Respect ...

reality is that we have individuals who are leaving, both providers and hobbyists, because of the negativity! Originally Posted by DDarkness

Sad about Jack leaving.....

But this is what happens when a few trolling blowhard assholes who contribute little to the board are allowed free reign to do as they please, spreading disruption, creating multiple handles at will, completely unfettered by board administration that appears content with the twisted BS they sow.....

Other adult hobby boards BAN these morons straightaway! Originally Posted by Celso

...and the reality is that we have individuals who are leaving, both providers and hobbyists, because of the negativity! Originally Posted by DDarkness

Are we supposed to give a respectful crap? Originally Posted by pyramider

I have been thinking about this for some time and as I have visited other areas of the board I have realized that in Upstate NY there is a real lack of respect for the ladies, for other members, and for the community as a whole!

Am I generalizing, perhaps, but the negativity and name calling. The disrespect and harassment that flares up frequently is both a disappointment and a concern.

I am certain that I am going to be ripped a new one for posting this but at this point I really don't care because rampant disrespect is a violation of posting guidelines and it is something that is being addressed everyday and it's my hope that folks are getting the message.

Time will tell!

This is a board for hobbyists and providers to connect! It is a forum where we can share successes and identify concerns. It is a place where we can learn from each other and just maybe make some positive connections along the way and have some fun

My request, if I can make one, is that we tone down the negativity and that we start treating each other with more respect! The nasty and derogatory terms that are being thrown around detract from the way this board is supposed to operate, and the reality is that we have individuals who are leaving, both providers and hobbyists, because of the negativity!

I can say, with complete confidence, that I am going to get lambasted for making this post and requesting that we all recognize that a little respect and consideration goes along way! I also recognize that there are members who feel as I do, who do not buy into the negativity, but are hesitant to stand up and express themselves while there are others who don't care one way or another!

Disrespect and name calling really does detract from why we are here. The ladies, all of them, deserve to be treated with respect and in reality, we owe it to ourselves to treat each other with more respect!

DD Originally Posted by DDarkness

...but I have heard this same plea from previous moderators in years past. Civility and respect go a long way. Originally Posted by RODOSH

Perhaps. But it's pretty easy to have her attitude when everyone here seems to be falling all over themselves to heap praise on her of one form or another.

Let's give her a couple months of the treatment that a Victoria Lane gets, or previously, a Chloe. My guess is her presence around here would all but disappear. Originally Posted by Doove

ORIGINALLY POSTED BY FRANKIE FINE

"people are only as powerful to ourselves as we allow them to be imho. You can not make someone change but you can choose not to react and go on with your day*

As a provider I prefer all members have the right to represent themselves honestly. We are all more safe that way*jmho xo

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*couldn't have said it better myself... please be yourself guys... that way if I think your really lame l know not to respond.... THE ONLY RESPECT I NEED ON THIS BOARD IS RESPECT 4 MYSELF! ( sorry I dont kno how to do the little quote thing had to copy paste) Originally Posted by super sexy lexi

Frances I'd love to leave a heap of praise between them ditties boo! Originally Posted by J.J. Walker

It went down the toilet as soon as the OP thought up the idea to post it... Originally Posted by Wakeuр