Have we decided to forgo the rules in favor of hostility?

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Lexie, read my second quote in my signature. The guy you answered is one of those who troll from city to city looking for shit to start. By now it's well known that the Houston forums are the wild wild west with minimal moderation, and they can get their keyboard warrior fixes here. Originally Posted by DEAR_JOHN
Does amishgangster count as a outsider if Pistolero was a mod in that area where amishgangster is from? Pistolero recently stopped being a mod there btw.

Pistolero has done fill-in duty in Upset NY where I am from.
So in reality is anyone on eccie a outsider if posting on eccie?

as Chica Chaser does most of the fill-in duty now in Upset NY,
I do not think of him as a outsider.
If fact seems better than the Upset NY mods that live in Upset NY.

just askin

edit add:
DickEmDown seems to be liked as a mod where amishgangster posts the most.
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  • 06-28-2014, 10:09 AM



Most accurate thing you've said so far.

Originally Posted by Fancyinheels
You can't ask for civility and then turn around and poke people back in the eye. Well you can but it is hypocritical.

That is the passive/aggressive bs I was speaking of.

If in fact you really want civility, then you have to act civil at all times.

Why should the folks you are asking to act civil , act civil towards you if you and Dear John and others do not act civil towards them?

You may never get them/me to act as you want and vice versa but you do control the way you act, if you come on here as a hypocrite like OH has, you lose all credibility toward your stated goal of civility.

You have to be like baby Jesus and turn the other cheek and even then you'll probably wind up hung on a cross!

But to be true to one's self you have to walk the talk.
Lazy? Not on your life. See how you assume the worst of people so easily?

I'm still new here. Some fat fucker from Austin taught me to do that. Originally Posted by JohnnyYanks
I said it is the lazy way to respond. As in the person answering your retort has to go in and make a rainbow to address your points. It's not an email where you can just insert your comments in a different color and hit send.

I didn't say you were lazy. I don't know fuck all about you. You could be a prince of a guy, I'd still think the way your retorted is a pain in my ass.

That's what you want, don't you, the attention of providers on and off the board? Originally Posted by Fancyinheels
OH! There you go! Ding, Ding, Ding – Winner, Winner – Chicken Dinner

I come here to dehumanize women and stroke my own ego that very much exists in the real world... Originally Posted by Wakeup
You've proved my point. Thank you. Sincerely. You’re right it does. But online is the only place where you matter. And you never mattered to me. I got mine with or without the help or hindrance of hobby lifers. But this just proves my point. There is no moderation of the guidelines otherwise this statement wouldn’t be true.

If this culsterfuck thread causes Eccie's servers to crash I'm going to be pissed Originally Posted by Brooke Wilde
I thought we were all having a good time. I’m enjoying watching Houston’s hobby lifer scene get their panties in a wad over lil ole me and that bad ass Fancy!

…… almost nothing hurts my feeling. Originally Posted by Brooke Wilde
This I agree with. They are searching high and low to find my weak spot. Never happen. I could give a shit that LD thinks that’s a shitty picture of me. I could give a shit if dumbasses that hobby and hate whores all in one breath call me old, fat, ugly whatever. Doesn’t make it true. It doesn’t make them relevant in my life, but me starting this tread makes me relevant in their lives - TFF.

Fancy, my Pet’s trying to get your attention and be relevant or something.

So, what do we have going on here? Only one legitimate response from the whore-hating whore-mongers and their slave straphangers? Made by Peachez?!?! Sad, but onward we go to the dawn and constructive conversations with JohnnyYank, Valarie – should she care to return, Fancy, DEAR_JOHN, offshoredriling (Cuz I luves him ), Lexieinhouston, believe it or not, Brooke and anyone else who cares to join in. Moderators perhaps? I mean other than the lame “I swear I give points. I do. I do. I do.” by Pisterelo, reindeer games by Jusadude, and ban counts and lengths by others.
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Valarie – should she care to return, Fancy, DEAR_JOHN, offshoredriling (Cuz I luves him ), Lexieinhouston, believe it or not, Brooke and anyone else who cares to join in. Moderators perhaps? I mean other than the lame “I swear I give points. I do. I do. I do.” by Pisterelo, reindeer games by Jusadude, and ban counts and lengths by others. Originally Posted by OliviaHoward
I've made my thoughts known on several occasions.

