One of the things I try to do in hobby is try new things, take a few chances. I generally working on a premise that things only go out of there. So when a provider offered a prostate massage, my instincts were to say nope, but I over-rode that and said sure, let's try. She said she was really good at it, and had this special toy. I really feel like I gave it a try. I'm not a stressed person, or anal retentive, figuratively or literally. But, nothing for me, I doubt I try again.
TUMA, on the other hand, is a fun little tickle. Not even close to anything I'm going to orgasm over. Similar to an appetizer before your favorite meal. First time for that I was not expecting it, and I thought HELLO, you are a trusting person! I must admit I did return to that provider.