You People

Can we talk about getting laid now? Originally Posted by rfl

The horse is rotten, the provider in question is gone, people gonna think what they gonna think. "Love your neighbor as yourself."

Back to fucking

This thread has gotten quite off topic no doubt. The original topic itself was pointless to begin with. Whatever a lady chooses, or shall i say, whom ever a lady chooses to visit in this business, is her business. And since it is a business, and she is her own boss, she can turn away whom she prefers.

I am offended by the "snow apes" comment. You black men want to sit around and whine and complain because a provider does not want to visit with you, and continue to pretend as though you, yourselves are not also racist, and sexist. And that you don't have slang and terms for a cracker, or snow ape like me. That makes you a hypocrite. So you go ahead and pretend that y'all are not just as racist toward Whitey. And that y'all don't speak badly of white people. Because you know you do.

Stop playing the victim, put it back in the deck!!!

Most of these women have endured more shit from society in general, because of the work we do. You guys, black or white don't know the half of what it is like to walk in these ladies shoes. The constant shame from society, the risk involved, the isolation. The hate mail alone, people sending messages telling us we are worthless prostitutes, happens more than you realize.

So keep on crying black man.... You'll never be half the man these ladies are!

Eccie continues to challenge the notion the the human mind is superior.

This thread has gotten quite off topic no doubt. The original topic itself was pointless to begin with. Whatever a lady chooses, or shall i say, whom ever a lady chooses to visit in this business, is her business. And since it is a business, and she is her own boss, she can turn away whom she prefers.

I am offended by the "snow apes" comment. You black men want to sit around and whine and complain because a provider does not want to visit with you, and continue to pretend as though you, yourselves are not also racist, and sexist. And that you don't have slang and terms for a cracker, or snow ape like me. That makes you a hypocrite. So you go ahead and pretend that y'all are not just as racist toward Whitey. And that y'all don't speak badly of white people. Because you know you do.

Stop playing the victim, put it back in the deck!!!

Most of these women have endured more shit from society in general, because of the work we do. You guys, black or white don't know the half of what it is like to walk in these ladies shoes. The constant shame from society, the risk involved, the isolation. The hate mail alone, people sending messages telling us we are worthless prostitutes, happens more than you realize.

So keep on crying black man.... You'll never be half the man these ladies are!

Eccie continues to challenge the notion the the human mind is superior. Originally Posted by StreetCheetah

I promised myself that I would stay completely out of this thread, but out of all the replies and rebuttals that I've wanted to give you my friend have forced me to type. I'm not sure you truly thought through your response before typing your comment for all to see. Basically, several times throughout your tirade you said "we and us", but not in the context of "we/us the hobbyist", but as "we/us the provider". Why are you pretending to be a hobbyist?

The topic is racism brought up by the OP's complaint of racial slurs. How are we off topic? Might it be because it disgusts u that I can have a conversation with a black man? After being treated as a white girl who couldn't possibly understand? I what, was just a victim of reverse racism so I am off topic cause I am not making ur argument? Not being mean. Not being mean back? This makes me what... stupid? We complain about being labeled hookers but we can't understand how damaging to our social structure labeling people can be? Come on. Let's have intelligent conversations. Let's show some class. Think I don't get even Al took a pop shot at me... about my rate? So what. I didn't choose it as my self worth. I am targeting those gents because they seem to not be so womanizing. They are the most fun and respectful. We should structure our ads to draw the clientel we feel most comfortable with but we don't have to write everybody else off as either inferior or superior. That's the problem and the OP has a legitimate complaint. I spoke up due to the responses. Mainly towards Porno Dave. Poor dude was just trying to keep the peace while others were blowing shit up. Ridiculous behaviour. Time to educate! Most white women brought to the US were brought from Australia, where they were banished to from Europe after being found guilty of being prostitutes for the purpose of child labor when the attempt at slavery failed in the1600s. As I said "we all have our cross to BEAR" not bare... BEAR! As in growl about! But not about 200 years ago. Deal with today but we can't til we understand yesterday. Girl was mean to this man and it hurt his feelings... AS A HUMAN BEING! Not one person said "1blackman1, I understand and I feel ur pain". Imagine where this thread would be if we had just embraced him. Instead, It was defending her and got racist pdq. Personally, my guess is she made a deal w another girl to use her account and status not knowing this would happen and that girl closed it and probably changed her pw. I could be wrong but seems most logical to me.

Now I get the ladies filling a man's shoes part cause I have but not cause I am a man... just one helluva woman. However; I kinda lost control of my life after the kids moved out. Unrelated reasons but it happened and I thank the Lord for a few good ECCIE men who seen me through!

This thread has gotten quite off topic no doubt. The original topic itself was pointless to begin with. Whatever a lady chooses, or shall i say, whom ever a lady chooses to visit in this business, is her business. And since it is a business, and she is her own boss, she can turn away whom she prefers.

