Why Is It So Hard To Find A Provider Who Will...

I'd imagine regular patronage of a favorite might help. Originally Posted by Sonya

I'm still looking for that myself.

The total is closing in on 50, of which something like 18 are indys. Originally Posted by citizen44

How many of those wore garters and stockings?

Women civilians aren't much different than provider women. Make us feel special and we will bend over backwards to make you happy. Not that I haven't dressed up for 1st time clients. But the mentality I've seen some men here display of I'm paying you, so do whatever I want. Well that doesn't turn us on any more than it would turn on your wife. Who gets way more of your moolah. A little kindness and appreciation goes a long way.

Unfortunately, its an idea vs reality situation. Have you tried doing a request?? You may just have to do research. Their are also providers who I'm sure wouldn't turn down free lingirie.

Women civilians aren't much different than provider women. Make us feel special and we will bend over backwards to make you happy. Not that I haven't dressed up for 1st time clients. But the mentality I've seen some men here display of I'm paying you, so do whatever I want. Well that doesn't turn us on any more than it would turn on your wife. Who gets way more of your moolah. A little kindness and appreciation goes a long way. Originally Posted by Sonya

+10

Women civilians aren't much different than provider women. Make us feel special and we will bend over backwards to make you happy. Not that I haven't dressed up for 1st time clients. But the mentality I've seen some men here display of I'm paying you, so do whatever I want. Well that doesn't turn us on any more than it would turn on your wife. Who gets way more of your moolah. A little kindness and appreciation goes a long way. Originally Posted by Sonya

Like my twin brother Citien44, I like my ladies to wear heels, thigh highs, and garters. My regulars all wear them. If they don't have them, then we go shopping.
However I can see his point of view. I've been marred before, so I know that women don't even bother to match tops to bottoms on a regular basis. Black bra, green panties/thong as an example. And I've had escorts show up the same way. I still don't understand why this is. But I would think if one is a professional, then at the least the tops and bottoms should match, and every professional should have at least one set of matching thigh highs, heels and garters. ijs

I like my fried chicken a little on the trashy side.

For example. I see Sharkman often. He loves and request stockings. I wear them everytime. Sheer black, white with bows, lace, fishnet. Get a new pair everytime. What's 10-20 bucks to be someone's fantasy? So Idk, guess you have to find someone with the time and desire to please you. Id imagine regular patronage of a favorite might help. Originally Posted by Sonya

Yeah, baby! I love those long legs in whatever stockings she wears!! And yeah, I can't wait to sample them a little later this month! Actually all 3 of you wearing stockings for me!! Should be momentous!

Maybe you're fucking the wrong whores. Ever think of that? Originally Posted by Dorian Gray

What he said ^^^ and would you like some cheese with that wine?

Nakedness is the best lingerie.

I had a provider friend complain because a gent asked her to wear a plain little black dress, black bra, black panties, black garter and stockings, with plain black heels and an exquisite perfume. he said something like "chanel, gucci, hermes, something with class, not something cheap".

And she was upset because he expected her to have all these things.
Come on ladies. Dress smart!!! Dress for the job! LOL These things should be readily available at all times.

Yeah, baby! I love those long legs in whatever stockings she wears!! And yeah, I can't wait to sample them a little later this month! Actually all 3 of you wearing stockings for me!! Should be momentous! Originally Posted by sharkman29

See if we can top galveston, margaritas, and the pool. Me and red going shopping this weekend. :-)

Women civilians aren't much different than provider women. .... A little kindness and appreciation goes a long way. Originally Posted by Sonya

^^^^ what she said. Start off with something small... buy her some Wolford stockings. If that does, not impress her...move the fuck along. Everything else...should fall into place for the next visit(s).

Lol, I'm going to regret this post.

Ok, so what you are saying, if I hire a guy to mow my lawn, I should buy him a lawn mower before he shows up? And if he is mowing all of you kindly gentlemen's yards, he's probably got a garage full of lawn mowers at home because each of you bought him one right? If that's the case, why does he show up to my house with a banged up mower and expect me to buy him a new one?

Isn't this basic marketing? Haven't I even read some of those threads where some of you patted yourself on the back because you said you always dress smartly for your new customers so that he is more inclined to repeat business? I guess I missed that section on the ads where it says if I want to see you in something sexy, I better bring it with me.

Probably more than half of these guys are married. Your saying it more efficient for all of them to run up to VS, and risk being seen buying lingerie by one of his wives friends, then for the lady to just buy it? This is a job right? Do all of you have some one buying your suits for work? Isn't that just a personal expense that is part of having a job? Should all my employees imply I'm a cheap bastard because I didn't buy their suits on top of paying their salary?

Before someone says it, I'm not telling anyone what to do. Please feel free to open the door wearing old, mis-matched or just every day lingerie. It's your business. Just don't be surprised to loose customers to the girl who goes the extra mile for all of her clients, not just the ones who bring her gifts.