Like most "addictions" or "compulsive" behavior having someone brutally or subtly point out the product ("end result ... if you'll pardon the pun), accomplishes little in motivating the addicted or compulsive person into addressing their affliction (or offensive behavior) and it will alienate usually.Worth quoting...
But if it makes the person doing the criticizing feel better .. like they have done something for someone else .. even though they haven't ... then I guess in the scheme of things some good has been accomplished even though ineffective in improving the condition Originally Posted by LexusLover
Nothing brings the drama like putting down fat chicks! Originally Posted by BlackMistressOur country is fat .... it's not about "chicks" ..... it's expensive to everyone.
At least you grasp the concept. I don't give a flying fuck what you people think about me, or how upset I make you. I teach from the Socratic school of thought. If you're too dumb to learn it yourself, I'm going to embarrass or anger you enough to do what's right...
Whatever it takes... Originally Posted by Wakeuр
Our country is fat .... it's not about "chicks" ..... it's expensive to everyone.Although i understand what you are saying and agree with it exactly how are they a burden to me?
I happen to believe that each one owes a responsibility to the community to minimize their "foot print" on the burden of the others in the community, rather than shifiting their responsibilities to themselves to others, who already have their plate full.
If each person took care of their own "stuff" ... the "others" would not have to step in and carry their "mail" for them. That's how one shrinks government. Originally Posted by LexusLover