Sayin No AA in Ads is somewhat offensive

As long as your opinion holds sway in the black community, it will continue to be dysfunctional, crime ridden, and a bunch of broke losers.

I'm not whining, BTW. I'm informing you people what you problem is. America is falling apart and no one has all the answers, but blaming whitey for the problems of the black community depends on a bunch of guilty white suckers to buy into the scam, and eventually most white folks will see it for what it is - a bunch of lazy scam artists not willing to work under reasonable terms. Originally Posted by DSK

funny thing is people in this forum may not know you DSK- but you know very well I do- and you are a JEW- you are not even speaking from a White man's perspective. Jews on a world wide basis are hated far more than Blacks- Jews control 1 freaking country in this world and are hated every where else- a Black man would stand a better chance in the middle east than you DK. In case anyone doesn't know DSK had a previous handle of Jewish Lawyer- he lost a bet to someone and came back as DSK.
DSK tell me how Jews are done worldwide- almost everyone that hates Blacks hates Jews- ex: KKK, NAZIS, White Aryan Nation etc- so stop trying to paint yourself as someone that you are not because you can't pull that crap with me. Jews are considered to be greedy, cheap, and the catalyst of the world's problems- so DSK you know the old story about people who live in glass houses? Actually on a worldwide basis you probably run into more people who hate Jews than Blacks- the whole middle east wants to eradicate jews off the face of the earth- jews are still not wanted in Germany and many other European countries.

I don't mind AA As long as theyre not a thug, and white men can be thugs too.
But I feel if an AA provider puts it it's because maybe she doesn't want to see someone she may know. But as far as the statement that "placing an ad is not a right it's a privilege" well seeing AA isn't a right either, just like if you were wanting to meet someone on an actual dating site, they have options not to be racist but to get what you like. If you didn't like big girls and u posted an ad on Craigslist looking for a date you would put your preference, like No Bbws. Etc. so it's not about being racist, 90% of the time it's bc most come from BP and they only know Thug Black Guys Not Respectable African American Men.

Every AA I have seen has been very sweet and respectful.
I have no problem with anyone as long as they are over the age of 27 , that's just me~

Maybe men should police the epidemic of violence and robbery against providers, especially in the South, by men. A disgusting epidemic. Is it worth a provider's life to be called a racist? How many times does someone have to be robbed and scammed? Screw that. Originally Posted by playwithkate

Fify, any empirical/statistical evidence to substantiate this claim of an "epidemic"?

funny thing is people in this forum may not know you DSK- but you know very well I do- and you are a JEW- you are not even speaking from a White man's perspective. Jews on a world wide basis are hated far more than Blacks- Jews control 1 freaking country in this world and are hated every where else- a Black man would stand a better chance in the middle east than you DK. In case anyone doesn't know DSK had a previous handle of Jewish Lawyer- he lost a bet to someone and came back as DSK.
DSK tell me how Jews are done worldwide- almost everyone that hates Blacks hates Jews- ex: KKK, NAZIS, White Aryan Nation etc- so stop trying to paint yourself as someone that you are not because you can't pull that crap with me. Jews are considered to be greedy, cheap, and the catalyst of the world's problems- so DSK you know the old story about people who live in glass houses? Actually on a worldwide basis you probably run into more people who hate Jews than Blacks- the whole middle east wants to eradicate jews off the face of the earth- jews are still not wanted in Germany and many other European countries. Originally Posted by wellendowed1911

Don't let a little bit of anti-Semitism cloud your judgment!!!

FYI: I am not JL

Doesn't matter anyway. Stop blaming others for the failure of the black community and you people should do just fine. White racists have no power these days.

Fify, any empirical/statistical evidence to substantiate this claim of an "epidemic"? Originally Posted by DarkeyKong

Try the crime statistics of the FBI.

Wow! This thread has escalated Quickly from the OP's origenal intent... As an inquisitive person the deeper meaning of the statement is "why"...

Why as a man of color am I limited in who I may see when those who are not of my Racial background not. I am not the "Thug, Pimp, gangster..." or whatever word you'd like to use; to which you refer, so why am I excluded by a quirk of birth... A genetic toss of the dice.

