Do you negotiate?

Jules Jaguar's Avatar
It's just wonderful how you all talk to and treat women...
  • !VI!
  • 11-14-2015, 09:17 AM
So not even gonna lie, I could care less about this conversation because 9/10 if you negotiate with me I'm just gonna give you less time. If you can afford my rate and for some reason are choosing not to pay it that means I need to be considerate of your money and my time. Don't like it? See somebody else lol.
MaxiMilyen's Avatar
NOTHING worse than an old bitter whore, telling us how the world used to work in her era, and thinking its still the same....she's a courtesan don't you know....I wonder how many cats she has? imho I think its twelve and she brags they're all rescues.....that's how it looks from this casual observer anyways Originally Posted by Tony Gambino

Eh...what's that you say, Sonny? Where is that rascally putty tat and has anyone seen my Tweety Bird?

You get a C- for at least adding something that had a little comedic value. Move to the head of the class. Ya could have added something about being a "hoarder" as that would have really added the "punny" factor, driving your less than original insults, home. I'll not recommend you for the short bus just yet, but your delivery and originality could use some work.

Ok Larry, Moe, and Curly... You may now go outside to play in the schoolyard. Take your dunce caps as a reminder of our time together. You've been schooled and as expected, two of you totally failed. I'm very disappointed in your lack of talent as I am certain many ladies before me, have been. smh Make any lady smile or laugh and the world is your oyster. I'm not really surprised and your parents will be receiving a note for your immediate reassignment.

I'm disappointed to have to announce to all in the land of ECCIE that once again you are denied the "Man" card. One last piece of advice, not that egotistical Clown failures need advice, but I am always happy to try and help those with special needs. Don't be trying to bully the girls on the playground at your next special needs school, cause they don't play nice with bullies. Your welcome, and good luck in your future endeavors. Those with no real game can only ever count on luck, and I suppose negotiation.

(Don't rub your grade in their faces, T.G., as you're on probation and are going to have to work much harder than ya ever have before if ya wanna graduate from MaxiMilyen's exclusive academy of Clowns to Men.)

BLM69's Avatar
  • BLM69
  • 11-14-2015, 09:41 AM
It's just wonderful how you all talk to and treat women... Originally Posted by Jules Jaguar
I'm responding to MM in that matter after her personal attacks, i'm really a nice guy, ask around

So not even gonna lie, I could care less about this conversation because 9/10 if you negotiate with me I'm just gonna give you less time. If you can afford my rate and for some reason are choosing not to pay it that means I need to be considerate of your money and my time. Don't like it? See somebody else lol. Originally Posted by !VI!
If those are your terms, there's is nothing wrong with it, the client negotiating will decide to see you or move on.
Randall Creed's Avatar
It's just wonderful how you all talk to and treat women... Originally Posted by Jules Jaguar

I love all women...some just more than others.
MaxiMilyen's Avatar
I have a question ladies. Have any of you ever been the target of boys in a negotiation thread and then all of a sudden, someone is trying to change your backpage password? Hmmm....I bet it's just a coincidence. Never mind me

lmao

Before another boy starts jacking with any other account they may find out there. Ask yourself if the lady will take it as some kind of threat or warning or whatever. Or, if she will come back and let others know how little boys play. Ummm......Who did ya think was going to get the notification? LOL Grow up....ya couldn't be any more childish if ya tried. I'm not accusing any one person directly, so don't get your Ninja Turtle undies in a twist. But, just so you don't encourage each other and if it happens to other ladies, we can get together and kinda figure it out. There are not tons of suspects. Or, I could get with Backpage, ask for the IP, etc, etc. Granny may not play sexually with kids, but she does have game and she knows some folks too....do ya really wanna play?
Randall Creed's Avatar
How about this....

MaxiMilyen's Avatar
How about this....

Originally Posted by Rambro Creed

Who doesn't have a soft spot for a fella without a clue? One of my all time fav cartoon characters...he's just funny and accepting. One goal, and while he is limited in his thoughts, he's never defensive or childish.