I am offended by the "snow apes" comment. You black men want to sit around and whine and complain because a provider does not want to visit with you, and continue to pretend as though you, yourselves are not also racist, and sexist. And that you don't have slang and terms for a cracker, or snow ape like me. That makes you a hypocrite. So you go ahead and pretend that y'all are not just as racist toward Whitey. And that y'all don't speak badly of white people. Because you know you do.

Stop playing the victim, put it back in the deck!!!

Most of these women have endured more shit from society in general, because of the work we do. You guys, black or white don't know the half of what it is like to walk in these ladies shoes. The constant shame from society, the risk involved, the isolation. The hate mail alone, people sending messages telling us we are worthless prostitutes, happens more than you realize.

So keep on crying black man.... You'll never be half the man these ladies are!

Eccie continues to challenge the notion the the human mind is superior. Originally Posted by StreetCheetah

Yeah I think a snow cow would be more appropriate for Santa.

WHERE THE HELL IS MY RING...AND YOU! OWWWWWW YOU! YA GOT ITN COMING IF I DONT GET MY DRESS.... UH.. YALL KEEP IT UP IN HERE NOW... YOU KNOW WHAT ANNIES GONNA DO!! (OK ITS TIME FOR THAT ATTACHMENT) MR.BEAR... SERIOUSERLY...IM MARRING A SPIDER NOW... UGHHHHHHH!!!....LAST CHANCE!!! XXOO :sad1 :ANNIE P.S FUCKINING DORTHY AND TOTO AND...WELL KANSAS ITSELF IS OUT...ABSOULUTELY NOT !!! I WILL RIP YOUR FUR OUT..ROGAINE AINT YOUT FRIEND!!

I will make this one last point with a two part question:

Why do southern black people consider Jefferson Davis their first President?
And; why did they respond to his call to arms to fight the Yankees?

See, when u go to a University, the first thing u learn is how everything u was taught in school is wrong. Certain text books were written for the upscale whites and different text books were written for down scale blacks. This was a decision made to control the population. That's why we have such different pov so answer these questions. I don't dispute things like what happened in Selma or Little Rock. Those were awful. But explain to me the answers to these two questions. To me, if I was abusing someone, I would not hand them a gun!

And to answer an early question asked of me... do I understand share cropping? I will answer that with a question... would u take that deal today? It was actually a good deal even by today standards. Work 7 years for 40 acres, a house and cattle plus no expenses for the seven years including medical... i'll take that deal. Wouldn't you? Broke white people didn't get that option and that is why u hear things like this girl up a few posts. Her ancestors didn't get that option.

I've seen April many times, and I'd be lying if I said this wasn't disappointing. She was my first into this world, mainly because she didn't have an NBA policy and just overall seemed like a good woman. The "you people" in the context that it was used is absolutely racist, no idea where that came from. Oh well.

I made a mistake. Any other lady could change her policy to NBA without fear of being attacked by the black man, but when I do I'm attacked.

I promised myself that I would stay completely out of this thread, but out of all the replies and rebuttals that I've wanted to give you my friend have forced me to type. I'm not sure you truly thought through your response before typing your comment for all to see. Basically, several times throughout your tirade you said "we and us", but not in the context of "we/us the hobbyist", but as "we/us the provider". Why are you pretending to be a hobbyist? Originally Posted by Bigpapa1

The original topic itself was pointless to begin with. Whatever a lady chooses, or shall i say, whom ever a lady chooses to visit in this business, is her business. And since it is a business, and she is her own boss, she can turn away whom she prefers.

I am offended by the "snow apes" comment. You black men want to sit around and whine and complain because a provider does not want to visit with you, and continue to pretend as though you, yourselves are not also racist, and sexist. And that you don't have slang and terms for a cracker, or snow ape like me. That makes you a hypocrite. So you go ahead and pretend that y'all are not just as racist toward Whitey. And that y'all don't speak badly of white people. Because you know you do.

Stop playing the victim, put it back in the deck!!!

So keep on crying black man.... You'll never be half the man these ladies are!

. Originally Posted by StreetCheetah

Did you even read the actual comments.

1) I have never in any post or thread complained that any provider chooses not to see black men. Hell we are all entitled to choose whom we see. I do as well. There's plenty chicks on here I'd love to fuck but they have an NBA policy so I skip their ads and reviews. Nothing to see there. The complaint was her basically saying I don't see "you people" and in the context she used it she was essentially saying "niggers". That was the point. I understand there's been numerous "why NBA" threads but that wasn't and isn't my issue at all. Just say NBA or no black men or no AA, we all get it and move on. Saying no niggers elicits a different response.

2) the "snow apes" looks to have been edited into the quote as a joke rather than part of the original comment. Actual racist comments deserve to be discussed. Fake ones, not so much. If that was the writers original wording then it was inappropriate but when I read the original comment it appeared to say white women.

