please! just the sexy talk, NOT the daily life stuff

Lol!! You need to either re-read or continue your education. I’ve been around too long. You and your team of bully’s are not going to faze me. Originally Posted by Lindsay Lee

I'm not on a team, and I'm not trying to bully you.

I just noticed that Analeese called Wiley out, and I didn't think it was fair that you did the same thing and it wasn't called out.

Instead of fucking with the session based on conversation, I think we would all do well to follow the advice given in most of this thread.

Since my minimum visit is two hours real world talk is going to happen between nuts. But I have my preferences. Discussing similiar interests. Recent events, etc I don't mind. What I do NOT like is gossiping about other providers. And telling me anything about another client will guarantee no return visits. As long as she's ready to play when Dick Dastardly shows up again I'm good.

Crock... I’m sorry but you are still putting words in my mouth..Never said anything of the sorts! And it’s our bodies! If you come into our private, closed door space acting like a prick and being disrespectful you are probably not gonna get good luvin! Just because you come in w some cash doesn’t give you the right to be disrespectful and choose what to pay! Oh Hell No!

I just think mutual respect gets everyone what they want!

I'm not on a team, and I'm not trying to bully you.

I just noticed that Analeese called Wiley out, and I didn't think it was fair that you did the same thing and it wasn't called out.

Instead of fucking with the session based on conversation, I think we would all do well to follow the advice given in most of this thread. Originally Posted by Crock

Didn’t notice that comment...

Imma step out of this conversation before more drama comes and I get caught up in the middle...

Interesting topic and advice that even I could stand to follow OP...so ty for posting and the replies have been interesting to say the least

Edit: no agenda....Wiley I have left you alone ....not said a word to you ...and I insult when I feel it’s deserved and I’m provoked..period. I’m not having a hard time at all actually. I’m just picking my battles and you aren’t worth having one with anymore imo..Like or it or not ...but if you don’t ..you most certainly can put my condescending ass on ignore..you’re the one that seems to have an agenda...repetitive one at that.

Can we stay on topic of this thread please .....

Lol!! You need to either re-read or continue your education. I’ve been around too long. You and your team of bully’s are not going to faze me. Originally Posted by Lindsay Lee

No one is bullying you, that went out when the mods started to enforce the guidelines. I disagreed with your assessment and said why. I said the hygeine and respect should be the factors that determine a good time, not a witty conversation. I made no mention that I pay what I feel like paying in my donation to a provider, so I think you need to re-read my reply post to you on this thread (#9), especially the last paragraph. Now, let's not forget, the subject of this thread is conversation while BCD, nothing else.

I'm not on a team, and I'm not trying to bully you.

I just noticed that Analeese called Wiley out, and I didn't think it was fair that you did the same thing and it wasn't called out.

Instead of fucking with the session based on conversation, I think we would all do well to follow the advice given in most of this thread. Originally Posted by Crock

Analeese didn't call me out as there is nothing to call me out on, she sees what she wants to see in posts. Now, she does have a clear agenda against me, but she cannot find any dirt to spill, so she is going to do what she can as that is her MO. She is having a hard time not being able to insult and condescend to people as she regularly has done in the past.

I agree that everyone has a preference and while people do not always agree, there is no need for name calling or putting someone on blast for having a different opinion.

I feel that each client has different expectations and needs for a session. There may be a client that wants to spend the entire hour with nothing but conversation and that's fine. An experienced provider can read the client and the situation and cater the session to his needs.
On the other hand, I've seen experienced providers decide to stop a BJ and make some irrelevant comment about something I don't care about and then go back to business which totally kills any IOP.

This can be a big benefit to having a regular repeat customer. You can get past all of the unknowns and you should know what each other's expectations are.

This.....

I just think mutual respect gets everyone what they want![/QUOTE]

I feel that each client has different expectations and needs for a session. There may be a client that wants to spend the entire hour with nothing but conversation and that's fine. An experienced provider can read the client and the situation and cater the session to his needs.
On the other hand, I've seen experienced providers decide to stop a BJ and make some irrelevant comment about something I don't care about and then go back to business which totally kills any IOP.

This can be a big benefit to having a regular repeat customer. You can get past all of the unknowns and you should know what each other's expectations are. Originally Posted by L.A.

This^^^. 100%.

I think some people would be surprised that the majority of guys who see me want to talk about anything and everything for about an hour before we dive in. That’s why my min time is 90 min.

My P411 profile does a good job at self selecting my type of guy and I in no way begrudge the guys who just want to get down to business. But you have to remember a lot of guys feel like they don’t have someone at home to talk to about whatever is in their mind and so like to know about a lady’s personal life if she’s willing to share. WALDT

Guys that want to talk are probably shy and are afraid to take control. I agree with the op, I wouldn't want to hear your problems either.

I’m sure that is sometimes the case but most of my visitors are very type A types and definitely not shy. Then again, I don’t sit there and complain nonstop, we have mature convo while intermittently making out and drinking and having hors d’oerves (or cookies, lol).

I’m sure that is sometimes the case but most of my visitors are very type A types and definitely not shy. Then again, I don’t sit there and complain nonstop, we have mature convo while intermittently making out and drinking and having hors d’oerves (or cookies, lol). Originally Posted by B Three

I don't want you to think it was directed towards you. I meant in general.

I feel that each client has different expectations and needs for a session. There may be a client that wants to spend the entire hour with nothing but conversation and that's fine. An experienced provider can read the client and the situation and cater the session to his needs.
On the other hand, I've seen experienced providers decide to stop a BJ and make some irrelevant comment about something I don't care about and then go back to business which totally kills any IOP.

This can be a big benefit to having a regular repeat customer. You can get past all of the unknowns and you should know what each other's expectations are. Originally Posted by L.A.

+1000

Conversation to break the ice after you walk through the door is one thing and perfectly OK IMHO, but unfortunately some girls don't know when the casual convo should end and the real fun should begin.

ladies,

that is, please do not start going on about how shitty things are, how your kid's father is being the jerk that he is, how that other provider you thought was your BFF turned out to be a back-stabbing thief, etc. etc. etc.
please do not ask us what we do, are we married, etc.
and, after i've left, please do not text, pvtMsg, call me asking for money or a loan or something to tide you over.


let's keep our time together intimate, fun, erotic, sexy, and filled w/ as many orgasms as we can muster.

thanks! Originally Posted by pmdelites

Good luck with that


There are some chatty kathys out their and then with a VJs that U can park a 747 in and still have clearance.
BSC and GPS the list never ends
Pay Ur phone bills

Tell clients NO

Do not waste clients time with NCNS.

P411 helps with clients that NCNS if the rules are followed.