As I remember another provider saying, and with my own experience, ALL of my fetish and dominating affairs are never reviewed - it's not that I ask them to, I suppose they just don't feel comfortable sharing taboo fetishes, although a large majority of my experiences and affairs include some prostate play minamally. Originally Posted by Eva Damita______________________________ _____________________
I agree with many points that Sir Lancehernot made, I think many gentleman would like to schedule their appointments with a provider who is a true specialist in what he is wanting in a session. But is anything actually considered taboo between consenting aduIts ; with the exceptions of course of pedophilia or bestiality? I am pretty much ONLY GFE, although at times I am an accommodator who wants to please my clients with the activities they ask for, but so far it's been nothing that I think wouldn't be considered really freaky, just a part of healthy GFE. I enjoy a little foot fetish in a session, and I like to do prostate massage, but I feel like that is part of my GFE menu, not a fetish. I like some of the "toys for boys" too, like inserting small dildo type things in their butt,(not a strap one, but who knows, maybe one day), and TUMA for both of us, but again, I think that's GFE
. Maybe I'm wrong on that, but when I am a man's Girlfriend for an hour or more, I think it's natural to please your Boyfriend. I enjoy some ass slapping and hair pulling in doggie too, but that's not BDSM, it's just a wilder, more passionate GFE, unless of course it gets too rough and hurts a lot and leaves bruises. I do like it rough sometimes, with a man who knows what he is doing and can be in control enough to gauge my response. I even consider an occasional session of being tied up or handcuffed, but only with a man that I've seen enough to know, and can trust him not to hurt me, to be part of normal GFE play. To me, GFE does not always equal vanilla. It can, it that's what he wants, I love that too. And I guess that most, or all, of what I'm describing is me as the submissive, just not going to far. I can be the one in control when it comes to the kissing and changing positions and telling him what to do to me, but not a dominatrix, I don't think. Maybe someday I could get trained in that if a man I was close to really wanted it from me, but I would rather suggest a threesome, with the other girl being the dominating one.
But nothing I'm uncomfortable with of course, like pain, receiving or giving. I would not be a good dominatrix, and there are so many great ladies on the board who are, so why would you go to a GFE, and try to get her to do that? Or why go to a provider who is known for her fantastic dominatrix skills, and expect a full on, really good, natural GFE session?
But I think Tiffani is right too, in that sexuality is fluid, and many providers are experienced in many skills, and can go back and forth and make each session seem very natural and comfortable for the client. I just don't think there's very many like that, but I'm not sure of course. It seems that if you're true to yourself, you're either submissive or dominate. A GFE, or a get down to business girl, no kissing or IOP, but maybe some really good CFS.
But I am certainly not the most experienced girl on the board, and after I get several years under my belt, maybe I could feel comfortable with multiple types of play. But for now I just want to concentrate on being the best GFE I can be.