How to ask a provider for a fetish ?

My rule is if they enjoy fetishes they aren't charging extra for them....pick you someone that appeals to you and start a chat.. Worse that can happen is they say No. Butt they might say Yes or hey see my friend.......

In my opinion, asking during the booking process but after screening is appropriate. Also there are some of us who are kinky companions so much so that we love communicating about our favorite fetishes. When researching someone(s) you're thinking of meeting, see which threads they might have commented on / started that pertain to your interests. Also, sometimes companions will list on their site which fetishes they are well-versed in.

Lastly something I've not seen mentioned is to keep an eye out for the media they release. For me, sharing images that convey my interests is both an outlet for creative expression and a means to show a client who is compatible with me what services I offer. I love being restrained so in my last professional photo session, I'm pictured wearing handcuffs and also a spreader bar. And I recently made a self-shot video of me wearing nipple pumps because nipple play is an obsession of mine.

Say, for example, you're seeking a Dominant / top playmate to peg you or give you a prostate massage. She might post pro or amateur pics of her wearing her harness and dildo.. or nitrile gloves.

How do the providers feel about asking before screening?


I ask because I don't want to waste your time screening me then both of us realize that the fetish/fantasy isn't for you.


Starting an ISO is ok, but you get a limited number of providers that look/reply.