The original scenario is the guys fault. If you are being properly throat raped it won't be out of your mouth long enough for you to grab a condom. I love it when a little uppity slut tries to take over my session. You just do what you are told when you are told and maybe I will let you cum. Maybe I won't. If I ever choose to be a sub I'll let you know before hand. Now don't get me wrong if you advertise vanilla sex I'll bring that if I come. But if you advertise bdsm stuff. You are damned right that's what you will get.
I just went back and read most of your ads and I think that they may be the reason for your issues. They are all sub type ads. Throat rape me. Tie me up spank my ass. Etc. Yet what you refer to in your description of doing what you want. I'll tell you right now. If the mascara is running down your face as you are choking on my cock you damned sure aren't going to stop me because you want some dick. And if I'm paddling your ass I promise you it won't cross your mind to talk back. I'm well aware that you want to get fucked. And I will get to that in my time. And this is my time. If you want to blacklist me after then that's on you. Don't worry I love pussy so you will get fucked but only when you have begged long enough and feel absolutely desperate for it will you get it. I won't let you short change me by giving me a pussy that is only half way begging for it. I'll wait till it grabs on to my cock and won't let me have it back.
Or maybe change the wording of your ads. Just my .02