Depends on your connection and personality. I’ve dated several providers and became very close. Originally Posted by JoddxxxMe as well. I have dated several providers over the years, including 2 highly respected ones from here. I also became friends with a couple more. Used to shoot pool with one every week and sometimes go to the swingers club. As in no PTP. While I am no super model, most women outside the hobby complement me about how I dress and my looks.I always prepaired myself like I was going on a date with a hot girl.
Key for me both for social engagements or get maxmium perfomamce from a session has been to always treat them as a lady until they prove otherwise. Respect goes a long ways especialy in this business. I get what I want without having to order them or demean them.
Unlike one guy that posts alot about it, I can't recall the last session when I had to order them to or get mad because they did not moan enough at the right time. No issues with IOP or not getting the servies advertized. No YMMV issues, in fact, quite the oppisete. I have had NSNC or issues outside the bedroom but that is just part of the hobby world.
Kind of makes you wonder why a few guys are always complaining about things when most, often with the same providers, have no issues. Clear, polite communication, looking the best you can, and respect go a long way