Is having a relationship hard as a provider?

Neither do the wifey and I...she hates it when I pay for stuff...

I think the fundamental problem here is that you are starting off by condemning yourself for your profession.

All humans have flaws, but it does not profit you by magnifying them or advertising them.

I would not advise you to begin a relationship based on dishonesty as that is a recipe for delayed, but certain disaster.

. . . Work on your self esteem and think about all the good qualities you have to offer and stop focusing on how society made judge you. Good luck!

Originally Posted by Fast Gunn

this. you are who you are. if it makes ya happy

ahem. yea I would prolly lie .....and see where the relationship develops. if things do get 'serious' like let's get married now and start a family serious ....then you can start making other decisions. life will be different then. or perhaps not. why give up the hobby completely? its fun to dabble in once in a while

yea I would prolly never bring up the subject unless confronted

I wouldn't know but I know I'm too honest to start of a relationship by lying. That's something that I'd call betrayal.

I wouldn't know but I know I'm too honest to start of a relationship by lying. That's something that I'd call betrayal. Originally Posted by Jemma Martin

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I agree with Jemma. Lying to others in a relationship is just wrong and unethical.

I used to have an affair/date an escort who married and and the husband didn't know about her side career. They had a dysfunctional marriage and were still together just for the kids sake. She told me about her "job" after a few of our rendezvous cuz she wanted to be honest with me and wanted me to really like her which I did. At first for a few hours I felt really strange. Not knowing how many men she had been with or how recently like just before or after me etc. By the next day I accepted it in fact it turned me on. I couldn't be with her enough. Because of her I know all about this "hobby" now and didn't have a clue before. She and her husband moved out of state for career changes on his part. I had to talk her into going with him which broke both of our hearts. I really wanted to be with her and her side job didn't bother me a bit. Oh if I could turn back time

DO NOT BUMP OLD THREADS!

Fucking bump them if situation changed!?

Having had relationships with one or two providers, I wouldn't suggest lying about it. It is insulting ones intelligence. Your best bet is an "open" relationship based on friendship first. And good luck finding someone secure enough to deal.

My SO told me that she was an escort when we first met. When we started getting closer, I told her that I wanted her to retire. She told me that she would not accept a sugardaddy relationship. We discussed what kind of a life that we wanted. She had a very good income with some very well-to-do clients and had a daughter to support. Before giving up her clients, she needed to know that the relationship would last. She was always straightforward about her life in the Business. Her retirement occurred more than five years ago.

My SO told me that she was an escort when we first met. When we started getting closer, I told her that I wanted her to retire. She told me that she would not accept a sugardaddy relationship. We discussed what kind of a life that we wanted. She had a very good income with some very well-to-do clients and had a daughter to support. Before giving up her clients, she needed to know that the relationship would last. She was always straightforward about her life in the Business. Her retirement occurred more than five years ago. Originally Posted by SD7

And, why is it that you're on this site? Keep singing that song to yourself SD7, maybe one day you'll actually believe the lyrics.

DO NOT BUMP OLD THREADS! Originally Posted by TheJudge69

Actually you can bump old threads, just not reviews more than 30 days old.

Women just want guys to listen to them and not be judgmental .
Sensual Specialist is looking for in other words good company .
GET A DOG

No I have one past a yr now

If you're honest about what you do, to an "average Joe" kinda guy, you wouldn't even be in a relationship...

And if you're in one where there's complete honesty & he sticks with you, then you mighta found yourself a gem!.... (or an asshole who wants to fuck all your provider friends)

So again, the answer would be yes! Shit, every relationship (provider or not) is hard anyways..

My SO told me that she was an escort when we first met. When we started getting closer, I told her that I wanted her to retire. She told me that she would not accept a sugardaddy relationship. We discussed what kind of a life that we wanted. She had a very good income with some very well-to-do clients and had a daughter to support. Before giving up her clients, she needed to know that the relationship would last. She was always straightforward about her life in the Business. Her retirement occurred more than five years ago. Originally Posted by SD7

Again with the mystery SO & all that? Really?