So I should just place it on the table and ignore it. Then I should just start talking to the provider, right? Sounds simple enough. I've been through the drill a couple of times...some providers just take it from me though - so I wasn't sure what the reasoning was exactly. Originally Posted by cruise95Yeah pretty much, when it's me, the gent puts their gift on the table and give him that nod and say thank you and we continue our session. I never ask about it, or talk about it at all. After we're done and I'm heading to the restroom to compose myself and freshen up I grab my purse and the donation and make sure everything is in order before putting everything away. The fun doesn't start until it's on the table with first visits, unless I know the provider he gave as a reference personally and know in detail that he's a gentleman. With repeats and regs it's at our leisure, they know I'll punish them if they misbehave
It's obvious you weren't worried about getting busted for buying condoms, but I can TOTALLY understand getting spooked by seeing a cop as you're on your way to see a call girl. I've canceled appointments because the guy said one off comment that made me uneasy (I'm pretty easy going though, so when that line is crossed it usually merits a response)
It's never any fun if you're worried about everything that can or might go wrong. Thats why you do all your research and get comfortable before taking the plunge. Like I said, the chick was way off for asking you to pick them up to begin with. It's incriminating, and just plain dumb. You're don't have the wrong idea though, the cops use that tactic to incriminate pedos on dateline. They'll have their bait ask for alcohol or some specific token to prove they were coming to see that specific girl.
This is a dangerous industry on a lot of fronts babes, but as long as you cover your own ass and stay away from trash, you'll be just fine. Don't beat yourself up about it, men have canceled for much less.