How do providers view the customer ? How is the hobbyist judged ?

You are compensating us for our time NOT our services. So, if all you are interested in is BBBJ, then make sure you let a girl know before you get there. Like stated earlier, some ladies offer B&G's. I would say most of us ladies do not care about weight or the size of your "package". Well, maybe the latter if she speaks Greek. :/ What we do care about is are we being respected, is his donation correct, is he clean, was he on time, did he honor the time frame that he wanted? (Meaning did he book a 30 min session and milk it for 45 min to an hr) yes, it happens and we really don't appreciate it, but that is another story. Bottom line, it's your money/fantasy. Do some research to ensure it will be well spent and that you will get precisely what you are wanting.

On a lighter note. I think I have learned most of the acronyms used here. After doing so I can see how completely inexperienced I am. I'm even more of a prude then I originally thought I was. Originally Posted by TyKneekok

Let's test your learning and prudishness. What act does BBCR entail?

You are compensating us for our time NOT our services.............. Originally Posted by Kendall4U

Sure you are, not to point anyone out, but as an example, a provider ad from here in Dallas, which most are exactly like this: http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=880032 , which states

Hey fellow portly guy with a tiny dick you are not alone.

I resemble that description and I'm 69 (what a wonderful age). I have never experienced a feeling of rejection. While women may look at hot studs, they can just as easily be attracted to someone who treats them with respect and is generally a nice guy. Yes, we sometimes finish last - and sometimes not at all but we have a good time trying.

Some ladies have a FBSM rate that is different from their FS rate. Others do not. I would not suggest negotiating based on service. Just pick one with a rate you can afford and see her. If you see one at her FBSM rate, don't try to stick it where it doesn't belong.

To be in the presence of a lovely lady who will cuddle and kiss and try other things is worth the price of admission.

Try it, you'll like it.

Oh, It wasn't my intention to come off as cheap. I guess rereading, that is how it sounds though. Thank you for the responses.

On a lighter note. I think I have learned most of the acronyms used here. After doing so I can see how completely inexperienced I am. I'm even more of a prude then I originally thought I was. Originally Posted by TyKneekok

Just an observation so take it for what it's worth. Guys generally don't call themselves "a prude" as that's a term gals use...(ahem)

That being said, the best way to be viewed by a provider is be decent, be fair, treat her like a real person (because she is) with respect, care and also....just be yourself (see first sentence above)

Have a nice day!

TyKneekok:
I try to think of myself as an empty beer can lying in the gutter... She's probably thinking only two things about me: "How much money is it worth?" and "Is it clean enough to touch?" Originally Posted by roaringfork

Quote of the day. I love it.

I am judged 1.3" at a time

Let's test your learning and prudishness. What act does BBCR entail? Originally Posted by pyramider

I cant seem to find a definition for this.

I thought the beer can analogy sounded pretty spot on. I guess I was looking into it a bit too heavy with the whole being judged thing.

It seems the major concern the ladies have is hygiene. I can understand how some fat bastards give us a bad rep, but my hygiene is impeccable. I have always been very thorough while bathing. Maybe it's OCD, I just like being ultra fresh at all times, smelling good has always been something important to me.

I have a real issue with a man being seen as "cheap" when exploring the financial options in a session. $200 may be half of his paycheck for the week. The fact it is donated to us must be appreciated and he should walk away sated.

It is a matter of perspective.

As for a man's physical appearance....my attraction is usually to a personality not a bod... Originally Posted by sexy.heather39

That is a great attitude, but if a guy only brings in 400 per week, he can't afford to hobby!