakes are easy to spot. Honestly, I'd rather a woman just be honest and say she didn't get there then to lie and pretend she did.

To certain extent I don't agree with you on this (expressing my 2C), if the provider doesn't provide the services as per 'her' rules or 'per agreed expectations' why should I PM and express my dissatisfaction with her (either if I have the intention of seeing her again or not)? If I do so (not posting the experience and negotiating/blah blah..) what is the purpose of 'reviews' thread here? Originally Posted by modda

I can't paint a barn with just one brush... the solution to contact a provider does not work in every situation and shouldn't be used in every situation. But, I've seen a lot of "Yes" reviews which screamed "NO!" when you read the ROS... a lot of those situations can be improved upon to some degree... others can't.

A good provider wants to provide a good service and a bad one pretty much just wants you to drop your money off and leave. Even good providers need little nudges in the right direction. I've called ladies up and told them afterwards that I've enjoyed my time with them and look forward to seeing them again in the future but ________ is a big turnoff for me and I would appreciate if you (would/won't) do _________ next time. For me, that formula gets great results and keeps me from having to run off into private forums to say things about a provider which will get leaked by a white knight anyway, who I'll end up having to ban or point, and she'll ask me why I didn't just say something to begin with... or she'll post some directed to me in the Coed section for something which could have easily been fixed.

I can't paint a barn with just one brush... the solution to contact a provider does not work in every situation and shouldn't be used in every situation. But, I've seen a lot of "Yes" reviews which screamed "NO!" when you read the ROS... a lot of those situations can be improved upon to some degree... others can't.

A good provider wants to provide a good service and a bad one pretty much just wants you to drop your money off and leave. Even good providers need little nudges in the right direction. I've called ladies up and told them afterwards that I've enjoyed my time with them and look forward to seeing them again in the future but ________ is a big turnoff for me and I would appreciate if you (would/won't) do _________ next time. For me, that formula gets great results and keeps me from having to run off into private forums to say things about a provider which will get leaked by a white knight anyway, who I'll end up having to ban or point, and she'll ask me why I didn't just say something to begin with... or she'll post some directed to me in the Coed section for something which could have easily been fixed. Originally Posted by FireSerpent

FS - that is MY FAVORITE way to have an issue addressed.

How can I improve if I don't know what you do or don't like? As JRL pointed out, not all guys and girls are the same. Even in session - I'm not the same from guy to guy. I tend to be more PSE in my reviews - even in session. Typically more on the submissive side as well. The other day I spent probably 75% of the session making out like we were still teens in high school! (in between geeky nerd jokes that were a total turn on to the both of us - but hey - that worked for the both of us. LOL )

I'll probably rewind it in my mind a few times too many - but then I'm fine and I'll make sure I'm ready for exactly what he wants the next time. I appreciate a client that comes back to see me and gives me a second chance. I know there won't be a 3rd.

Oh shit. Damn us women folk. What the hell are we thinking having opinions?! Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

Stacy, love your opinions. Always look forward to hearing them.

Have a great New Year ! Your water guy, Max.

I think reviewing clients would have disastrous effects. The end goal of providers is to make money, which means the client comes first (no pun intended).

Honestly, what client wants to hear, via a forum discussion, a provider tell him that his penis resembles a #2 pencil, he smelled like the undercarriage of a rotting mule or he came so quick the provider forgot he was even there. Not that any of these ailments have ever effected me. LOL I just think once a provider says anything negative then the client will naturally paint a negative picture of provider as backlash, which defeats the purpose of this site. Also, even if the forum was restricted to just providers at some point a provider would spill the beans either to keep a client to herself or because she's a reverse WK.

Providers are here to provide a service, and in many instances a fantasy. The fantasy dies the moment a client has to look over his shoulder and start wondering whether the provider was satisfied. The only issue I think remotely worthy of provider discussion is a client's hygiene or potential for violence. But, I think it's on a provider to say no if his hygiene is disgusting, so need for forum discussions. Furthermore, if I knew a provider was with a slew of bottom-barrel men (I'm talking clients with gum disease, body odor, and dressed in meth addict couture), then she's immediately taken off my list. It's one thing to think a provider takes on all comers, and it's another thing to know it for a fact.

I've recently started asking providers what I can improve in my game, because I'm egotistical. Also, I've taken a page out of FireSerpent's book and started telling providers what they can do for me to improve my return visit. But, if a client doesn't ask for an opinion, I think a provider shouldn't give one. IMHO

The purpose of provider reviews, as I see it, is to aid hobbyists in making decisions based on likes and dislikes, time/money spent, confirmation of appearance and activities available. This aids the hobbyist in making more informed decisions regarding who they might see. Obviously, some providers might take issue with certain things being divulged and that can come from not wanting hobbyists to know the less-than-stellar aspects of a meeting to simple matters of privacy.

I believe a provider has the right to air her opinions. But apart from warnings about dangerous or unscrupulous clients, I'm uncertain as to what purpose can be served by doing so. If it's merely to ridicule or criticize a hobbyist's habits, hygiene or performance, a negative effect might affect the provider. After all, one of the assumed benefits of meetings of this sort is the implied discretion. A provider might be better served to speak directly with the client regarding such matters or merely to remove them from their potential future clients.

Even provider reviews sometimes attempt to give the lady the benefit of the doubt (YMMV, we just didn't click, maybe she was having a bad day, etc.).

I wish providers would pay me for services.

:0)

It is pretty easy to spot a faker. At banks, they teach tellers how to spot counterfeit money by handling lots & lots of real money. When you spend a lot of time dealing with real O's, the fakes are easy to spot. Honestly, I'd rather a woman just be honest and say she didn't get there then to lie and pretend she did. Originally Posted by FireSerpent

+1

Also gives you incentive to find what the lady likes and try harder next time.

I figure most providers do some form of talking behind closed doors so this doesn’t concern me that much. What would concern me is a provider posting my number, email addy, or home address (in case of an outcall) on the internet. I would prefer this not be allowed at all and that any information in any type of section be reviewed before being made public to insure that this never happens.