Off the Clock

If the mechanic reads this board, odds are he screws around too.

If the mechanic reads this board, odds are he screws around too. Originally Posted by pjorourke

Why would you think that?

I have never felt the need for much social time beyond the first session of getting comfortable and trusting one another during the first few visits. After a few moments of chatting, it is pretty easy to determine if you connect well or not. You either have chemistry or you don't.

I can't speak for other guys, but I am not looking to fall in love with any of these women, I just want to enjoy them for a little while.

I don't really need to date them. If they want to hangout in the same bar and have a few drinks, I'll buy, but that is never sought or expected as part of my idea of a GFE. But that is just my idea of what a GFE is.

Now if a gal throws me an occasional 90 minutes for the price of 60, will I be appreciative and probably loyal?

You betcha! So I guess you should sue me for admitting to that publicly. Perks and premiums always work on me--especially if the product and service is already pretty damn good.

More directly with regards to off time:

If we both wanted to see Battle LA (or some other movie or concert or play) before we do our session I am not going to turn her down if she offers, and I doubt we would go dutch unless she insisted for her own reason. I am an old guy with old values, I would pay her way, but not a another 300 or 400 bucks--unless I was really looking for the total seduction companionship package and experience of social fun followed by awesome sex, or at least the illusion of awesome sex, but that would be negotiated up front. Every once in a while I meet a lady that looks REALLY good in that little black cocktail dress and I get in one of those bravado moods where I do get off on other guys looking at us and wondering how in the fuck an old hobbit like me has this beautiful, classy woman hanging on my every word. That game of seduction and illusion is fun every once in a while and if I have the extra cash, I might splurge.

I have been doing this for a while. I have regulars in some cities, and do see traveling ladies that visit my town. Some of these folks I have become friends with over the years or as much friends as we can be in the hobby. It doesn't happen all the time, but sometimes we (both men and women) get bored staring at the walls of a hotel room, and yes sometimes we do go out and just have fun. It doesn't happen often, but it happens and I am not going to apologize for it just because it does not line up with somebody's idea of what the hobby ought to be or match the parameter of some lady's business plan that I probably wouldn't see anyway.
Originally Posted by phatdaty

Word!

+2 to a point; I have developed some friendships that go beyond this world but to each their own.

Friendships yes. Romantic interests no.

Friendships yes. Romantic interests no. Originally Posted by pjorourke

I have had both and have found both to be rewarding. Being single probably had something to do with it.

ya think?

You're drunk. Originally Posted by Doove

I am not drunk, I am hammered.

And if some provider had gone out with me off the clock tonight to watch the hockey games I wouldn't be waiting for a cab right now: she could have drove me home or we could have both gotten smashed and shared the cab and gotten frisky in the backseat and pissed the cab driver off when I made her squirt all over the upholstery. Now there is a session I would pay a premium for!

Don't you wish bars would go back to just having rooms they rented in the back. If this cab doesn't get here soon, I am going to order another drink and post something even more inflammatory.

Romantic interests no. Originally Posted by pjorourke

This is how I find out? On a message board?

Basketball is a sport for pussies. Originally Posted by phatdaty

Says the annoying one from the Queen City.

ya think? Originally Posted by pjorourke

Just a guess

This is how I find out? On a message board?


Originally Posted by Ansley

ROTFLMAO

UConn doesn't think it is a "pussy" sport. Go Huskies.

A side note, if buzzed, it is best to push the keyboard away. If I could only listen to my own advice.

This is how I find out? On a message board?


Originally Posted by Ansley

I thought we found everything out on internet boards, heh

A side note, if buzzed, it is best to push the keyboard away. If I could only listen to my own advice. Originally Posted by SR Only

yes, but the good news is that this is the Internet -- nothing here is real.