Hell yeaaaa
Providers AND hobbyists attitudes make or break a good time
Originally Posted by DallasRain
100% agreed. OP you forgot to mention the gent's attitude as well. I see and have seen many gents complain about a girl's attitude for years now in the hobby; something I don't think many gents realize is that the energy you bring with you into the session, can affect the provider and how the session goes very strongly as well.
I am not saying this in defense to a provider who is just plain shitty and doesn't give 2 shits about providing a good experience; but for example, when a gent turns up for the first time to meet me, and he is nervous, I pick up on it and it makes
me nervous as well. I am sure other providers feel similar.
Some gents aren't exactly rude or disrespectful, but I can tell they have some issues going on (perhaps in their personal lives), and it affects my entire mood during the session. Or they are a void of interaction and lay there completely silently and I maybe get 5 words out of them for the entire session.
Or for another instance, throughout the years I have heard both complaints from gents about a single provider - she talked too much, or she didn't talk enough. Guess what? We are not mind readers. Set the tone of the session and show us how much you would like us to engage with you, and any good provider will follow suit and try to accommodate your preferences as best as she is able.
Other gents turn up and are completely congenial, very sweet, responsive, etc etc and it makes things go great. And then there are just some people you will jive with better than others; that's just down to human nature and chemistry.
Anyways, I do agree with you OP but guys, please keep in mind that this issue is a two way street. There are
two (or sometimes more!) people involved in this scenario, just like any other sort of relationship, and it takes both of you "bringing your A game" to make it an all around fun and enjoyable session for all parties involved.