Pahleeeze. There are a couple of VERY successful ladies in Dallas that actually have a package "swing date" set on their sites. I believe it is dinner/drinks/strip club/swingers club... For one "evening date" rate. Not a per hour or per participant fee. Just a "let us go out and have a good time and do as we please" fee.
The biggest thing is having very open communication with your partner.
I am super excited at the idea of Green Door. I wouldn't go to one of my local clubs because well... It is a small world and I love my privacy. But an out of state club... I am all for it. GD especially. I would think that if i were invited out to Vegas for a trip my rate would be for the trip, which is already pretty reasonable, and a night out to that club would be just part of the fun... No extra tag needed.
Originally Posted by ~Ze~
Awesome! And great for them and you, but if this is so common and desired by ladies and clients alike, why are there so many searching here, just as in the lifestyle, yet unable to find? Every lady is entitled to provide as they feel they are comfortable with, and each are entitled to their reasoning just as many feel as I do, hon. If they wanna let as many folks go at 'em for a few extra bucks in a pkg deal because that's their thing, then I am not judgmental at all and go for it! However, the women who think as I do and provide for a living, rather than a shot at some fun sexual experiences, are far more prevalent, hard as that might be for hobbyists or some providers to wrap their mind around.
Also, if ya know anything about the swing lifestyle, I'm sure you get the differences between the two worlds. In my experience, swingers, for the most part, are actually very discreet. Many are professionals, and because of the mindset and intelligence of the majority in that lifestyle, they understand and abide by certain rules and etiquette and, IMO, have shown better control and concern for others also involved in the lifestyle. There are not nearly as many drama mishaps about outing, publicly slamming others opinions, being judgmental. catty, or even opportunities to experience hateful know it all types, as there are in the hobby.
While I understand your privacy needs, it's not like you'd go to a club and say hey, my name is Ze, and I'm a well known provider in the hobby. Right? '-) The thing is, no matter who ya are, if someone is in the club and they recognize you from where ever, ummmmm.....they are also in the club doing their thing, so it's not like they got something on ya and are gonna rat ya out. I've had people who worked in the same building as I did who showed up at the club I attended, and also were "concerned". Why? Not like I was gonna wave at them across the foyer of our building at work and yell, "Hey Girl, you were the life of the party with all those folks lined up eager and ready to get their turn at you at the sex club Saturday night! Can't wait to see what ya do next weekend!"
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If ya ever go to GD....let us know. Clubs are kewl, but if ya really wanna experience something, try a swing resort...vacation, party, and many experiences to be had. Wow, just wow.