Ok I may be a little long winded so bare with me. Its 2 weeks to the anniversary of my husbands painful death. I miss him every day and have a hard time with the grief, especially this time of year.
This dear man was new to the hobby and had visited a few providers before SEEKING ME OUT.
We were both single and he was 22 years older then me.
We met for 1 session only before he told a mutual provider friend he wanted to be my SD ... and more. His "pretty woman" he loved that movie.
He went about it in all the right ways, first with a few more paid sessions, dinners out, whatever I wanted and within 3 months he rented me a very nice condo in New orleans. I still had the option to see clients also if I wanted.
He paid my rent and expenses, but I still paid my own personal bills like my car.
In time he paid for everything and gave me credit cards, even bought me a summer beach home in SC.
I asked a "seasoned" provider what she thought of becoming a SB, dependant on a SD and she basically told me I was stupid- umm she was the stupid one and I thank god I was smart enough to see it.
A year later we were married and I was his pride and joy- a trophy wife to him.
A few months after our wedding he started to become ill and was diagnosed with a form of terminal cancer. He was not sick at all when we met or married. No one knows what god has in store for us. Nine months after his diagnosis he passed and I was the only one at his bedside. He was loved by me and he knew this. It was the hardest thing I ever went through to bury my husband. A young widow.
This dear man changed my life forever and I thank god for him everyday. I now live by the ocean in a beautiful home in Florida and I never want for anything- for the rest of my life Im set because he loved me that much and made arrangements for me.
SB/SD relationships can work and I am proof of that- but you have to be two very special people.
Please dont criticize my post, its just my story and I needed to share. I still mourn his death so please respect this.
If you dont like my story please dont be disrespectful it would cut like a knife.
I just wanted the men & women out there looking for a sb/sd relationship to know that it can be wonderful and bitter sweet and change lives.
--- And besides that how many times have providers said they could write a book on what they have experienced! Its not a book, but it is my story. I hope I dont regret telling it
Originally Posted by CRISTY-CUPPS
A sad yet beautiful story! I'm sorry for your loss, and understand it can be hard.
Such a lovely lady! Your attitude and demeanor in your responses SHOWS your class without numbers/figures. We need more ladies like you.
Happy New Year to you Cristy!
And Ninoguchisog, why are you feeling attacked by me? You are no victim. It's a discussion and observation - I cannot help that I've never met an authentic Courtesan, coming off their pedastools to entertain us minions here in hobby land.
Just because one has a different opinion, doesn't mean they are war ready. I hope you're not so defensive in real world conversation. Sheesh...no offense but I'm not getting the Courtesan vibe from you. It's a facade your campaigning for, but by your countless, snarky, sarcastic, "I got this and that from my clients" posts, you are portraying anything but a mature, authentic Courtesan. Again, just my opinion from my own experiences. I only speak so aspiring Courtesans don't model their attitude by your attitude towards others. No, I'm not in attack mode