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There is no script though. You will have to see what your provider does. Hopefully she is experienced. Ask her to start slow, make sure YOU verbalize and have lots of lube on hand. And have FUN, you will love it
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have fun baby!
Ive found the best beginner position for strap on is with the receiver laying face down on a firm surface with his knees on the floor. This allows you to relax your lower body muscles completely. If you are in K9 position you will tend to tense up your muscles to counteract the thrusts of the giver.I've found that by pushing into the provider in the beginning allows for me to take control of the depth and the pressure, otherwise the provider is only guessing as to the depth and pressure that I need to accommodate the dong. Once there and I feel comfortable then the thrusting begins with lots of verbal communication. Again preparation and lots of lube and an experienced person with the strap on is the key, start small then increase the size.
There is no script though. You will have to see what your provider does. Hopefully she is experienced. Ask her to start slow, make sure YOU verbalize and have lots of lube on hand. And have FUN, you will love it Originally Posted by Giveumyhart
a yawning motion with your mouth can actually help you relax a little more on your other end. Originally Posted by Zhivago52I love that! Discreetly though, or she may ramp up the activities because she thinks you're bored lol
Once I got past the mental aspects ..... and I do believe 90% of receiving anal is mental ... the huge turn on for me was that sublime feeling of turning over control to someone else....becoming someone's fuck toy....and trusting that someone to take control. Once those mental hurdles were overcome, the bigger strapons were no problem. Originally Posted by Zhivago52That's exactly how I feel, I couldn't have worded it better. Being the fuck toy really sums it up...