Bareback

All valid points. The more bare that's happening. The higher potential for disease to be passed. We ALL assume the risk. Hell, condoms break, slip off, et al.

If a guy believes that a girl NEVER does bare with ANYONE, he's fooling himself. In the single dating scene, men and women are having unprotected sex while ASSUMING the other is clean, on the first date or after a handful of dates. And many providers are single and dating IRL, with the hobby being on their darkside.

If you choose to go bare with X-girl and she is ok with it, so be it. If you choose not to go bare with Y-girl, so be it. I'm not judging anyone for anything. Like I've said before, we all make that decision in that moment.

Have a great Sunday folks!

I'm so glad you made this thread, Johnsson.

Anyone and Everyone who does bare is putting everyone in this hobby at risk. Please don't do it. And please don't offer it.

Thank you for keeping us safer.

And why would anybody want to do it? There's a risk of pregnancy. The risk of STIs. And please don't be fooled about birth control. It's not foolproof; if someone says, "Oh, I take birth control," well, that's no reason not to be safe.

Do you really want to have this lady's baby? That would be a real wakeup call. Or do you really want to be responsible for her abortion?

Now, brothels are probably pretty good about their STI testing. I've heard some ladies can't return through the doors without one. But that is not the case in the hobbying world.

I just hate that these day's people are assumed sick until proven healthy.
Wear your mask and stay 6 feet away from each other.

If a guy believes that a girl NEVER does bare with ANYONE, he's fooling himself. In the single dating scene, men and women are having unprotected sex while ASSUMING the other is clean, on the first date or after a handful of dates. And many providers are single and dating IRL, with the hobby being on their darkside. Originally Posted by Voxxxstone

For me I am only really concerned with who does bareback if I am going to be hitting it bare as well. I figure everything has a price and most likely anyone I see has done bare more than I want to know about so I stay covered. A couple exceptions had a reliable UTR for a while that mixed in some bare and a couple of times shredding a condom it happens. This hobby comes with some risk. Manage it to the level you feel comfortable with and enjoy!

Exactly. Don't worry about who did what with whom. Assume everyone is participating in bare sex, and make your decision accordingly. If someone is uber-concerned about their safety, they don't need to be partaking in this hobby at all.

I just hate that these day's people are assumed sick until proven healthy.
Wear your mask and stay 6 feet away from each other. Originally Posted by Sandy

I'm with you sister lol!

I just hate that these day's people are assumed sick until proven healthy.
Wear your mask and stay 6 feet away from each other. Originally Posted by Sandy

It is all about control & compliance, not about health!
People are being fired from jobs because they will not comply, even though they have an excellent work record and have been long time employees.

I recall a lady those of you who have been on here a while will know. She had an accident and became pregnant. She chose life for the child and has been a great mother to him, even though the father contributed little. I think he will be a fine young man. I respect her very highly.

During my first hobby experience, the condom broke. Neither of us realized it as I finished in missionary. Was a reality check but all turned out ok. While I’d never do this on purpose in the hobby, my guess is that most are like me in that personal relationships never/rarely involve protection. In reality, it’s a risk with anyone you are with and we go blindly into real world contact assuming all is well. Sex with anyone involves some risks. Play as safe as you can and try not to worry about it. Otherwise, don’t play

Completely agree. If one believes that ALL hobbyists or providers are using protection, in ALL areas of their life, then he/she is sadly mistaken.

If a hobbyist chooses not to visit a provider, solely based on the knowledge, notion or belief that the provider went bare with another hobbyist, then that's his decision...albeit not necessarily a reasonable one, IMO. Such a decision alludes to the idea that the hobbyist believes/believed that the provider was using protection in ALL of her encounters, both within the hobby and IRL. And that ideal is merely that....ideal.

So, deciding to go bare or deciding to wrap the rascal, is each person's decision to make. But don't vilify others who make choices that are different from your own, or those who choose not to "fall in line for the greater good" (eye roll).

and just remember a condom will not prevent HPV just having sex with anyone provider or not is a risk. If you aren't willing to take that risk you are in the wrong lifestyle. You are only fooling yourself if you think a condom protects you from STDs.

Originally Posted by tuckahoe

Hahaha!! Nasty!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5B8qWHfvlsY

It is all about control & compliance, not about health!
People are being fired from jobs because they will not comply, even though they have an excellent work record and have been long time employees. Originally Posted by tuckahoe

Sound good until you have half your Aircraft carrier sick meaning they are nondeployable. I mean everyone gets carried away on both side of the question, but I was on the West coast, and I saw cargo ships that could not dock because they didn't have the crew to unload them. This was prior to all these people being fired from jobs because of not complying.

How would feel about a Heart Specialist with a great record but has decided he doesn't like to feel of hand covering when he operates? Would you want him to operate on your child?