I have no way to see what is written about me via ECCIE. All I know is what is sent via email. It is true that what is posted could be vastly different from what is sent to me, but I would judge that it is not, as I look over the retelling of our time together to ensure accuracy. It seems to me that reviews are most useful when they are accurate. If what I read is judged to be accurate, why would someone change it to be less accurate? That said - no, I have no way of knowing for sure. I prefer to trust the men who I've allowed into my inner sanctum, and would hope they prove themselves worthy of that trust. Not every hobbyist is a full sack o'dicks.
Additionally, anyone who feels I have no right to know what is being said about me, good or bad, can exercise their right to never see me. I use my feedback to improve my services. That seems like it would be a GOOD thing. I can say without hesitation that my performance has improved vastly over the past seven months, which again, is a vast improvement over me as baby provider from twelve years ago (back when my performance was my version of terrible, yet still garnered corners of gents' minds that remained unswept for over a decade).
I understand there are some vindictive women out there - I'm not one of them. I am good natured, intelligent, and sweet. I like to think that comes across in my posts; it is definitely obvious in person. I also have a sense of humor, and can laugh at myself as well as others. I don't find myself to be terribly restrictive or unreasonable. Those who do are not required to see me. I certainly don't want to be a bother or a burden on anyone. This is supposed to be fun, after all.
Back on topic - I was present for the session with BP. I know exactly what happened and what didn't happen. He emailed me his depiction, and it was accurate to my experience of our time together. He could have edited it before posting it. As far as I'm concerned, sharing information prior to posting on a website is still obeying the letter of the law, if not the spirit, but that's my interpretation. I am not currently a moderator, although I've worn that hat before. I am, however, a fantastic provider and a wonderful woman, regardless of unasked for, non-negotiated rankings on silly lists. I could turn this into a threAD and say anyone with any doubts should just experience time with me to discover how accurate my reviews and advertising are, but that just seems over the top, so I won't do that.