Spankings

houston_switch's Avatar
I like the spanking to be a at least a two-parter, receiving the hairbrush and paddle first, then some playtime which might include a switch of roles... then receiving the second part... via the resin cane I have. The best spanking leave some marks for a short period but the tingle and soreness for a few days especially when rubbing the cheeks... ssc, safe words, with great respect and (gfe) affection. Some times we play spanking games... flip the quarter (a mutual strip game, first bare bottom get punished first or receives a sexual request) or card game... (pick the card get the number of swats shown on the card. Type of card indicates the implement used).
All fun stuff...
Lyn,
I love them all for different reasons.

Cane, paddle, whip, cat-o-nine, crop, wooden hairbrush, hand, strap, horse fluffer, lamp pull chains, rubber hose, chains, flogger, leather cord, extension cords, wire rods,sjambok, birch rod, willow branches twisted together, buggy whip, quirt, single-tail,
...etc...
If you can smack an ass with it, I have used it.
One of the most elegant implements there is in a Dommes dungeon is the cane. It's not for all because of the harsh impact that it can inflict but the imagery of a East German Dominatrix in leather wielding a cane is one that fascinates and ignites a spark inside a submissive like no other... in my opinion.

Cheers,
Maitresse Renee Originally Posted by Maitresse Renee

Ooooh...would love to experience that
  • Blaze
  • 03-24-2012, 06:04 PM
For giving I do not like to use my hand on the butt much. My hands will hurt and tingle. I prefer to use either cat o nine or my fav is my bamboo canes. I love the way they leave lines and whelps. I feel like I have the most control with them.

Receiving, I like a hand only. I like to be suprised and even like my pussy spanked.
soxfan's Avatar
Hmmm blaze interesting thought was only a porn thing.
Oh absolutely! There is nothing more exciting than heating up someones skin and watching it turn red. I love the tingling in my hand after each strike. It's intoxicating!

I love giving more than receiving, but love both.
I'm cool with the administration of smacks on my ass...so long as the Mistress is grinding her hips in an appropriate manner whilst her rubber phallus moves in and out.
jimmycz's Avatar
Dayam Godess I saw a closet like that recently! Amazing with an open mind and with the right Mistress what is enjoyable. Never thought I would enjoy being tied up, wrong! Never thought my ass would have something stuck in it, wrong! Never thought spanking would turn me on, damn wrong! One thing I did learn though once turned lose somebody is going to get some hot fucking though!!!
cumalot's Avatar
I'm ready for some beat the fuck out of my ass spanking time...
houston_switch's Avatar
Yep I like that idea too... sooner rather than later... where is my ATF and paddle?
I had a woman lube her thighs up... Then was told to lay across her knees. My cock just happen to end up righ between those lubed thighs (I think she planned it that way).

I reacted to each spank as they got harder and harder, with a thrust of my hips as her hand hit my ass... Which essentially had me humping her thigh and her controlling the pace. Naturally she hit me faster and faster until I made a mess on her thighs.
spice-is-nice's Avatar
Ummmm, love receiving since I'm predominantly sub. Though I have switched on occasion to good effect. I think knowing how things feel on the receiving end is instructive for being on the giving end.

I'm not a masochist, or a pain slut. What I find fascinating is not enduring pain, but how one can teach his/her body to perceive progressively more intense sensations as pleasurable, to the sublime point where endorphins kick in and you go into subspace.

I find that having a butt plug in during the corporal works well for me. So a gradual workup with soft stroking intermixed as my bottom begins to glow, moving from soft flogger to hand, hairbrush, paddle, crop, and lastly the fearsome cane. Again, this can all be done very sensuously, creating an almost Pavlovian response as her reacharounds to play with nipples and cock and soft caresses of bottom and other parts are mixed in with progressively more harsh corporal. Fun!!!

With a skillful partner, I can end up taking many hard strokes of the cane and still perceive it as pleasure. Your partner has to know what he/she is doing though, because once you drop into subspace, everything feels good, and you could be truly hurt without knowing it. Fortunately that has not happened to me, but choose your partners carefully.

A vigorously applied cane will leave bruises which can take 10-12 days to go away, so be aware of that. Most of the others leave no bruises or nothing which doesn't fade in a couple of days.
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With you Spice intensify for pleasure. Not really into humiliation.