*A first for me* I should have gone with my Gut* Hurt My Feelings*

Lawd, your legs are perfection. I'd love to take you out as my arm candy. We need to talk.

What do you expect from a guy who knows nothing....

Boooooo eccie John Snow.

Shake it off girl! He's just a bug at your feet. His opinion isn't worth even thinking about, so please hold your head up and don't let a bug hurt your feelings. Obviously not much of a man, and he's apparently a mental defective who can't even find his way into a parking lot. He should at least have walked you back to your place and let you take the sweats off. And a real man gives a lady a cancelation fee if he wimps out and runs home.

You look beautiful to me.

But I wonder, how can a complete stranger make you feel any less than who you actually are?

Hey love, I set up an appointment with you today on P411 and I am so glad I did!! I really appreciate the way you stood up for yourself in this thread and it makes me like you even more!! It's his loss, there are plenty of us good guys out there!! Looking forward to meeting you!!

Fucker was probably broke and knew he couldn't get one over on you.

Don't worry about the insult. It was probably just a cover up line because he couldn't tell you he was broke and gonna try an steal the pussy.

You are one of Dallas' finest mature ladies in the game. Don't let what one guy said get you down. Like I said. That was probably not really the reason he turned around and left.

You dodged a bullet and got a reminder that despite all the screening in the world, if your gut says no, listen to it.

Lindsay,

wowza.....love the candid pics, you are a hawt milf!!! that guy is an idiot.

Blues

While it's unfortunate you got your feelings hurt, surely this happens to everyone (even the gents) in this business. Having thick skin to just let it go and move on would, I expect, be a key trait in this profession. No one would have known this person said that about you, and/or that such comments affect you had you not posted. It could appear that you're basically posting this to smear a clients name. After all, this is a subjective matter.

I don't know if this is really a concern of yours (whether you actually look like your pictures in person) or not; but if it was I can think of better ways to go about finding sincere* responses. You wouldn't be the first provider that someone thought didn't look like their pictures, and you wouldn't be the first provider to look better than her pictures.

As mentioned, there is absolutely no reason to put an alert up on this person. The only 'RED FLAGS' you mentioned were a gut feeling. This post, I feel, could have been better without a client attached to it. It gives it a petty feel.

Fun in DFW.....I did it because I WANTED too....And i said it WAS NOT a alert. Did you NOT read that??


He t old me I would be laughed off Eccie if I told what he did. What he did WAS not right! He wasted my time, was rude and disrespectful.


I DID NOT include the hurtful text he sent me when I said I was going to alert the ladies about him.

And why should I NOT say his name JohnSnow ????

I don't know what your problem is, and I really do not care. I felt that I needed to post pics that were taken 10 MINUTES after he drove off, insulted me by text and wasted my time.


Oh, and what is your reasoning for your childish shark image....You obviously took some time to search that out and post that. That is pretty immature....IMHO

I won't address that all specifically. Mostly because it's emotionally driven and I don't want to hurt your feelings with a response you might take personally opposed to it being said/meant logically.

HOWEVER, that 'childish shark image' is the one and only Mike Haggar pile-driving a shark. Manliest of men if there ever was one. He is the epitome of maturity. Only with such a stark contrasting image can one attempt to convey a message that juxtaposes the masses with hope that justice shall prevail. Do you not see that bead of sweat from the shark? It knows what's up.

Hi Lindsay,

I am sure you are a beautiful person inside and out as evident by your postings on this board. However, I would like to clarify, are you more concerned with JS's actions, or the way he came off? We as hobbyists do have the right and it is basically in the unwritten hobbyist code to walk away and/or leave if we feel like the provider doesn't meet our expectations (unfortunately, this will always be subjective). Therefore, I don't see where JS committed any offense.

Unless you are just saying he was a jerk in the way he did things. Question, would you feel or react any differently if he was a complete gentleman about it and genuinely let you know that you did not meet his expectations? Just playing devils advocate here. I do believe that there's never a reason to be a jerk, if that's your true complaint, then I agree.

To address your question DarkeyKong, I would have not put anything up on this site if he had done things differently. And I don't have these problems with P-411 and Legitimate, eccie gentleman. After searching JohnSnow in a different spelling...other than how I screened him a long time ago, I also see he has done this to other ladies. He has also apparently been banned from Relax.

My intention was to let the ladies know what he did, and also let the guys know it's NOT COOL. I posted my pics totally prepared to get RIPPED APART by some of the mean ass guys on this board that have ZERO respect for us ladies.

I posted....I'm glad I did. I felt what he did was NOT JUSTIFIED, and if I were to see that he has done this to someone, and not the first time, I would NOT want to see him. Just like you write a review of yes or no. Please don't try to Psycoannalyse me for my reasons. If you think what he did was ok.....well then YOUR Mamma's did not teach you right.

Xoxoxo!

John is right, you do not look like your pic's.You look much better in person. He has no idea what he missed, his loss if you ask me. Lindsey you are beautiful and an awesome. person.. This reminds me I need to come see you again soon. XOXO Sling.

To address your question DarkeyKong, I would have not put anything up on this site if he had done things differently. And I don't have these problems with P-411 and Legitimate, eccie gentleman. After searching JohnSnow in a different spelling...other than how I screened him a long time ago, I also see he has done this to other ladies. He has also apparently been banned from Relax.

My intention was to let the ladies know what he did, and also let the guys know it's NOT COOL. I posted my pics totally prepared to get RIPPED APART by some of the mean ass guys on this board that have ZERO respect for us ladies.

I posted....I'm glad I did. I felt what he did was NOT JUSTIFIED, and if I were to see that he has done this to someone, and not the first time, I would NOT want to see him. Just like you write a review of yes or no. Please don't try to Psycoannalyse me for my reasons. If you think what he did was ok.....well then YOUR Mamma's did not teach you right.

Xoxoxo! Originally Posted by Lindsay Lee

I think it's rather harsh and a bit malicious to make disparaging remarks about the parenting skills of my mother because she is no longer here. However, she did a great job raising me from a youth and I feel she deserves a bit more respect than that.

I apologize if offended you in any way. I just wanted to inform you that this is a normal rule of thumb for hobbyist. I apologize if I came off rude or as if I am psycho-analyzing you. I know it's not ok to be a jerk, and if he was, he is absolutely wrong for that.

However, I do still stand by the fact that this person had the right to leave if he didn't feel like you met his expectation for whatever reason. This doesn't necessarily reflect negatively on you in any way. It may just be him, but you have more than enough clout here and on other sites to prove otherwise.

Edit: after a little contemplation, I realize I probably commented at the wrong time in that you still may be a bit upset at what happened. I apologize, I am sure you're a beautiful person and it is his loss 😊