There is no way in hell I would be a mod on the Houston forums. If (at one time) I were to have been a mod, I would've resigned rather than have my name attached as a mod in the Houston forums. No way would anybody look at all the bullying etc. and see me having some sort of control over it, while I sat idly by on my ass watching Rome burn.

..............and here come the mighty few to protect their turf. Just wait, they'll be here.

I've always felt that moderation affects about 5%-10% of the members, those who would be pointed or banned. The rest of the members just want a place to converse with like minded people and to be able to converse in peace with those who took on an adult like posting manner.
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You can't ask for civility and then turn around and poke people back in the eye. Well you can but it is hypocritical.

That is the passive/aggressive bs I was speaking of.

If in fact you really want civility, then you have to act civil at all times.

Why should the folks you are asking to act civil , act civil towards you if you and Dear John and others do not act civil towards them?

You may never get them/me to act as you want and vice versa but you do control the way you act, if you come on here as a hypocrite like OH has, you lose all credibility toward your stated goal of civility.

You have to be like baby Jesus and turn the other cheek and even then you'll probably wind up hung on a cross!

But to be true to one's self you have to walk the talk. Originally Posted by WTF
Oh, my, dear Wakeup would be disappointed if I didn't jab back at him once in a while. Wouldn't want me to let him down, would you?



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Originally Posted by Fancyinheels


Fact:
This place loses potential members because it appears intolerant and uncontrolled. (At least a dozen of my clients have told me RECENTLY that after perusing ECCIE, they wouldn't even consider joining due to the turmoil and outright disrespect, and they would absolutely never, ever write a review. Let also not forgot gents and providers who were driven away due to someone's else's ill-conceived behavior.
I have heard the same thing.
dang nab it, I will never get a reviewed for being a actor in a live porn show.

I tried to tell the clients if my handle is in the review I can not or will not post in that review. Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

So, what do we have going on here? Only one legitimate response from the whore-hating whore-mongers and their slave straphangers? Made by Peachez?!?! Sad, but onward we go to the dawn and constructive conversations with JohnnyYank, Valarie – should she care to return, Fancy, DEAR_JOHN, offshoredriling (Cuz I luves him ), Lexieinhouston, believe it or not, Brooke and anyone else who cares to join in. Moderators perhaps? I mean other than the lame “I swear I give points. I do. I do. I do.” by Pisterelo, reindeer games by Jusadude, and ban counts and lengths by others. Originally Posted by OliviaHoward
So guess I will never get that review being paid to do a few whore's in some live porn shows. They can't take the ribbing of you paid what(her rate + 1/4 more{for setting up} to her + 1/4 her rate to me)too watch a whore get fucked by another john.

If they can't take the ribbing, should they be on a SHMB?

dang nab it I want that review, even if a "NO" on my part.
If they can't take the ribbing, should they be on a SHMB? Originally Posted by offshoredrilling
Ribbing is different than bullying.
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  • 06-28-2014, 11:44 AM
Oh, my, dear Wakeup would be disappointed if I didn't jab back at him once in a while. Wouldn't want me to let him down, would you?



Originally Posted by Fancyinheels
I think you are sadly mistaken if you think wakeup is let down by anything any of us post on here. That has been you Dear John and others problem....you are reacting to others instead of your own moral fiber.....or are you. Hmmmmm
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  • 06-28-2014, 11:46 AM
Ribbing is different than bullying. Originally Posted by OliviaHoward
This isn't a junior high forum .... you are the worst offender in this thread on cyber bulling so you lack in credibility in that department.

This is like a argument if the name Redskins is offensive.

You want certain rules enforced the way you and Fancy want them enforced but you want the Mods to overlook your infractions of said rules.

