You're not a BBW...you're just obese...

The ONLY thing to be "learned" or "noted" from this ENTIRE thread, is that...

SOME (and not the majority/but some) of the "men" on this board, have lack of respect for women/and for their fellow hobbyist in general and it shows all over this board.


Unless you have a personal review of a lady YOU have seen, or an alert because of some experience you have encountered...NO ONE should be personally attacking any one on this board. Every one has the right to be here, voice their opinions, etc... but to go out of your way to personally target or offend any one is BULLSHIT.

I am done with this thread, and done with those of you who have failed to look at your own faults and issues in your own life...

It is really pathetic that some one could even have the nerve to start a thread that would target a group of ladies and hobbyist. And call it how you want it, that is what was done..

ANY provider WHO gives EXCELLENT service, has NO BAD REVIEWS, and has NEVER had an issue with any one on this board, should NEVER have to feel they do not have a right to be here.

For those of you who do not like BBW -- that is fine, no one is forcing you to look at our profiles or dial a number.. ON THIS SITE, YOU NEED TO BACK THE FUCK OFF, if you want to walk around in your real life bashing people, then so be it and good luck with the consequences of that!

The ONLY thing to be "learned" or "noted" from this ENTIRE thread, is that...

SOME (and not the majority/but some) of the "men" on this board, have lack of respect for women/and for their fellow hobbyist in general and it shows all over this board.



Well said! And I guess you feel as strongly about men that “have to” buy pussy too!

After following ASPD and ECCIE over the years, I can’t count how many providers I have seen hang themselves when given enough rope.

The ONLY thing to be "learned" or "noted" from this ENTIRE thread, is that...

SOME (and not the majority/but some) of the "men" on this board, have lack of respect for women/and for their fellow hobbyist in general and it shows all over this board.



Well said! And I guess you feel as strongly about men that “have to” buy pussy too!

After following ASPD and ECCIE over the years, I can’t count how many providers I have seen hang themselves when given enough rope. Originally Posted by GymRat

DONT PUT WORDS IN MY MOUTH.. None of my post even come close to saying that. I have been around for years..I have been on this board for a short time... but you will not find one bad word to my name on ANY where. and I will be around for a looooonnnng time...

Never put words in your mouth. I was referring to to Busty Amy who seemed to have issues with men that buy pussy until she edited her post.

I would like to ask a question from JaD....if he would like to respond.

JaD, if you had a sibling....let's say, a sister....with approximately the same height and weight as....say, NIKKI, for example....would you call her "fat and ugly" in public....to get her to cut down on her calorie intake?

I would prefer a simple binary "Yes" or "No" answer.....and not one of those famous long-drawn sales pitches, where you are saying Yes and No at the same time.

Thick girls need love too...and money :-)

The thing to be learned from this thread is that no amont of "feeling comfortable with yourself" justifies you being in such a poor state of health. Nothing you can say can justify the personal laziness that you exhibit every day. I will not be quiet, and I will not keep my opinions to myself on this matter. I don't like fat providers, but as part of that, I don't like how society has brainwashed you all into thinking that being fat is "acceptable". It's not. The time for sugar coating courtesy is over.

You're fat, and you can change it very easily but choose not to.

I would prefer a simple binary "Yes" or "No" answer.....and not one of those famous long-drawn sales pitches, where you are saying Yes and No at the same time. Originally Posted by Sarunga

Why not just tell him "I'd just like you to say No and not give any other answer so I can use you to prove my point"?

When I go for a jog, I have great respect for anybody obese, male or female, who is doing their best, walking with purpose or trying to run. More respect than the fit 20 yr olds who rush past.

I have a bit less respect for those walking at a slow pace, they put more effort into their mouths than their legs, talking non-stop.

I have even less respect for those I don't see at all.

It's not a matter of how obese you are, it's a matter of how you are dealing with it.

I see a lot of double messages:

- I'm bbw/large and very happy with it, guys/girls are calling me all the time
- I'm going on a strict diet, got to get rid of 20 lbs
- I didn't use to be this big, but it's hard to get back to my younger days
- I'm not obese, some people are much bigger than me
- nobody wants a skinny girl/guy
- I really love obese guys/girls, they are my favourite clients/providers
- I have enormous self respect, I love the way i am
- I really must get to the gym more often
- shall we get another bottle of chardonnay?
- my family have always been big
- my aunt can't move about much now because of diabetes/stroke/heart problems/knee problems

This is all from the same person. Talk about denial.

Thick girls need love too...and money :-) Originally Posted by Sweet Discretion

If they got off their big ass and made themselves less thick, they might get what they want/need.

One thing i've noticed - self image can get stuck at what you were like at 21.

At 21 i was thin, so I think I am still thin, but my stomach is far from what it used to be. But I still think I am thin. The scales tell me different, but I still think I can eat as much steak as I want, because i am thin...

Also, a girl at 18-21 can be a bit curvy (take Beyonce as an example), and I like that a lot, she is curvy but tight, smooth skin, no wrinkles, no sign of cottage cheese, but then she doesn't work at it because she is 'gorgeous', has a kid, and then at 25 she is obese, her ass hangs out, she eats and drinks like a teenager, and no way back without determination.

Again, she is stuck at a self image at 21 and does not recognise that life has moved on.

I would like to ask a question from JaD....if he would like to respond.

JaD, if you had a sibling....let's say, a sister....with approximately the same height and weight as....say, NIKKI, for example....would you call her "fat and ugly" in public....to get her to cut down on her calorie intake?

I would prefer a simple binary "Yes" or "No" answer.....and not one of those famous long-drawn sales pitches, where you are saying Yes and No at the same time. Originally Posted by Sarunga

Not that it has any bering whatsoever to the context of this thread........

But No. Not like that. Not in public. But I am also not as brutally honest as Wakeup, or as passive and nice as some others. Would I tell her she was overweight & needed a change/lower calorie intake? Yes! Because I love her & worry about her well being and health, and it would be the truth. Are you saying you would NOT Sarunga? If no, do you think that really makes you a "Nicer" person, or someone who is turning a blind eye to inevitable doom?

Remember folks.... We are trying to assign tone to text & written words which is always a nearly impossible thing to get right....... People are free to voice their opinions on this board...... Just because one sees BBW, doesnt mean another isnt allowed to see "fat" which in turn he/she defines as "ugly". Is there a nicer, more PC way to say it? Yes. I personally find larger women unattractive. If Wakeup and some others had said it like that would it have been different?

I suggest folks take a bit of a step back and re evaluate what has been posted here...... There is a TON of really good stuff here, along with some very good back and forth...... We've been civil up to this point (for the most part) lets try and remain so and remain rational as well please......

JaD

JaD...that wasn't the "yes" or "no" answer Sarunga was trying to use to set you up...shame on you for not doing what he wanted...

Lol. Well..... I guess I'm an asshole like that....... It was not as simple as Yes or No..... Much like everything else in life....

JaD

Like most "addictions" or "compulsive" behavior having someone brutally or subtly point out the product ("end result ... if you'll pardon the pun), accomplishes little in motivating the addicted or compulsive person into addressing their affliction (or offensive behavior) and it will alienate usually.

But if it makes the person doing the criticizing feel better .. like they have done something for someone else .. even though they haven't ... then I guess in the scheme of things some good has been accomplished even though ineffective in improving the condition