Intimacy has nothing to do with it. It is a moment of escape. Role play.So true... if you come in rude, pushy, or otherwise acting an ass (only a slim amount of the clients I encounter, but they're out there) your mileage will definitely vary. We know what you want, and any provider worth her salt is more than willing to give it to you. Be a gentleman, relax, and don't always think that someone is out to scam you for your hard earned $$$. Let the session form on it's own to some extent, and you might be pleasantly surprised!
In a broader term I guess you can call it intimacy .
Not to get too anal about it, but those who want to run down the menu and force the issue, get actually less out of it than what they want .
An old and retired member from P once told me he goes to sessions and let the lady take over and do what she believes she is best at and comfortable with, and he gets the best of what she can offer.
It sounded like too little control over one's fantasy . Years later, I am learning from that wisdom. Originally Posted by Htowner
ThatManFromTexas
"... expecting a "Sofia" (and I mean this generically) to get as hot and bothered about a centenarian with a "Johnson" nick named "Old Leather" (... uh... that would be me...) showing up at her door as she would with a smooth talking, studly, DATY-Slathering ,female heart melting (and other female parts) Dear Hunter packing what appears on airport scanners as a rather large reptile (and I mean this generically) ... is well.. a pretty far fetched fantasy.."
Actually I find that older hobbyists that come see me are more satisfying and more sensual than the younger "studs" that feel like they have an obligation to try to knock the walls out. My mileage tend to go a little further with them...