Trust me, I'm having plenty of fun, "problem" or not. Originally Posted by CarolinaGent
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Is it a performance issue? A pleasure issue? A relationship issue? Just relax and let it happen as many or as few times as it happens. And like Chucky said, stop worrying about what you read in reviews. It's not a competition....just a hobby.....right?!? From what I can tell, you seem to be doing alright for yourself....enjoy!! Originally Posted by Ed HighlightDid you even read his post ed? I don't think he has relationship or pleasure issues.
I guess you could say an intermittent performance concern. Just thought there might be something that I haven't thought of or tried yet. Not really worried about it, or feeling inferior because of it.But what do I know...I'm typically a 1, 2 or 3 timer myself but all depends on who I'm with or how "inspired" I am....some days are better than others (but then again, I'm 52 yrs old)....I wouldn't be concerned about it if I were you...carry on!!
Trust me, I'm having plenty of fun, "problem" or not. Originally Posted by CarolinaGent
CT, it is very frustrating. This was especially the case when I first started out. That was back in the day before MSOG was widely accepted in the hobby. On more than one occasion, I'd never even got the cover on before exploding in a make shift HJ. Quick clean up and out the door in less than 10 minutes. Providers never had any sympathy; just took the easy cash and left. At least nowadays with MSOG, I know there will be fun, but still it is embarrassing. My typical dates all start the same. Arrive and meet the provider, TCB, start to kiss, fondle, maybe even start DATY, but then I'm ready to go. So, then it is a quick improvise. If she is BBBJ with CIM then it is easy, but if she is not then an embarrassing HJ or self service is in order to get the first shot out of the way.
That's really hard to believe (coming from a 1 pop guy). Originally Posted by charlestudor2005