It really comes down to the providers discretion, and preference.

I am a black man that does not usually see Black providers, It's my choice.
I also prefer to see woman that want to see me. I feel that it's a better experience for me when she is as into the session as I am.

I can not be angry with a provider if she does not want to see me because of her choice. The experience would be tainted if you were to take the choice away from her in any way.

For the guys:
There may have been violence toward her from a black man in the past, maybe she just doesn't like black men... What ever her reason it's hers, respect it.

For the ladies:
The hurt doesn't come from the preference (at least for me) it comes from being Shut down from the get go. "No explanation. No reason for you, You are just another one of them."

DSK is by his own words very opinionated about race (and IMHO a racist). I don't know him from Adam, He may just be an alright kind of guy outside of this forum. He has not asked for me to speak in his favor, and I'm not so to speak. I don't agree with how he's said it, but I do agree with his root message. Things will not change for the Black community, until the Black community starts it for themselves... The problem is not ALL "the white man keeping us down" It is the "Us Keeping Us down."

How about the ladies start naming these guys, though.

It seems to be as if a random, unwatchable black is going around, being the perp ruining it for the rest of us.

Name him (them). What's their handle(s)?

If I were an unkind person, or one that is uncaring or compassionate to others I would not be a successful provider, which I am. I do not like hurting people's feelings, no matter who they are. It is unfortunate and true that there is such an epidemic of bad behavior. Ignoring it is not going to fix the problem and neither is being politically correct about it. It makes me angry.

I too have to agree....we as providers are here to give a service....yes we make the rules yes we can see who we want....but by advertising NO AA it's like being told u can't shop at walmart....i personally got sick of ppl asking me if I was AA friendly I put in my showcase I am an EQUAL OPPORTUNITY ESCORT. ...u respect me I respect you PERIOD....

Damn,

This thread has gotten longer than the shit stain I just put on a peice of toilet paper.

I need to catch up.

I have posted on this thread before.. I am not attracted to a black guys just like some hobbist dont see black providers. I'm not pimped,I'm college educated, I know a lot about business!!! Why would I put myself in a position for me or the guy to have a bad experience because they are not my cup if tea!! Come on! The only girls thinking its rasist have a black boyfriend or are into black guys. I'm simply not! Gezzz put it to rest if you like the chocolate then why are you complaining more for you duhhhh.

This tells me that as a white male the only reason a black providers will see me is because she needs to make money. Guess i will go back to normal dating. Originally Posted by Texanbychoice

Bwahaha! That is funny.

I have posted on this thread before.. I am not attracted to a black guys just like some hobbist dont see black providers. I'm not pimped,I'm college educated, I know a lot about business!!! Why would I put myself in a position for me or the guy to have a bad experience because they are not my cup if tea!! Come on! The only girls thinking its rasist have a black boyfriend or are into black guys. I'm simply not! Gezzz put it to rest if you like the chocolate then why are you complaining more for you duhhhh. Originally Posted by Holly Shields

Are you 'attracted' to Indians, Asians, Latino, Middle Easterners, Mexicans, etc?

What about REALLY, REALLY light skinned blacks?

Samoans?

White men with NO MONEY?

White men who are married to a black woman?


I was just curious.

I have posted on this thread before.. I am not attracted to a black guys just like some hobbist dont see black providers. I'm not pimped,I'm college educated, I know a lot about business!!! Why would I put myself in a position for me or the guy to have a bad experience because they are not my cup if tea!! Come on! The only girls thinking its rasist have a black boyfriend or are into black guys. I'm simply not! Gezzz put it to rest if you like the chocolate then why are you complaining more for you duhhhh. Originally Posted by Holly Shields

You really crack me - ok yeah no problem if you are not attracted to black me, but are you telling me you are attracted to the 60 year old over weight fart with the 4 inch penis ? Who are you fooling ? Let's be honest your average client isn't a Brad Pitt stud look alike and please spare me the laughter - I guess your college educated self got in this business to screw the hottest men that will walk through your door !
So answer this question - do you turn away the morbid obese white guy who schedules with you and you know you are not physically attractive to him? Surely you are not going to tell us you been attractive to every white guy you have seen in this business ?