I think the fundamental problem here is that you are starting off by condemning yourself for your profession.
All humans have flaws, but it does not profit you by magnifying them or advertising them.
I would not advise you to begin a relationship based on dishonesty as that is a recipe for delayed, but certain disaster.
. . . Work on your self esteem and think about all the good qualities you have to offer and stop focusing on how society made judge you. Good luck!
Originally Posted by Fast Gunn
this. you are who you are. if it makes ya happy
ahem. yea I would prolly lie .....and see where the relationship develops. if things do get 'serious' like let's get married now and start a family serious ....then you can start making other decisions. life will be different then. or perhaps not. why give up the hobby completely? its fun to dabble in once in a while
yea I would prolly never bring up the subject unless confronted