He never asked for a discount or freebie that I can recall though... Just an advance. LOL
BLM69's Avatar
  • BLM69
  • 11-14-2015, 12:47 PM
I just got a parking ticket, must be something to do with a internet disagreement LOL I will investigate this matter with a bunch of guys in here, Its a conspiracy I tell you!

I thought BP women were for the bottom feeders and the cheapskates? Street walking is right around the corner. I thought it was over with the looney tunes finally, MM couldn't help herself to stay away, come to daddy LOL
MaxiMilyen's Avatar
I just got a parking ticket, must be something to do with a internet disagreement LOL I will investigate this matter with a bunch of guys in here, Its a conspiracy I tell you!

I thought BP women were for the bottom feeders and the cheapskates? Street walking is right around the corner. I thought it was over with the looney tunes finally, MM couldn't help herself to stay away, come to daddy LOL Originally Posted by biglatinmale
I am gonna give you a little info, apparently you just don't know. Some of us are experienced and not easily intimidated. I would have thought you had discovered this about me, if no one else ever you have encountered. There are reasons I can not be cotton candy and bubble gum kisses 24/7, and people like you are only one of those reasons.

You need to learn that you do not know everything, and that your ego is going to encounter people like me who, although we have no desire to pull you out of an illusion you have, we gotta. This is because, we get tired of idiots steam rolling over who we are. I am not like everyone else or everyone else would respond to you as I do. I learned already many many times, that if I keep my mouth shut and let things like this just go, because it's not worth it to argue with you, then I allow you to direct how others view me and I am responsible for my business, not you. So, please, likable as you are, this is not a likable quality to a business owner such as myself. You don't have the right, because you just don't have a clue who you are yet, much less me or any other lady out here.

I don't care how you conduct business with ladies, but I sure as shinola, do not want anyone contacting me, and telling me immediately I am not worth what I post, nor do I wish to be sweetly conned into giving discounts. However a man approaches it...it still says, I do not value you. When you become a woman who does this for a living, then maybe you will relate. Until then, you need to jump out of your "It's all about me" world and think about what it is you share.

Trying to discredit me does not work, because I don't lie. Discussing why I may conclude what you did, might in fact change my truth. In this case, not so much. Do me and you a favor, and leave it alone. I am more experienced than you, am willing to discuss without bashing, and sorry, but you are not credible about this. You lost your credibility the first 5 times I tried to get through to you. Be still and think. Either leave it alone, apologize and say you understand, or move along. All are acceptable alternatives and I really hope you choose on of those, rather than what you have been choosing.

Nothing argumentative and slanderous to my character that you might add will make you the winner here. What about me telling you this, do you not understand? I really want you to get it. Ask a question or share your thoughts. Otherwise, go outside and play or pay the imaginary ticket you got...I dunno. I didn't accuse you of messing with the backpage account I do have, but someone did, and I am not an air head, even if you believe all women are. But this....is ludicrous. Not even funny anymore, and your flopping around like a fish outta water with everyone watching....

Gosh...even though I told you, I feel bad for you and hate you pulled me into doing it, but stay out of my biz and other ladies biz and please stop being so childish if you want to hang out with us. I don't think it's too much to ask without getting attacked. Not sure why you believe, as nice as you are or keeping telling everyone you are, that you keep choosing to be not so nice. I'll give it to ya in spades, because I understand these stupid games, but they bore me to friggin' pieces.
BLM69's Avatar
  • BLM69
  • 11-14-2015, 02:24 PM
I am gonna give you a little info, apparently you just don't know. Some of us are experienced and not easily intimidated. I would have thought you had discovered this about me, if no one else ever you have encountered. There are reasons I can not be cotton candy and bubble gum kisses 24/7, and people like you are only one of those reasons.

You need to learn that you do not know everything, and that your ego is going to encounter people like me who, although we have no desire to pull you out of an illusion you have, we gotta. This is because, we get tired of idiots steam rolling over who we are. I am not like everyone else or everyone else would respond to you as I do. I learned already many many times, that if I keep my mouth shut and let things like this just go, because it's not worth it to argue with you, then I allow you to direct how others view me and I am responsible for my business, not you. So, please, likable as you are, this is not a likable quality to a business owner such as myself. You don't have the right, because you just don't have a clue who you are yet, much less me or any other lady out here.

