Am I in trouble for this?

Always trust your instincts. If it doesn't feel right, walk away.

If ladies want ID, facetime verification, and selfies (which don't make them safer), they should expect guys to be more paranoid.

Always best to go with your gut and back away if you get scared, so you did the right thing there...

However, you flat out ghosted this chick and by doing so you contributed to the bad reputation that guys have, so you did the wrong thing there...

Tit for tat? Debatable, but you didn't get any tit so it seems you landed on tat, whatever that means, lol...

Be safe, respect each other when shit hits bumps in the road..