Why some married men cheat?

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Damnit...don't distract him...he's an oil and gas guy...let him try and focus... Originally Posted by Wakeup
Also, What in the hell is that supposed to mean? You'd be surprised how many oil and gas guys are on here. Stupid f-cking troll. Anything to rile up people, right?

You keep referring to yourself as a "strong" man. I can't even be sure you ARE a man going by your non-sensical ranting on these boards.

I know I can't expect a known and proven liar like yourself to be honest, but what do you do for a living? Live off of your old lady's income. Make sure she uses Listerine when she comes home. Well, you probably enjoy that taste. Never mind.
I am curious why are you even on here WAKE? you don't hobby for what ever reason and just seem to just want to bash and irritate members. I am single but was married and I will tell you it has nothing to do with being a better man. Some can say its a moral issue or whatever, in truth I really feel that the same old pussy get stale and as men who by nature are breed to procreate like new pussy. If you don't then the problem is you. And people change fool, marriage has become a very old custom that is mostly filled with insecure people. Remember a ring cant plug a hole. I feel just like all relationships, they all have a shelf life and shit just changes, so yes maybe some should get a divorce but there are way many more issues that could make that impossible. I am sure all these married men love their wives but we can all separate love and a pop.. JMO.. but I think I am pretty accurate.
The beautiful variety of women and the no-strings attached hot sexual encounters are what led me to stray.
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I am curious why are you even on here WAKE? you don't hobby for what ever reason... Originally Posted by Mata Leon
Why do you assume that?

...in truth I really feel that the same old pussy get stale and as men who by nature are breed to procreate like new pussy. Originally Posted by Mata Leon
If that's the case, then no man should ever get married, because every man would cheat on his wife. Since not all men cheat on their wives, your feeling is obviously flawed...

...marriage has become a very old custom that is mostly filled with insecure people. Originally Posted by Mata Leon
I agree. Marraige should not exist as an institution. It's antiquated, and serves no purpose...it never did. So why do you guys get married? It's because you think society expects it of you, and you're too weak to ignore the peer pressure. I'm not.

...so yes maybe some should get a divorce but there are way many more issues that could make that impossible. Originally Posted by Mata Leon
Incorrect...their own fear keeps them from doing it...nothing more...it's far from impossible. Fear of social rejection. Fear of monetary loss. Fear of being alone. These weak guys are just afraid to do the right thing...so they choose to turn their back on their families and try to hide from it...

I hope all of them get discover by their wives. Thousands of men, getting simultaneously found out by their wives...that would prove one hell of a point to them, and society.
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You asking for a divorce would cause you to move back in with your parents (snicker), ruin your wife's life, and destroy your family...so...you're committing the one action that would lead to a divorce if your wife found out about it? Originally Posted by Wakeup
Again, because you're slow, SHE changed the terms of the "contract". I'm not totally innocent in everything, but I just don't get these people that think it's the guy's fault TOTALLY and the poor innocent woman never has any fault in the matter. Originally Posted by albundy
You ignored the comment. If you don't want to destroy your family, why do you do the one thing that would guarantee its destruction?

P.S.-I had out for 32 years because I wanted to...and then I no longer wanted to. This isn't hard to fathom...men all over the world do it...the fact that you can't comprehend it, and automatically think it must be a medical problem, or a lack of proximity to women, just proves that you have no impulse control. You keep losing these discussions...badly...
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You ignored the comment. If you don't want to destroy your family, why do you do the one thing that would guarantee its destruction?

P.S.-I had out for 32 years because I wanted to...and then I no longer wanted to. This isn't hard to fathom...men all over the world do it...the fact that you can't comprehend it, and automatically think it must be a medical problem, or a lack of proximity to women, just proves that you have no impulse control. You keep losing these discussions...badly... Originally Posted by Wakeup
Once again you post that you win when you obviously don't. You have admitted to being married....then saying you're not. Then you give some lame excuse about your definition of marriage or some other BS excuse for the lie. You get exposed and beaten BADLY across numerous threads, but claim victory. Being as you are a troll and your goal is to stir up sh-t,I guess in that sense, you might win.