I don't care how you conduct business with ladies, but I sure as shinola, do not want anyone contacting me, and telling me immediately I am not worth what I post, nor do I wish to be sweetly conned into giving discounts. However a man approaches it...it still says, I do not value you. When you become a woman who does this for a living, then maybe you will relate. Until then, you need to jump out of your "It's all about me" world and think about what it is you share.

Trying to discredit me does not work, because I don't lie. Discussing why I may conclude what you did, might in fact change my truth. In this case, not so much. Do me and you a favor, and leave it alone. I am more experienced than you, am willing to discuss without bashing, and sorry, but you are not credible about this. You lost your credibility the first 5 times I tried to get through to you. Be still and think. Either leave it alone, apologize and say you understand, or move along. All are acceptable alternatives and I really hope you choose on of those, rather than what you have been choosing.

Nothing argumentative and slanderous to my character that you might add will make you the winner here. What about me telling you this, do you not understand? I really want you to get it. Ask a question or share your thoughts. Otherwise, go outside and play or pay the imaginary ticket you got...I dunno. I didn't accuse you of messing with the backpage account I do have, but someone did, and I am not an air head, even if you believe all women are. But this....is ludicrous. Not even funny anymore, and your flopping around like a fish outta water with everyone watching....

Gosh...even though I told you, I feel bad for you and hate you pulled me into doing it, but stay out of my biz and other ladies biz and please stop being so childish if you want to hang out with us. I don't think it's too much to ask without getting attacked. Not sure why you believe, as nice as you are or keeping telling everyone you are, that you keep choosing to be not so nice. I'll give it to ya in spades, because I understand these stupid games, but they bore me to friggin' pieces. Originally Posted by MaxiMilyen
ill leave it alone granny, Just to be clear, I don't have a issue with any other provider! so stop with the "leave us alone" or "come play with us" crap, I don't see anyone agreeing with your actions or way of thinking in here, This is between you and I.

I could care less about your business or anything you have to say! Me apologize? You lost your mind MM. I'm done unless you have more insults for me and we can keep going. balls in your court

I apologize to the OP that this thread got out of hand with drama, lets get back to the topic and appreciate the ladies that have offered me discounted sessions
There are not tons of suspects. Originally Posted by MaxiMilyen
Actually there are thousands of suspects.

Anyone who read this thread (member or not) and didn't like what you posted or anyone who saw an opportunity to poke your cage for a quick laugh could have tried to login to your account.

Assuming it was anyone on this thread is totally naive. It was probably someone who isn't even a member here and just lurks.
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ill leave it alone granny, Just to be clear, I don't have a issue with any other provider! so stop with the "leave us alone" or "come play with us" crap, I don't see anyone agreeing with your actions or way of thinking in here, This is between you and I.

I could care less about your business or anything you have to say! Me apologize? You lost your mind MM. I'm done unless you have more insults for me and we can keep going. balls in your court

I apologize to the OP that this thread got out of hand with drama, lets get back to the topic and appreciate the ladies that have offered me discounted sessions Originally Posted by biglatinmale
Ya didn't see Reese do it...I sure did. She came on all honey and sugar and says she negotiates. You thanked her kindly and she started back peddling, qualifying, and explaining she didn't want to do that all time. I guess it depends on what she needs to make that month.

Once you had contacted her, she saw the handwriting on the wall. Here is what is going to happen if it hasn't already and what she saw would happen, when she thought about it a little more. and understood she need to qualify her whole I'll negotiate statement. Guys will see that one post and stop immediately and start her hustling or hassling her for a discount. They may even read the one where she qualified her first statement, but their eyes will glaze over as if they didn't see it all. I hate that, but I know that's exactly what would happen to me.

You're such a nice....pfft. Don't lie to yourself, pal. Because on here, you are letting your ego drive the bus.