3) in all honesty, I've been black a long time, 45 years by my count. And we don't really talk bad about white folks. Mainly because we don't talk about white folks. We don't go around thinking about new and more creative insulting and disparaging names we can call white folks. Our conversations tend to be about specific people but not because of their race but because of their action. Even then we don't go calling them disparaging racist names because it's unnecessary and meaningless to do so. I went to school with white folks through elementary, junior high, high school, college, law school, and worked surrounded by white folks for 5 years at a.big NO law firm. The one thing I can say that's been consistent is that nigger rolls off planty white tongues with ease when they want to insult or demean someone that's black. Guess it's taught at home or by grandparents or uncles or aunts. But it's there for plenty of whites. I accept that for what it is. (I lived in DC for 11 years and interestingly NE liberals weren't much better). Nevertheless, in my experience black folks may dislike things that white folks do but rarely ever do we default to calling them crackers or peckerwoods or honkies or any of the other stupid meaningless derogatory terms.

All said and done, intelligent discourse is pretty easy to have, except when people decide they'd rather not listen or read, but want to simply push a particular attitude irrespective of things like facts.

I am offended by the "snow apes" comment. . Originally Posted by StreetCheetah

You'll be alright

You people need to get laid.

THIS is the most intelligently honest statement I have ever heard when it comes to racism. Now the first line cracked me up... gotta admit. Now if we could just get thugs and red necks to think like this, there would be no thug vs redneck controversy. In all races, racism is ignorance. There is one race... the human race! We all want the same things. We all eat, breath, shit, reproduce, laugh, cry and die the same. Now let's do sexism! I am tired of being called a bitch... giggles!

3) in all honesty, I've been black a long time, 45 years by my count. And we don't really talk bad about white folks. Mainly because we don't talk about white folks. We don't go around thinking about new and more creative insulting and disparaging names we can call white folks. Our conversations tend to be about specific people but not because of their race but because of their action. Even then we don't go calling them disparaging racist names because it's unnecessary and meaningless to do so. I went to school with white folks through elementary, junior high, high school, college, law school, and worked surrounded by white folks for 5 years at a.big NO law firm. The one thing I can say that's been consistent is that nigger rolls off planty white tongues with ease when they want to insult or demean someone that's black. Guess it's taught at home or by grandparents or uncles or aunts. But it's there for plenty of whites. I accept that for what it is. (I lived in DC for 11 years and interestingly NE liberals weren't much better). Nevertheless, in my experience black folks may dislike things that white folks do but rarely ever do we default to calling them crackers or peckerwoods or honkies or any of the other stupid meaningless derogatory terms.

All said and done, intelligent discourse is pretty easy to have, except when people decide they'd rather not listen or read, but want to simply push a particular attitude irrespective of things like facts.[/QUOTE]

I will make this one last point with a two part question:

Why do southern black people consider Jefferson Davis their first President?
And; why did they respond to his call to arms to fight the Yankees?

See, when u go to a University, the first thing u learn is how everything u was taught in school is wrong. Certain text books were written for the upscale whites and different text books were written for down scale blacks. This was a decision made to control the population. That's why we have such different pov so answer these questions. I don't dispute things like what happened in Selma or Little Rock. Those were awful. But explain to me the answers to these two questions. To me, if I was abusing someone, I would not hand them a gun!

And to answer an early question asked of me... do I understand share cropping? I will answer that with a question... would u take that deal today? It was actually a good deal even by today standards. Work 7 years for 40 acres, a house and cattle plus no expenses for the seven years including medical... i'll take that deal. Wouldn't you? Broke white people didn't get that option and that is why u hear things like this girl up a few posts. Her ancestors didn't get that option. Originally Posted by Lacey Companion

Why are you doing this? What is this ignorance? God, this thread is really depressing. Everything you've said in your posts are flat out lies that anyone who has taken a basic college course in US History can discredit. What you said about blacks loving Jefferson Davis is just a lie, and under 1 percent of blacks living in the south, both free and slave, fought for the confederacy. That's out of 800,000 military age black men in the south. Stop spreading lies. Ugh.

http://immigrationtounitedstates.org...ion-waves.html

1. The United States was established and became a country on Sept. 12, 1787! Period! Not the 1600s.
2. Slavery, IN THE US, was abolished December 6th, 1865! PERIOD!
3. The first blacks to come to the US were indentured servants from EUROPE not Africa and has no bearing on the term "nigger"! PERIOD! As IS the secondary subject of this thread!

Where did I learn this? AFRICAN AMERICAN HISTORY (graduate level), PROFESSOR NELSON, OHIO STATE... and I got an A... and he as black as black can get! Look him up. Originally Posted by Lacey Companion

This is coming from the provider who states there is no slavery in the United states as of today lmfao