Watching Your SO and Someone Else?

love to watch.....its so hot watching the SO have fun........she has even watched me a few times.....but most them ended up as a 3 sum.

anyone wanna be watched? lol.

Anybody else ever wonder what it would be like to watch your SO do 'it' with someone else? I'm single but have been seeing a little honey for a couple of years and for some strange reason during foreplay I always ask her if she would let me watch her fuck someone else - male or female. She always says 'yes' but so far, we've never done it. But the fantasy sure does excite me! Am I normal? No, I mean, does anybody else ever have these thots? Thanx for any/all replies. Originally Posted by snabby33

no, you're not normal!!
lots of people have thoughts like that. see tammie's and reese's replies below.

like others have said, it has to be BOTH of your decisions, not just yours, not just hers. and be sure of the reasons or objectives for wanting to do so. you might think one thing about it and she might think a diff thing, which could upset you. or vice versa.

That's what the swing lifestyle is all about.
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When I had an SO, it was extremely exciting to have him watching me. And to know that another lady was receiving pleasure from him, but I'm just not a watcher. Originally Posted by TemptationTammie

snabby, tammie is giving you good info.
there are all kinds of swinging lifestyles - just a MFM threesome, a MFMF sharing, a house party, a swingers club, a full-blown swingers vacation at a resort or on a cruise ship.

it can be lots of delites.

I love being watched and I love watching. Being secure in the relationship is a for sure a requirement... or there will be trouble. Originally Posted by Reese Foster

love to watch.....its so hot watching the SO have fun........she has even watched me a few times.....but most them ended up as a 3 sum.

anyone wanna be watched? lol. Originally Posted by citizen33

see, even reese and citizen33 have those kinds of thoughts.


btw, Ms Foster, since i wont be able to schedule an appt with you during your upcuming visit to dfw , would you please install a webcam and let me watch you and your clients [MF or even MFM or FMF] get into some intimate delites??

Hell, first I'd like to watch my SO doing it with ME! Originally Posted by NorthDallas30

ditto, nd30, ditto.

Anybody else ever wonder what it would be like to watch your SO do 'it' with someone else? I'm single but have been seeing a little honey for a couple of years and for some strange reason during foreplay I always ask her if she would let me watch her fuck someone else - male or female. She always says 'yes' but so far, we've never done it. But the fantasy sure does excite me! Am I normal? No, I mean, does anybody else ever have these thots? Thanx for any/all replies. Originally Posted by snabby33

Take her to Collette's!

Run an ad on Craigslist? What's the worst that could happen?

For the record, I did it in an already screwed up marriage. We did the swinger thing for 2 years, and even went on overnight and full weekend dates with others. It was a fun experience, but now I'm divorced, paying child support, and don't get to see my kids nearly as much as I want. It all depends on the relationship though. We met several couples that had been swinging for 10 or 20 years together and had a tight bond. But adding others to the mix in an already messed up marriage is a recipe for disaster.

its sexy as hell. just make sure it's with someone who is disposable that way if you never want to see them again when you're done you don't have to.

checkout https://www.sdc.com/ . you can seek out like minded people there.

Oh my ... If I had an SO I don't know if I could let him know how much I would love to watch him fuck another woman while I masturbate. He might get tired of being my live porn puppet lol

Take her to Collette's! Originally Posted by Adrienne Baptiste

Sigh.

Going to Collette's with Adrienne was AMAZING.

In the two years I've watched my wife (a) get a VERY sensual massage, (b) do everything BUT "it" with another guy, and (c) full blown sex with a guy that she met on OKCupid - and has been seeing for over a year.

It is mind blowing! But not something for the jealous type.

I've always thought it would be great to have someone help me pleasure the Mrs., maybe pick up her self esteem and libido. Of course she dismisses the idea. . . because of low self esteem and libido. . .

Bottom line, this sort of thing can't (or shouldn't) be just because one of you really wants to do it, both of you need to really want this to minimize downside risk.

Play Safe.

Slipping into a glory hole room with her and watch her having fun while fucking her crosses my mind every now and then.

Sigh.

Going to Collette's with Adrienne was AMAZING. Originally Posted by WacoGuy

Yes it was! We need to make another trip soon!

Spent 25 years in the swinging lifestyle with my SO of 32 years. Not much we didn't see or do.