Actually there are thousands of suspects.

Anyone who read this thread (member or not) and didn't like what you posted or anyone who saw an opportunity to poke your cage for a quick laugh could have tried to login to your account.

Assuming it was anyone on this thread is totally naive. It was probably someone who isn't even a member here and just lurks. Originally Posted by thathottnurse
I don't like to be rude to ladies in public, because I understand what it might do to someone's biz, hon. You need to back off of me....cause you only hurt yourself too. Sooo, miss one liner who didn't think her own biz or any other lady's biz here was worth an effort to explain to this guy what's up when he says things he doesn't have a clue about.... Rather than trying to get my goad, simply pay attention and maybe you too will learn something. Don't be afraid to PM me, so you can thoroughly explain yourself when you correct what I had to say or even if you just want to accuse of me of things you think I do that you seem to find offensive, or even that I don't do. Make it light on yourself.

It doesn't make a hill of beans, but it sure doesn't look great for a few folks even if they had nothing to do with it. Wanna know why that is? Figure it out, since you have more answers than I, yet are not quite as willing to share as I do.

Seriously, pull up your slip, I can see it from here. good grief...smh

I apologize to the OP of this thread and thanks for speaking up. However, I don't really appreciate so many ladies constantly cowering down. If you gotta dicker with guys day in and day out, it's your own fault, because you don't want to get cursed at by this guy's ego? He ain't worth it, but ALL the BS you gotta put up with is because you or no one else said, hey...wait minute. OK I can completely understand why that might be, more than you know. You gotta do what you think is best. I always wish ya the best, cause I understand what you have to deal with, along with the fun stuff. More fun, and less devaluing the ladies, I say. Even if I gotta take a cursing in order to make it happen for myself and maybe some of you too. LOL Works for me, but maybe not so much for you. I apologize if I stopped one gent from making anyone feel less than they are.....my bad. I'm a selfish B at times though.
Just to steer this back on subject... from my experience the only thing typically negotiiable is overnights. And this is after a trust has usually been built between both parties. I would never ask for lower rates on hrs , because personally I feel it's not respectful. I've had discounts applied in the room though, where a certain amount was given back, and my jaw hit the floor. First time that happened I was a little mindblown.
Ya didn't see Reese do it...I sure did. She came on all honey and sugar and says she negotiates. You thanked her kindly and she started back peddling, qualifying, and explaining she didn't want to do that all time. I guess it depends on what she needs to make that month.

Once you had contacted her, she saw the handwriting on the wall. Here is what is going to happen if it hasn't already and what she saw would happen, when she thought about it a little more. and understood she need to qualify her whole I'll negotiate statement. Guys will see that one post and stop immediately and start her hustling or hassling her for a discount. They may even read the one where she qualified her first statement, but their eyes will glaze over as if they didn't see it all. I hate that, but I know that's exactly what would happen to me.
Originally Posted by MaxiMilyen
I'm always Honey and Sugar.. thank you very much.

It has nothing to do with what I need to make that month...and everything to do with enjoying this hobby and not thinking I am too good to offer a hand to a sincere gentleman. (Not saying ladies that don't sometimes negotiate, feel that way.) In fact, I have offered huge discounts at times..just because I appreciate these guys and the fact that they chose me out of hundreds of ladies.

I don't really think it is fair for you to speak for me. I have yet to receive one PM or email requesting anything other than my time when I come to town next week.
Give the guys here some credit.. the good guys far outweigh the assholes.

I would rather meet a nice guy that may need a little discount, than a time wasting, immature jerk any day.

Just like a guy can contact me and ask for a discount.. I can say no. I don't mind getting Pm's. Like I said, I actually enjoy the hobby and the people I meet. The ignore option is always available if I feel harassed.

Anyway, please keep me out of your drama. You really aren't proving any points to the one you are arguing with. He is who he is and obviously has been successful at it. All this drama... makes things suck in a really bad way around here.


Guys, if you negotiate just because that is what you do....then more power to you. If you find ladies to play along.. great! Just don't be a jerk about it.