I've never tried to date strippers/escorts so I didn't know they had this rule that they can sleep around with as many men as they want but their lovers have to be faithful to them.
I'm not a beta male nor am I a cuck so I would never accept such an unfair humiliating rule. Truth is, even if I accepted it so I could be her boyfriend...she would never respect me for it. Oh she may compliment me on how "open-minded, understanding & progressive" I'm but inside she would think of me with disgust. I wouldn't be a real man to her. Most women are hardwired to be attracted to strong assertive men who can provide for her, not broke submissive doormats.
Originally Posted by VeryClean
You should've just ended it right there and I would almost be 100% in agreement with you.
A man who isn't willing to fight for his woman's love is no man at all. If she's sleeping around to pay the bills, then he should man the fuck up and take care of all the expenses so she doesn't have to do that.
Originally Posted by VeryClean
Here is where you lost me. I'm not sure you truly understand the whole alpha/beta male thing. No true "alpha male" is going to start paying all the bills so his girl can stop selling pussy. An alpha male is not saving prostitutes dude. That's laughable. His options will be vast enough that entering a relationship with an escort would be the LAST thing on his mind.
Also, there's usually two sides. There's the alpha male, then there's the beta male provider. There's a reason so many women will talk about their past of dealing with the "bad boys" (alpha males). But at a point they realize their clock is ticking, looks are fading, value is decreasing, they want a family & children, and financial and social stability. That is when they begin to seek out Mr. Beta Male Provider for security. In the burgeoning "red pill" community they refer to this phenomenon as "alpha fucks, beta bucks". That is why sooooo many married men make up this hobby world, are in shitty, sexless marriages where their wife has them by the balls, and why they subscribe to emasculating, beta male ways of thinking like "happy wife, happy life" and "my wife's the boss" etc. Also a big part of the reason why women initiate a staggering 70-80% of divorces, report being more unhappy in marriage than men, and there's so many failing marriages in general. To relate it to the hobby, the pimp/john dynamic is sort of a microcosm of the whole alpha/beta concept as well. The pimp is the alpha male who a girl will respect and give all her money to, while the john is the frustrated beta male provider who gets no respect and can't figure out why.
The alpha male provider exists but is much more rare. Again, because his options dictate that settling down and providing for one woman is not something he has to do. The alpha male provider, in my opinion, looks more like something along the lines of a Floyd Mayweather who keeps a rotation of several girlfriends who know he has other women and will take care of them as long as he's dealing with them but refuses to enter into the terrible, one-sided business contract called "marriage" or relegate himself to one woman b/c he doesn't have to. I'm sure there are some alpha male providers who do choose to take the one woman or marriage route, but quite honestly damn near all married men I know either cheat to maintain some semblance of happiness and sanity, are completely miserable, are complete simps w/ little to no backbone, or some combination of all three.
Secondly, "fighting for your woman's love" sounds good, but that's more beta talk from TV and movies geared toward women. You fight for your woman's RESPECT. And that is ONLY after she has proven it to you over a period of time by showing that she is willing to be loyal, submit, and follow your lead as the head of the household. If she truly respects you then all those things will follow. People (especially women) tend to take things that were just handed to them with little to no effort for granted. Your willingness to "fight for her" has to be earned, not given away frivolously just because she's attractive and has a vagina. Love is an ambiguous term that has no real substance and everyone has different definitions for what it is. It can come and go like the wind and means very little. No woman who truly RESPECTS a man would even entertain the thought of selling her vagina to random men while claiming to "love" and care about him. The whole "it's my job" angle is an attempt at a jedi mind trick, a bad one at that, and only men with no spine would dare entertain such delusional nonsense.
