Questions for the ladies

Thanks everyone for advice and opinions. I really appreciate it. I am not afraid of honesty, it is what it is. Thanks again.

They are here for the cash and to get you off ASAP.

Don't wory about it.

Most of these girls fuck all sorts of guys for free. Some are studs and a lot are duds.

Your cash is what makes them happy.

Remember, it's all about you and that is why you are paying.

Normally both parties can acquire "pre-show" jitters, but the trick is to relax. Decent providers will do there best to help you feel more comfortable.

I completely understand your concern about weight. When I came on the board, I saw all these beautiful, curvy, luscious women with flat stomachs and perky boobs. It was intimidating because I'm a short, full figured woman with dd cups. For this reason, that's all I focused on in my sessions. I was terrified that a gentlemen would turn me away because I had just a little more cushion. Then there's this thing called confidence. There were finally gentlemen that let me know my shape was just fine and to be comfortable in the skin I'm in. Same for you my dear. It is our duty as providers to make you as comfortable as possible despite any of your own insecurities of self. The flaws may actually only exist in your own eyes. That's why I make sure to learn my client through conversation. That melts away my jitters almost immediately. Best wishes darling.

It's normal and you may just need to find the provider that fits you And stick with her. I have guys that only see me and 1 or two other providers and no more because of that situation. Perfectly normal. And trust no matter how long some of us providers have been doing this some of us get just as nervous we are just better at hiding it cause that's or job.

Lose Weight. Plain and simple.

Will take care of most if not all "performance" problems that weight you down.

Your dick will feel like a weight is taken of it's shoulders too

Since starting the Hobby I lost about 10 pounds... all that Fucking ...

Maybe start of slow with some conversation and light touching. Have a beer or do some massage to ease any tension and then let it flow naturally into more. Turn on a football game or something? Make it a game?
I find when guys are nervous moving slow and kissing a lot helps.

And in response to providers only wanting your cash I will say that while this is a job and we provide a service in exchange for financial compensation, many of us really enjoy the work and our time with you isn't just a show. I have genuinely enjoyed every client I have had thus far and it wasn't because of their "hard bodies" but because we were able to enjoy a genuine connection together. My 2 cents....

So guys I found someone that I think fits the bill. I saw her this evening and had an amazing time. I felt the connection I needed and I do not know if she has read this post post but let's just say I feel cured.