Sugar daddies?

Oh hey, there are interesting conversations on here!

Nina, I understand what you're saying about data but just because reality is a social construct doesn't mean that identity or behavior always are. As you noted yourself, some of us very consciously create our lives. I guess I'm a day late and a dollar short for that conversation tho.

The sort of sugar daddie I had years ago (sort of because he didn't pay enough for true SD status) was awesome because he was in a related field and was able to give me great guidance and invest in my education. I'll also admit that I was young and loves that we'd have these looong email conversations all about me! LOL

More recently I had a sugar momma. The sex was free but the drama and mind games cost and eventually they became too much. Luckily my breaking her heart led her to her soulmate and now I'm almost forgotten.

First of all there are over 100 post to this thread and someone may have already addressed what I am about to say.

Simply put a Sugar Daddy is someone who takes care of ALL of your financial needs either via allowance arrangement or covering these expenses as they arrive. I personally prefer the allowance arrangement. I like to manage my needs as I see fit and not have make request to my SD. Rather it is a SD or a SM (Sugar Momma) the key is ALL your financial needs are met, meaning you do not need to escort or work any other job unless You want to. Anything other than that type of arrangement is pretty much a sponsor.

A sugar baby is not a financial strain on a real SD. Like I believe with hobbing, SD, or sponsoring, If you can't afford it or have to work out a budget for it leave it be. These things are luxuries. Just saying.

First of all there are over 100 post to this thread and someone may have already addressed what I am about to say.

Simply put a Sugar Daddy is someone who takes care of ALL of your financial needs either via allowance arrangement or covering these expenses as they arrive. I personally prefer the allowance arrangement. I like to manage my needs as I see fit and not have make request to my SD. Rather it is a SD or a SM (Sugar Momma) the key is ALL your financial needs are met, meaning you do not need to escort or work any other job unless You want to. Anything other than that type of arrangement is pretty much a sponsor.

A sugar baby is not a financial strain on a real SD. Like I believe with hobbing, SD, or sponsoring, If you can't afford it or have to work out a budget for it leave it be. These things are luxuries. Just saying. Originally Posted by beautifulbailey

well said!

It has to be mutually understood to the borders of what is too much, some girls can get confused with what the gentlemen really likes the extra attention or very poor attention, I have two sugar daddies in last two years and both were great expiriences/flings, we just wanted to have some fun and spoil each other. But fellas when you talk about being a sugar daddy be ready for the real thing and financially set so that discussing money or things doesn't become a issue or turn off. you already pay a small price for an session that is valued by infinity but just choose wisely and overall have fun

Ya'll have fun with em lol, because I couldn't do it. I am a small doses type gal, and the only SD I will ever have will be my husband...one day.

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I think that's the reason most of the ladies I have seen are more the sexy mom/MILF type. With a couple of exceptions, I just don't have a lot of good conversation with the younger ladies. But then again, 3 of my worst experiences have been with ladies 30+. Maybe I just need to shut up.... Originally Posted by pipefitter73