when should the session timer start and or end?

this one time this talking went on for like 20-30 min, she was giving me her life story or something. we finally get things going and like 20 min into it she tell me "you almost done it's almost time"]

This usually doesn't happen unless the client is inquiring about the lady to prompt her into talking about herself. Personally, if the client wants to know anything about me, I sometimes pick and choose what I feel comfortable with sharing, but it's usually during a little rest period while we may be relaxing when while on the clock. If this ever happens again, try kissing her and rubbing her back, it will distract her and prompt into more pleasureable activities. I take it as she was trying to make you feel at home to get over the nervousness, but I could be wrong.
Originally Posted by asnbtdwn

2 same thing but opposite way....provider was a MSOG...donaiton was for an hour and i rang the bell at the 35 ish min mark and she cleaned us both off and put on her cloths like we were done and i should go.[/quote]

Did she ask you to leave 35 minutes into the session? If so, that is wrong if you paid for the full hour. If you had only paid for an 1/2 hour, then I could understand.

Time should start when you walk in the door, but damn we are not asking you to come right in and drop your pants. We are human.

Now as far the MSOG provider, life is about choices, have your mind made up before you get in the door for an hour appt, do you want to chat it up for 30 mins and hope for the best or chat it up for 5-10mins and get the ball to rolling. Your choice.

As far as the provider leaving after 35mins, and the appt was for an hour, you got robbed. Originally Posted by lisa.lisa0302

Agreed on the robbing part!

Generally, the time starts the minute you arrive for your appointment. As stated by some of the gentleman here, some prefer a short 10-15 min chit chat "get to know". It makes them feel like there is in fact a connection to the lady they are seeing. Not every gentleman is the same though. Now, if you have a lady who is peeking her head up constantly to watch a clock, or starts looking at her wrist watch during playtime, well yea.. big turn off. There are many ways a lady can keep track of time tactfully without making it a distraction.

In all honesty though, it is more likely that most gentleman will be the one trying to drag out the time. That happens more often then not.

The men who are conscientious of a ladies time are very much appreciated!

My advice is... if you want to skip the talking and get straight down to the nitty gritty... as soon as she walks in, throw the donation and your ID down on the table, strip down naked and start jacking off. Lol. Then she can quickly count the money and check your ID and I promise that she will take the hint that you are ready to get down on it as quickly as possible. Originally Posted by LAVixian

How can you argue with that.

I understand that we are talking mostly about the hour session and the ladies D.E.W. say they charge by TIME. So the ladies should be available for the full TIME that you book.

I think the reason why many are so watchful of time is the guys who BOOK 30 min but stay an hour or I have even heard 1 1/2 hours. OK that is just NOT cool. If you book 30 min. yes the activities should start within 5 min and out pretty close to the 30 min mark.

If the guys aren't willing to do that then they should book the hour session. After the 1st time (ladies do need some time to get comfy in their minds) then meet with her more often and I bet the good stuff happens quicker the 2nd time.

On the reverse side I once heard that a driver took a hooker to an outcall where the guy was in a wheelchair. She was back in 5 min. I thought it despicable of her.

Trouser, The lady that you tried to move on was horrible, esp. since you told her ahead of time that you were pushed for time. (And paragraphs are your friends, it is easier to read your story if you please would use a few.)

personally I do my intro talking on the phone before they get there, then I already have my mental connections. Once there 5 min or so chit chat and then move on to the back. But my situation is a little different because as FBSM I'm AM booking my sessions closer together than a GFE will. and Yes, I keep pretty close to the time.

Sometimes it has gone faster and I always feel bad about that.

Dagny, they get offended when you call the "hookers"............I know...............but, feel free to go share that hooker/wheelchair story in our "slap your mama" threAD.........it would be very appropriate there.

I used the term hooker because any gal (I won't say lady) who did that to a guy in a wheelchair deserves the term.

I usually say ladies, and sometimes providers. Mostly I use ladies but then most here are ladies. That one in my story...... not so much.

