This was a thread that grew very quickly and with some very interesting comments and thoughts brought out. I figured I'd take the time to review most of what was said to not be too redundant. (btw Spellchecker is pretty good on here as long as you make sure You know what you want to say)
CD, I've enjoyed your thoughts and comments in different areas before and the same is true for this thread and BTW I always knew that was Audrey. I've had a "strange, tingly" feeling for her since a young lass.
But to the subject at hand. I am definitely one who could/can talk BUT I try to keep it to a minimum. And have allowed sessions to run over because I felt that perhaps I"d rambled a bit. But I also try to keep "those rambling" moments confined to folks I've met already.
I have had a gent or two run over and on to my detriment in the past and not asked for compensation. I figure it will balance in the long run or I simply wont be seeing them again OR I make sure that I let them know when they schedule again that I have another engagement later and so will ask them to please forgive me if we start to run over and I have to bring our conversation to an end quickly. And so far that has usually worked for me.
I agree that GFE sessions tend to imply a bit more laid back sociable time but I've had a few GFE that turned PSE very quickly as well and the bit of social time seemed to just add a nice "counterpoint" to the more PSE fun.
I do look at it as
my time that is being paid for and
not what
activities, conversations or other fun things that may or may not occur. That is another reason why I don't generally differentiate between what we might be able to do or not do during that time. Except for perhaps roleplaying or "alt" type activities. As much as I might like to I cant always carry my whips and restraints w/me or my whip cream and chocolate sauce either.
And that is why reveiws are good a thing too. They can help a person better find what they are hoping to experience during their alloted time.