Back on aspd you had your way ...and had people banned. The difference with the other side is they are not asking for your ban. You can hate on them, talk shit about them, they just laugh. They do not ask for you to speak civil to them like you ask of them while mocking their intelligence with these passive/aggressive stance of do as I say and not as I do.

When your side had the moderators in your panties, you had members banned for speaking their mind....these moderators are letting you talk shit about them and not banning you.

Why do you think the general poster likes this much more fair style of moderating?

You ladies and gents are wanting to be the thought police.
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I'm intrigued DJ...if you were a moderator, who would you have banned by now?
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  • 06-28-2014, 12:43 PM

I've always felt that moderation affects about 5%-10% of the members, those who would be pointed or banned. The rest of the members just want a place to converse with like minded people and to be able to converse in peace with those who took on an adult like posting manner. Originally Posted by DEAR_JOHN
Those 5-10% moderate the board from becoming a one way advertising fest where every other thread would be , "Does such and such make my hips look big?"

You have been around long enough to know that each sides' radicals cancel each other out. Every creature has a purpose in the eco system of eccie or a whore board, which ever you prefer.

wakeup cancels out Ole Ho... a win win.
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  • 06-28-2014, 12:50 PM
I'm intrigued DJ...if you were a moderator, who would you have banned by now? Originally Posted by Wakeup
That's easy...who ever didn't give him free pussy and who ever complained about him getting it!

Sorry DJ , couldn't help jabbing at moderators in general.


I would ban the next person who started a retarded thread like this and the thread starter of this one.
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To reiterate, I NEVER said that I wanted the mods or owners to do ANYTHING. I just want members to be a wee bit more pleasant and tolerant so that we don't scare the newbies off. Jeez.

I do want to produce offshoredrilling's porno and sell tickets to the live televised event.
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Nothing any poster here does affects how many people sign up for this site every day...
You can't ask for civility and then turn around and poke people back in the eye. Well you can but it is hypocritical.

That is the passive/aggressive bs I was speaking of.

If in fact you really want civility, then you have to act civil at all times.

Why should the folks you are asking to act civil , act civil towards you if you and Dear John and others do not act civil towards them?

You may never get them/me to act as you want and vice versa but you do control the way you act, if you come on here as a hypocrite like OH has, you lose all credibility toward your stated goal of civility.

You have to be like baby Jesus and turn the other cheek and even then you'll probably wind up hung on a cross!

But to be true to one's self you have to walk the talk. Originally Posted by WTF
Pet, I do not mean to cast dispersions on your virtue or revile you with faggot innuendo like you do so many others. What I mean to do is discuss the definition of hypocrite, because I don’t think you know WTF it means. I don't think you actually use it incorrectly to be hateful, I think you really don't know what it means. It's either that or you think so highly of your own thoughts it is inconceivable others would disagree with you and your high brow thoughts. A hypocrite isn't someone that disagrees with you. It doesn’t mean that someone is a hypocrite if they say they are not a thief and take a two cookies from the sample tray at the market. Hypocrite is a person that pretends or proclaims publically to have virtues, morals or beliefs and does not hold with those values privately. It does not mean that if a person to have intra-conflicting values or beliefs they are hypocrites particularly when it comes to complex social constructs. It’s human nature. Fancy has been nothing but civil. I have done nothing but defend the merits of the argument and myself. Please, enlighten us all with your thesis that I am a hypocrite. We all await your reply.

You want certain rules enforced the way you and Fancy want them enforced but you want the Mods to overlook your infractions of said rules. Originally Posted by WTF
What infractions are you referring to?

Back on aspd you had your way ...and had people banned. Originally Posted by WTF
I did no such thing LOL. I was so sweet back then that honey dripped from my keyboard.

When your side had the moderators in your panties, you had members banned for speaking their mind....these moderators are letting you talk shit about them and not banning you. Originally Posted by WTF
I didn't even know any moderators on ASPD. And I'm not talking shit about them now. You really are amusing you know that?

And no, this isn’t junior high. This is where women come to market themselves to feed their families. The stakes a little higher here. Feel free to ponder that and then bestow your wisdom upon is on this topic too.