What you scare the shit out of a provider. No means no!

Kaylee you are a sweetheart and I know how upsetting this is to you. I am sorry this happened. A very long time ago the two of us had some really nice times together and I will never forget them. Thank you.

I am sorry that happened to you girl! I hate when a guy doesnt listen!! Do i need to break out my ninja moves for you? lol but in all seriousness, I am glad you werent harmed and you are safe. I did pm you and i would love to know who the asshole is. If you need anyone to talk to i am here

You're so sweet London. I appreciate it.

Very bothersome since you really are one of the sweetest, most genuine and honest ladies here so as others have said it's a shame but I'm glad you're ok. Paying has nothing to do with being able to do what you want. I'm larger down there and often have to be gentle - most bigger guys know and understand that.

He wasn't concerned about making me feel safe around him that is for sure. And to the fact he accepted the money back goes to show he is not the nicest guy around.

kaylee, I am also very sorry that happened to you.
boundaries are there for a purpose.
hope you've regained your composure and are doing well.

here are some hugs for you!

Awww thanks. I'm okay but I'm taking the rest of the day to regain my composure.

I appreciate the concern.

I actually had an issue the other day with a hobbyist. During our session I felt that he was trying to over-power me and pull me into positions that I did not feel comfortable in. It was our first session together and I kept having to pull away. I had to tell him two or three times that I did not feel comfortable when I am not in control. I am a small girl so it is a frightening situation. It can go south very quickly from there.

Good for you for standing your ground! It can also be very frightening to do so. You never know how the other person will react. It is hard to be firm and make them leave without putting yourself in an even more dangerous situation.

So often what we do is actually very empowering.

But it just takes one person to make us realize how vulnerable we often are with strangers and even with men who aren't.

It's humbling and I know the feeling.

SO SO SO glad that you're alright. Wish I had something more to write in terms of being helpful, but words are failing me right now.

Take care,
Elisabeth

well thats just stupid of him. when a lady tells you something and you don't listen that means there is no trust. in this business thats an absolute must.

So often what we do is actually very empowering.

But it just takes one person to make us realize how vulnerable we often are with strangers and even with men who aren't.

It's humbling and I know the feeling.

SO SO SO glad that you're alright. Wish I had something more to write in terms of being helpful, but words are failing me right now.

Take care,
Elisabeth Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers

For someone whose words are failing them I'd say you did pretty dang well. You're such a classy, well-spoken, great person EW.

Kaylee I'm guessing you were saying "STOP! NO! & DON'T! "But he heard "NO! DON'T STOP!!!" Lol I'm sorry

Kaylee I'm guessing you were saying "STOP! NO! & DON'T! "But he heard "NO! DON'T STOP!!!" Lol I'm sorry Originally Posted by cush

You're a fucking asshole - how is that remotely funny??? Bet if that were your wife, sister, mother, etc you wouldn't think it was funny. There's NOTHING funny about violating someone. You fucking disgust me. Don't know why a troll would bother me but you crossed the line.

Good for you ladies! If you say no, it's no!

You're a fucking asshole - how is that remotely funny??? Bet if that were your wife, sister, mother, etc you wouldn't think it was funny. There's NOTHING funny about violating someone. You fucking disgust me. Don't know why a troll would bother me but you crossed the line. Originally Posted by EasyLover214

Agreed. Pretty damn tasteless.