You're not a BBW...you're just obese...

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Originally Posted by NIKKILOVE
How ever, you or any one else.. can not tell me that I am ugly.. just because I have put on weight......

I think you're fat and ugly and I have no sympathy for your laziness. See how that works? I can indeed tell you those very things because that's my opinions and I believe them.

Further, you've admitted that you used to be in shape. The difference between us is that I admitted my laziness and chose...I CHOSE...to make a difference in my life instead of blindly accepting my laziness and my poor health. There's absolutely nothing you can say to me to justify your lack of making that same choice...

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I can say I have done my part.......

Hey, fuckface , stop acting like you are ""captain save a "fat" girl"" --
Get a fucking life, or get laid, one of the two!! Or eat some thing other than what you eat that has made you on edge all the time.... you don't like "fat" girls, we got it..
I don't like, IDIOTS, or rudeness, or ignorance, or prejudice... but yet, I live in this world, not on cloud 9 behind my computer so... I deal with it.. YOU should too.

I pay taxes, pay medical insurance, yet... I wish my money went towards people like you who can not seem to get a clue and who live with thinking they are "right" just because they opened their mouth... Atleast when mine is open.. it's for a good cause!!!

Try to justify YOUR behavior all you want.. Your original post, was nothing to get upset about. The shit you have managed to come up with since then, shows your character, and who you truly are.. MY WEIGHT does not, which is why I have a place on this board, on this earth, FAT OR SKINNY. In todays world, in real life, I bet you get swallowed up by the real men around you daily... probably why you chose to sit here all day and start shit with people..

GET A LIFE.
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Ok.....I'll play the sucker and ask.........what is the difference? Originally Posted by NIKKILOVE

Score Nikki !!! I think somebody got a internet bitch slap .LOL

That is actually a perfect example of what I am talking about..... And by NO MEANS does that make you a sucker, because it is sometimes difficult how one possibly crosses the line and one doesn't.

First off, the difference from Calling someone fat & Ugly, and calling someone a Fuckface in the context of each post is something to be noted.

Wakeups Post was in direct response to your post you noted above. So in HIS OPINION you are "fat and ugly". Crass perhaps, and if he would have said "I find Overweight women unattractive" it would not have been a blip. But because he used different adjectives it seems worse...... So stating an opinion (especially in a direct response questioned in a previous post) is one key difference.

"Wakeup, I think you're an asshole." Is an accepted comment to make and in fact has been stated by many (myself included) often. But saying "Hey you fucking Asshole!" Is not. Subtle difference, but a difference nontheless....

There are other ways to get around namecalling that I won't get into now as to not further hijack the thread..... But hope the above helps shed some light on how some of these rules work..... Some people are better at playing "the game" to avoid infractions while still acting out, and are very well versed at doing just that.

JaD

And some Mods are just biase. I have been called some awful names and told I deserve it lol. But when I simply call someone something as little as a**hole I get the boot. Women I think we should just let this thread be. Really its not worth it. I'm with Skylar, its a hooker board, lets leave it at that. And ladies we can't win, so whats the point. I am not calling anyone anything, and really I don't care. This thread is like beating a dead horse lol. Even the Mods say we are "unattractive", so lets be lady like and walk away. I got better things to do anyways, I rather be giving head

Im done. I have not crossed any boundries here, what so ever, and I could care less who feels I have.. as I could care less how they feel about "BBW". My "opinion", and wording does not make a damn difference, other than by the people who have the "right" to say so.


The qote from the OP above was not in response to my quote above.. I NICELY worded my first post in this thread, which is what his above post was in response to...

So MOD, or no mod, you can try to make it look how you want it to.

This board has turned in to the same B.S. as every other board. Men, talking shit, and in a position to do so because they are not face to face with those they have out right offended purposely.

To each their own... Have a Blessed day.

Done with this thread, and this site.

Just for clarification...... I am the only Mod who posted my personal preferences and opinions here in regards to BBWs. The other Mods preferences and likes differ from my own and I can't speak for them.... Also... My preferences have zero effect on my un biasedness in regards to enforcing the forum guidelines.... I have and will make mistakes and am always open to explaining my actions/inactions and when I do make mistakes I try my best to make up for them and own them.

