To BBBJ or Not To BBBJ.........

Different stokes for different folks!

The provider always makes the rules and the clients follow them, end of story....If the client does't like her rules he can always find a provider that has rules he can live with...ijs

NO WAY! My mouth goes on NOTHING uncovered that I dont know where its been. Dont be bullied by hobbyists into this. Its your body, and one BAD COCK will leave you with a lifetime of regret. Do some research on the diseases that are transmitted orally. Just think if you were to get something, and never able to kiss anyone again in your personal life. No amount of money is worth it. Originally Posted by kymberlane

I agree with her completely that this has to be your decision. You will have to live with any risks even if they are not big risks. That being said I hate condoms. I accept the necessity but do not like using them any more than absolutely necessary.

that got me to thinking maybe i'm being to anal about the whole situation.

thats an different thread altogether

Im a bbbjtcim girl all the way and I plan on staying that way..and its kinda funny Ive had guys start out with a cbj..and then say "take off the condom I have to feel that hot mouth of yours..."....I love corrupting guys...

I can tell you if I didn't do it my business would go WAY down!

As I man, I love the BBBJ, but I realize it is more risky for the lady for STDs. I don't think it should be about tit-for-tat exchange for DATY. I like give DATY, but I don't think the provider goes goo-goo over it as some may think. I think that guys who like to DATY, should DATY.

If the guy is REALLY thinks he is that good at DATY, I would like to see them ask for a rebate or more time because he gave great DATY. He will quickly find what the provider really thinks it is worth to them.

If you want to do BBBJ, you will be more prosperous, but I think you will be on antibiotics a bit more often. (You may be able to make more money on less appointments, and you could be more selective would be business benefits, but i do not see health benefits, or even personal benefits).

I love what I do and I really love an excited receiver but recently I had a new client come visit me and was shocked that I only offered cbj as if it was unheard of. My feelings were somewhat hurt because he made such a HUGH deal about it and that got me to thinking maybe i'm being to anal about the whole situation.

Ladies is there ever a time where you're like NO WAY!? Originally Posted by LeLana

LL only staep outside your comfort zone on your terms. Don't be bullied into doing something you don't enjoy as that make the experiance that much worse.

As a man I prefer BBBJ ant day of the week it is rare that I except cbj. From my on exp it does not matter what skill set the lady has cbj is not satifying to me. Kinda of like taking a shower in a rain suit.

I guess I am like the guy your talking about. I only see providers that do BBBJ. If you were real good at CBJ then you will be outstanding at BBBJ if you are comfortable with it.

Doesn't make a big deal to me. I prefer cbj bc I don't know where the providers mouth has been. I think you can get good head but the feeling is wayyyy better naked. If I feel comfortable with the lady and that's her thing then so be it. But the out of box trying with bp girls no way.

If you have been offering CBJ only for years and your clients are accustomed to this, I would advise that you do not change what you are doing. If you make good $$$, then it really doesn't matter. They may like bbbj but it is your health you must gamble with. I am not saying that everyone who partakes in bbbj has something you may catch, however, just think about how many other people they have bbbj'd with.... you never know. It's ultimately your choice, just ponder the idea some more before making a decision. Good luck.

The provider makes the rules and I have a choice to try and visit her or not. But if I see cbj I am on to the next one. You also have a choice in what you do that's what makes this so great.

I had the same fears, and now I'm all about the bbbj. I have seen women who have worked years in the business and asked them, and they said they never caught anything. So I went with it! Originally Posted by bustyamy

That's what they say to your face, but it is far from the truth. Years ago I was renting rooms out to providers and many of them, through out the years, caught gonahhra of the throat.

It's just a normal part of life to some BBBJ girls. No differnt then catching a cold once a year or so. It's just part of life as they know it.

BBBJ should not be done in this line of work. Period. If the guys had the same risk of getting an STD through BBBJ as a provider has while giving a BBBJ ... CBJ would be the norm around here.

I love what I do and I really love an excited receiver but recently I had a new client come visit me and was shocked that I only offered cbj as if it was unheard of. My feelings were somewhat hurt because he made such a HUGH deal about it and that got me to thinking maybe i'm being to anal about the whole situation. Originally Posted by LeLana

No, you are the one who is being realistic. You should be over thinking this and you should care more about yourself and your body than some stranger.

NO WAY! My mouth goes on NOTHING uncovered that I dont know where its been. Dont be bullied by hobbyists into this. Its your body, and one BAD COCK will leave you with a lifetime of regret. Do some research on the diseases that are transmitted orally. Just think if you were to get something, and never able to kiss anyone again in your personal life. No amount of money is worth it. Originally Posted by kymberlane

EXACTLY!

If you have been offering CBJ only for years and your clients are accustomed to this, I would advise that you do not change what you are doing. Originally Posted by secret.dreamer

I agree with this 100%. You should not change. I have never given a BBBJ in all my working life. 5 years and 1 month. Have I had guys whine about this from time to time over the years? Sure. Does it matter? Of course not. I'm the one who has to live with myself for the next 70 years ... not them.

This what is so good about ECCIE and P411, you know beforehand what to expect. Any guy who whines about CBJ has only mimself to blame. For me BBBJ is the most important part of the date, and it is the first thing I look for in reviews. I have never scheduled with a CBJ girl. I don't hassle them about it, I just don't schedule. I bet 90% of the guys want BBBJ, so a girl is only clicking with 10% of the men. If that 10% is enough to pay your bills then stick with CBJ. You have to do what is comfortable to you, and you and you alone can determine that.

That's what they say to your face, but it is far from the truth. Years ago I was renting rooms out to providers and many of them, through out the years, caught gonahhra of the throat.

It's just a normal part of life to some BBBJ girls. No differnt then catching a cold once a year or so. It's just part of life as they know it.

BBBJ should not be done in this line of work. Period. If the guys had the same risk of getting an STD through BBBJ as a provider has while giving a BBBJ ... CBJ would be the norm around here.




No, you are the one who is being realistic. You should be over thinking this and you should care more about yourself and your body than some stranger.




EXACTLY!




I agree with this 100%. You should not change. I have never given a BBBJ in all my working life. 5 years and 1 month. Have I had guys whine about this from time to time over the years? Sure. Does it matter? Of course not. I'm the one who has to live with myself for the next 70 years ... not them. Originally Posted by Brooke Wild

We understand the percentages. And this would be the type of provider I would avoid. Nothing against her choice but she should be happy with that and not push it on other people