Let me be first, Tara! I'll punish you right. Originally Posted by Stallion81I always like how you punish me.
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I like to be spanked at times, it really gets me riled up, if it's done correctly. I like it to sting, but not hurt to the point of leaving a bruise. I've seen those kinds of videos and they make me cringe. I don't equate pain to sex. Ever. To each their own though. Originally Posted by Kendall4UI can agree with you there kendall. I can see how a light spanking could be a turn on just not the ones that look like they are getting beat like runaway slaves. I did read a little more about it from another article and some girls say it puts the into some kind of subspace what ever that means
This is the best thing I have ever read on the topic of STD'sWhat does that have to do with spanking?
http://markmanson.net/std-guide
tldr; Chances are you will not contract an STD even if another party has one and If you do it is not the end of the world and is curable/manageable. Originally Posted by ND
Beats me (no pun intended). So completely contrary to my nature to strike anyone (unless is self defense) or do anything that would cause pain. I can't comprehend it. Originally Posted by TexTushHog10+ years ago I was standing over a gorgeous blonde who was lying face-down on a massage table, begging for this particular favor. When I chivalrously told her "I can't hit you," her disappointment was as evident as her enthusiasm had been. I recognize now that if I'd simply climbed up there and let her lie across my lap, the experience would have become more intimate, and more than acceptable to me. I guess it's kind of like MMA--the trick is to work your striking smoothly into your ground game....
I've had both good amounts of spanking and spanking to the point of bruising. And both were turn ons in different ways. The extreme one was with someone I really trusted. So, I wouldn't let a client do that to me. But a good few smacks is hot. I'm not sure why, other than it is exciting. Originally Posted by tntangieTnt I agree stil if like that you want to do with someone you trust but I guess it's more things that go into then just liking pain