JaD

I know how we can settle this.
NIkki sit on WakeUp until he yells uncle .
Then lets close this Thread after all it's been all about WakeUp anyways ..again.

Im done. I have not crossed any boundries here, what so ever, and I could care less who feels I have.. as I could care less how they feel about "BBW". My "opinion", and wording does not make a damn difference, other than by the people who have the "right" to say so.


The qote from the OP above was not in response to my quote above.. I NICELY worded my first post in this thread, which is what his above post was in response to...

Originally Posted by NIKKILOVE

I must respectfully disagree. I urge you to revisit the thread and reread everything and try to do so objectively and without a predisposed side. You posted the "No one can say that I am ugly" to which he responded "I think....". That is a response to your post. And in regards to a message board how you word and post your posts/thoughts/opinions DOES matter a great deal! This board, like almost any other has rules. And just like any rule it has its limitations and can be flirted with and bent and not be broken...... So the manner in which you post is a determining factor in following these rules....

JaD

And ladies we can't win, so whats the point. Originally Posted by bustyamy

You can in fact "win"...lose weight is a big win for not only yourself, but everyone else as well...

And Carkido...I'm still waiting for your point about posting about thin Latinas...


P.S.-I have received 25 points and three more warnings for "unnecessary rudeness" since December 2010, 10 of those have yet to expire. I had 15 more points for "unnecessary rudeness" on my previous handle started in 2009.

I must respectfully disagree. I urge you to revisit the thread and reread everything and try to do so objectively and without a predisposed side. You posted the "No one can say that I am ugly" to which he responded "I think....". That is a response to your post. And in regards to a message board how you word and post your posts/thoughts/opinions DOES matter a great deal! This board, like almost any other has rules. And just like any rule it has its limitations and can be flirted with and bent and not be broken...... So the manner in which you post is a determining factor in following these rules....

JaD Originally Posted by Jusanotherdude

Respectfully or not,

I said: EXACT QUOTE
How ever, you or any one else.. can not tell me that I am ugly.. just because I have put on weight......

He said: EXACT QUOTE
I think you're fat and ugly and I have no sympathy for your laziness. See how that works? I can indeed tell you those very things because that's my opinions and I believe them.

Personal disrespect, HOW EVER YOU WORD IT. BEFORE I ever posted another post.

I fuckin give up, we are now just trying to prove one's opinion of disrespect .

You all keep feeding your own pain. And I'm not talking about food. If you stop posting the thread can die but noooooo let's see what he's gonna say next.

So how's the Wakeup Challenge going Nikki?

I thinck I'm a pussy!

Respectfully or not,

I said: EXACT QUOTE
How ever, you or any one else.. can not tell me that I am ugly.. just because I have put on weight......

He said: EXACT QUOTE
I think you're fat and ugly and I have no sympathy for your laziness. See how that works? I can indeed tell you those very things because that's my opinions and I believe them.

Personal disrespect, HOW EVER YOU WORD IT. BEFORE I ever posted another post.

I fuckin give up, we are now just trying to prove one's opinion of disrespect . Originally Posted by NIKKILOVE

Because you get offended by something does not make it against the rules. Was what he said offense to you? Obviously that answer is yes. Did he break the rules by saying it? No. Thats the only thing I am saying here. Do I condone it? No. But there is also nothing I can do about it in regards to the board and the forum guidelines.

There are many things that some will find offensive within the confines of any message board, and probably moreso on a SHMB...... But as long as they remain within the confines of the guidelines of the board they warrent no action from the Mod/Admin staff. I hope that helps.

JaD

I do think that pretty much everything that could possibly be said about the original subject has been stated, and this thread, which arguably was about name calling to begin with, has deteriorated into being TOTALLY about name calling. Die, die, just let it die.

Sarunga missed the "golden nugget".......as usual.......so, I'll help him out this once.

A LARGE hooktard thincks of what is supposed to be an accurate description of her physical attributes in terms of the fucktard being "kind" to her.......not "accurate".......who am I to disagree with her self assessment.....ijs.