what are you doing when you're
dating someone? It means something different depending on what kind of person. Are you looking for a PARTNER in life?
Most people aren't. Most people's definition of dating is two people perpetually using each other. I've known providers very intimately for long periods of time and the truth with all of them is they have no concept of what "love" or loving is about. You may as well be talking about quantum computing for all they know. They either come from broken home/relationships and/or the strip club life....its all about the hustle of getting something from someone. Their idea of "dating" is just someone they're willing to fuck for free.
It may sound fucked up, but then again, that's the general populace and not just prostitutes.
IF you're seeking a relationship of a PARTNERSHIP, then you're seeking a 'better half' situation where you know you can trust this person with money/dreams/emotions. What providers have you seen that you would feel comfortable letting them hold a couple thousand for you?
If you're not seeking a PARTNERSHIP, then what do you really want out of the relationship? Some affirmation, someone to spend time with, someone to fuck? Eh...... you can get that from hookers and not have any of the fucking day-to-day bullshit of dating a woman, which really amounts to raising a fucking toddler.