Back to your nonsense: If you "no longer wanted to", then you indeed DID NOT have a normal sex drive. Maybe low testosterone. I know guys that had that problem and just didn't want sex. They took the pills and were back to normal.

By the way, you're the expert on ignoring comments that expose you and focusing on comments you think you can win. You do that regularly on here AND get called out on it but fail to acknowledge your fail and then you move on to the next BS you can post.
I notice you completely ignored the real thrust of his comments. Again. Originally Posted by Bobave
Anyway, ONCE AGAIN because you missed it the first few times, why I "do the thing that would destroy my family" is because SHE changed the parameters of the marriage, that's why. I never wanted that. Apparently, in your view, cheating in a marriage is the worst thing you can possibly do. No matter what the circumstances. Sometimes, it keeps the marriage together. I realize this is like trying to explain something to a child with no understanding of the real world, but I'm a sucker for arguing with clueless trolls. You live in this fantasy land of black and white absolutes where no matter what, the guy is to blame. Well, the rest of us have to live in the real world where things aren't that cut and dry. Now, go back to pulling stranger's pubes out of your lady's teeth.


Also, you didn't explain the "oil and gas guy" comment. Going to ignore that one too?

Oh why not? You always claim victory. I guess I'll join in, troll.
You keep losing.....bad.
albundy's Avatar
Incorrect...their own fear keeps them from doing it...nothing more...it's far from impossible. Fear of social rejection. Fear of monetary loss. Fear of being alone. These weak guys are just afraid to do the right thing...so they choose to turn their back on their families and try to hide from it.... Originally Posted by Wakeup
You answer your own stupidity with this post. According to you, the wife stops putting out, we should just be alone, lose money, and have social rejection. That would be the "right" thing to do. Uh..OK.


Do you really think this sh-t? If you aren't a troll, what's your story?
Are you disgusted by all the married men that use your wife to do the thing you hate most in the world (cheating)?



By the way, you never answered as usual, but what do YOU do for a living? What's your problem with "oil and gas" guys?
pyramider's Avatar
You were involved in the Horizon spill in the Gulf of Mexico weren't you?
Wakeup's Avatar
By the way, you never answered as usual, but what do YOU do for a living? What's your problem with "oil and gas" guys? Originally Posted by albundy
Is there some reason you want to into what I do for a living? Just askin'...
albundy's Avatar
You were involved in the Horizon spill in the Gulf of Mexico weren't you? Originally Posted by pyramider
No. Not sure what that has to do with anything at all on here, but no, I wasn't involved.
I work for an oilfield service company. We make parts for offshore drilling but I'm not offshore myself.

Here's a picture of some taint for you. Have fun.
albundy's Avatar
Is there some reason you want to into what I do for a living? Just askin'... Originally Posted by Wakeup
Well, you made a comment about "oil and gas guys". What's your problem with oil and gas guys? If you think you're above guys in the oil industry, I was curious just what it was that you do for a living. (Besides living off of your wife's money from cheating married guys.)

Damnit...don't distract him...he's an oil and gas guy...let him try and focus.... Originally Posted by Wakeup
Wakeup's Avatar
Keep wondering...

Next time you see my wife, tell that bitch I want my cut!
albundy's Avatar
Figured you'd dodge it. It's what you do. Still didn't answer what your problem is with oil industry guys, by the way.

Damn. She f-cks cheating married guys for a living and you don't even get a cut? That sucks.
Wakeup's Avatar
Yeah...I'm going to dodge giving you personal info about me...

Yep. It kinda offsets though, since she won't let me buy her anything when we're out together...she's the best wife ever...
albundy's Avatar
Yeah...I'm going to dodge giving you personal info about me...

Yep. It kinda offsets though, since she won't let me buy her anything when we're out together...she's the best wife ever... Originally Posted by Wakeup
That's fine...But what's your problem with oil industry guys?

She sounds great. She helps facilitate guys doing what you preach against and gives you none of the money from it. Watch out for married guys' pubes when you kiss.