We spent a fair amount of time discussing her thoughts about the story during the appointment and it was really nice.
Originally Posted by MajorHands
The skeptic in some folks (namely me) would say that she might have used this as a device to skimp on the BCD activities.
I will say this about OTC time in general, the only way it would have any appeal is if it was mutually enjoyable for both parties, where again, there was value exchanged, just not monetarily.
Originally Posted by MajorHands
Agreed. But generally, I would reject offered OTC time b/c I don't like being in debt to any one for any reason, and I feel this would create a "beholding" relationship.
I think it's a simple concept....each woman runs her business the way she sees fit. If she wants to offer OTC, fine. If not, it does not make her any less of a companion nor is it indicative of someone who is "all about the money."
Originally Posted by London Rayne
Generally, agreed. But, although you don't think "it's all about the money," it is. There's nothing wrong with that. Let's just call it what it is: a business transaction. It's kind of like burying a family member. It ain't cheap, but someone's gotta pay for it. You need the services but you hate the cost. But you can't get the services w/o the payment.
Wives are a lot more expensive than escorts. The guys just don't know it until shit hits the fan.
Originally Posted by Naomi4u
I think it was one guy on this board that said, "If I ever get the urge to marry again, I'm going to find some woman I hate and give her $40,000."