Stop trying to make a GFE a PSE!!!!!!

Jaida, DED gives some great advice that I think will help with future sessions.

Personally, Porn Star/Girlfriend/Wife Experience doesn't interest me, I prefer the Romantic Experience Originally Posted by Mr. Romantic

MMM I agree I like the slow and sensual myself but there are some instances when I just need a good pounding , but miss Jaida makes a valid point if a lady doesn't advertise PSE on GFE and the guy walks in and proceeds to jack-hammering then that can be a little traumatic especially if said guy is hung like a horse lol ..best thing to do is ask " hey can I pound you til the cows come home ? lol most ladies will tell you yes or no..however with a gorgeous ass like hers I can understand why they want to go for a romp..

That ass is nice.

This is why all providers love them some old fat white guys.

GFE stands for Girlfriend Experience. These types of providers...make love to you. Originally Posted by Jaida_So_Lovely

I don't want any woman to make love to me...if I wanted a woman to make love to me, I'd go to eHarmony.com...

.....if I wanted a woman to make love to me, I'd go to FarmersOnly.com... Originally Posted by Wakeup

Wakeup .... come in from the cornfield.

Jaida_So_Lovely with the Ass_So_Lovely That ass must drive men crazy!!! OK. Back to the subject.

I think communication in the key. Tell them how you want it. I've had providers tell me to take it easy and to tear it up. So don't be afraid to speak up.

Also, men should pay attention to possible clues that a lady may provide on how she wants to be fucked. First clue that I use is the blow job, as her technique usually lets me know how she wants to fuck. Second clue is having the provider get on top, first. The way the provider rides me also lets me know how she wants it. Third, how the provider spreads her legs for mish. If she spreads those legs wide or got her knees going back towards her shoulders, then that's a signal for me to dig in.

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Also, men should pay attention to possible clues that a lady may provide on how she wants to be fucked. First clue that I use is the blow job, as her technique usually lets me know how she wants to fuck.... Originally Posted by johnniewalkerblack

^^ So, how much do you charge her for this type of service?

I guess, u r off a lot of lists - u don't just need to say u like it gentle but how gentle. Is 1 hit a second ok, or too fast? If a guy is not sure he can have u the way he wants should he guess? I think I would shy away from those that can't take a pounding coz sex has a mix of both soft, slow, and hard too. Even a gfe experience has those. Am not sure if u can draw a line on where it stops being gfe.

If her booty claps back during K-9 and it sounds like continuous applause after a comedy show ....too fast for her. If the clap sounds like a sarcastic response after an impassioned speech your in the right sexual rhythm.

I think she wants a two second pause between each stroke. When the booty stops jiggling from the impact of the first stroke, you can go again.

But I gotta admit right before I'm about to cum during CFS I go into just a tad of a lil beastmode and need a sorta fast stroke for best results. I guess you have to find another option at that point.

I advertise both PSE and GFE. I always assume all my visits will be physically demanding, so I never book more appts than I could handle if I were to have one of those days. After doing this for a little bit, you get to know yourself. You either set your own boundaries, or you will end up frustrated.

GFE, PSE, and all the other silly acronyms mean different things to different people.

E.g. UTR appears in the OP's sig line yet she's posting on a SHMB. That's not UTR to me.

I don't think I ever would be accused of pounding to oblivion but I do often need a min or two of solid action to fire off the second round without going over the allotted time. JWB sees it the way I do, I try to match the mood set by the lady. Lexy at PA used to grab the sheets, buck her ass back to meet each thrust, and when you were done she'd drop to her knees and profess her love for my cock. Others, if they have body language that I think signals discomfort I ask if she's ok, or just pull out and let her take over with hands and mouth. I have no interest in causing discomfort and risking a future "no" or a bad rep when getting screened.

I'm pretty much inline with what Tbone just wrote.....I try to "go-with-the-flow", so to speak.....while I can and will be more than happy to become quite "energetic" the last thing I want to do is cause anyone any pain, or discomfort. This type of interaction does require a certain amount of feedback from the lady with whom I am spending time. If she is meeting and reciprocating, stroke for stroke, with "enthusiasm", then I will do so as well....grin.......

For me, going with the flow and knowing what someone is, or is not, into, makes for a much better experience.

"BoB"

So my question is it the woman's body or does chemistry make a difference or not. There are women who I know always love a pounding, anything less would be unacceptable. You can tell they are not just selling an illusion, but they absolutely love to fuck. Then there are others that seem disinterested at a deeper level and it shows. So then I get disinterested. I usually attribute that to being two different sexual appetites. But then I read on the board reviews about the second type of woman and how much she loved getting pounded multiple times by the reviewer.So is the girls appetite, body, chemistry, or guys buying the sales pitch? If I wanted to pay for a disinterested allusion, I would get a wife. Or maybe I just wrongly think that pounding means interest. Not that I am of a size or endurance that pounds women into oblivion.