As for your other thread, I don't look around in Houston, was just pointed to this thread from somewhere else, but thanks anyway.

Lets say your appointment is for 2pm - 3pm.... Your time starts at 2pm and your time ends at 3pm...if you get more time, lucky you..but DONT expect it......

....and if you OVER stayed and she asks for a little more then you SHOULD pay....if she doesn't ask then she is letting you slide..... Originally Posted by allofamber

What's the point of an appointment if it doesn't start & end at a set time? If you're payment is for her time -- you should respect the time frame given to you.

I didnt read the rest of the responses. But I agree with this one.

As long as she doesn't start the time before I arrive, it's all good.

If I walk in and she already has the strap-on strapped on..........she started without me.

Chynadoll and camillemorgan have been adamantly trying to express the same point.

Chinadoll has all the guys in this thread admiring her, falling in love with her, and begging her to come to Houston.

Camillemorgan has basically offended and pissed everyone off.

I guess it's true what the say. It's not what you say it's how you say it. Originally Posted by Tony Montana

As I underdstand your point of view & everyone's else on here. That was my point. As I am adult & can understand people's point of view & disagree I expect the same in return. I didn't ask anyone on here to agree with me.

My original post wasn't offensive....however, certain comments made to me (which people I suppose chose to ignore) were offensive..I.E. the lazy comment...& the comment about if it wasn't highlighted she wouldn't have saw it. Is that Offensive stuff ignored.... IS that not personally attacking me. He doesn't know me to make deragatory comments. So in all fairness...which people can't seem to be.... if your going to put something out there....don't slant the story...say the whole thing.

If everyone fell in love with CD for whatever she said...that's great. However judging from the comments...there Is also something else going on here. Read between the lines.

But at the end of the day.....I wanted to stay on Topic...no go off about BS. & whomever didn't/doesn't like me because of that...that's their right. As I also have the right to be Offended & Pissed Off Just Like EveryOne else.

Good lord Camille I bet your clients had a rough time with you as you have been pissed off going on 2 days now lol.

Good lord Camille I bet your clients had a rough time with you as you have been pissed off going on 2 days now lol. Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

Actually I haven't been pissed of the entire time I have responded.

I just stand up for myself. I think that people need to respect other no matter if they agree or disagree.

cM, I'm not offended that you are offended at my remarks about your remarks concerning someone elses comments..........nor am I pissed off that you are pissed off at my suggestion that you are lazy...........welcome to the big show........you are not in Kansas anymore...........we do not have upstate Mods..........this is the wild west of eccie.

As you have pointed out........your time is yours.......if you want to spend it in Houston, don't let anyone tell you to do otherwise..........even if CD is better at this than you are.............

Well I for one respect ya . We try to keep things bit on the lighter side if it's possible. Where's the OP in all this? I haven't seen much response from them lol

cM, I'm not offended that you are offended at my remarks about your remarks concerning someone elses comments..........nor am I pissed off that you are pissed off at my suggestion that you are lazy...........welcome to the big show........you are not in Kansas anymore...........we do not have upstate Mods..........this is the wild west of eccie.

As you have pointed out........your time is yours.......if you want to spend it in Houston, don't let anyone tell you to do otherwise..........even if CD is better at this than you are............. Originally Posted by dearhunter

As I said before you are entitled to your opinion. My suggestion about you is your ignorant & LAZY. And I am not offended that you are or not offended. I could care less. Because I gave you respect but obviously....you don't deserve it.....because you can't respect. I don't care who you think is better at something than I am. Because YOU DON'T COUNT. Yes I said it.

Because if want to get down to the nitty gritty...we will never cross paths. And that's fine with me...& Im sure it's fine with you. This is directed at you. I now exactly where I am.......and your not in High school anymore...or maybe u are. I don't need a MOD or anyone else to take up for me. ...I don't think it's anything left to say.

But I am not mad at anything....never was.