Hobbyist Age? Younger Hobbyists?

Smokes...if you showed up in a clown suit that would just cost you extra! Thats Definately in the fetish category. Maybe a domina session since clowns give me the creeps. I would have to punish you,all in good fun, if course. On a more serious note, imo, life experience trumps age any time. I know some younger people that are way beyond their years in wisdom, and some older fools that have never really learned how to act or cope in the world. Screening can tell you a lot about person. I don't really need to know their age before a session. Unless they are a teen (18 or 19) or geriatric. On those accounts I would take a pass.
I see clients of all ages. A recspectul manner and postive attitude means much more then a number, on either end of the age spectrum.

xoxo Sophie
Britttany_love's Avatar
I too see clients of all ages.... as long as your a nice guy i dont see what your age has to do with anything.
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I fall in the "under 30" category myself, plus am new so I'm curious as to providers' thoughts on younger gents.

I assume the majority of hobbyists are older gentlemen, and I've seen a few sites/ads state specifically "no one under 40" (or 35)

From what I've heard, the main reasons seem to be
1) The lack of manners/respect/maturity that apply to many younger cats
2) Most would be more inclined to find a "wham, bam, thank you ma'm" rather than conversation and intimacy

Thoughts, reflections, ridonculous anecdotes? Originally Posted by smokeswithwolves
I don't think it's that the younger hardlegs aren't good bullshit artists. I'm sure they are. I also don't think it matters whether they use the right fork or not. But what do I know?

I think the reason some ladies want to see geezers is that $$-$$$ bucks is not that much money to us. When I was in my twenties (80-90 years ago), I remember calling an escort agency out of the phone book and being told the rate was $$$ an hour. You might as well have told me $8,000.

Years later, if I pay $$.5 for an hour and it's an average experience, I'm like "meh". I've forgotten about it two hours later or possibly rationalized that it was better than it was.

Some 28 year-old leg pays that money, and the gal doesn't quite look like he imagined, and doesn't go for his romantic suggestion of "two in the pink, one in the sink", he might be all "Bitch! That wasn't worth no 2 fiddy!!

Plus, with an older cat, there's always the chance he can't get it up. He'll pay anyway and apologize! Now that's easy work!

And the younger legs often over-shoot their loads into the provider's purse. They hate that.

One leg's opinion.
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I fall in the in/and around 30 category and hobby about occasionally;I think the guys in in their 20's & < probably have mommy/daddy support (hehe lucky bastards wouldn't we do the same for our kids or wish our parents help supported our hobby LOL); hell what was the last statistic? there are currently ~9000 or so literal Millionaires in Austin alone think heard on KUt or Austin business journal: so you gotta figure sig. those families (dads&sons) play lol. and anyways Who can't afford to hobby once a month or less and Still post&view like a cr**k*hor* on this board and cl,bp
I have always preferred an older man, although I have had some fun with a few youngsters...

Chronological age is quite meaningless in the scheme of things. Your true age is between you and your telomeres. Originally Posted by smokeswithwolves

That is what I meant by the statement. For a lot of us it is meaningless. I was a teenager until I was in my mid 30's! It was a lot of fun, too!!
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You know, 40 is the new 20, so I'm actually younger than most of y'all.
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Some 28 year-old leg pays that money, and the gal doesn't quite look like he imagined, and doesn't go for his romantic suggestion of "two in the pink, one in the sink", he might be all "Bitch! That wasn't worth no 2 fiddy!!

Plus, with an older cat, there's always the chance he can't get it up. He'll pay anyway and apologize! Now that's easy work!

And the younger legs often over-shoot their loads into the provider's purse. They hate that.

One leg's opinion. Originally Posted by FloridaShark
Well, I assume if you do your research and communicate well, you should know going in whether 2P1S is on the menu or not.

From the Houston thread on this topic, another point brought up:

Providers who are high volume or who are not that into it won't appreciate the MMMSOG (that's 3 multiples). Understandable, from what I've seen of the ladies on this board. Even as lazy and out of shape as I am, I would be pretty motivated for that 1 or 2 hour(s).

What's that potato chip slogan? "I betcha can't get Lay'd just once?"
Funny to see this thread, I just got finished with an appointment with a 21 year old Marine, on leave, heading back to camp Lejune(?) on his way to another tour in Afghanistan. He was wonderful-great kisser, great at DATY, really enjoyed his DTBBBJ. Only thing was he asked(begged actually) to not use a condom. I chaulked it up to his age. He was wonderful! Semper Fi! H
While I appreciate gentlemen of many ages I find sex with a partner
that is well practiced and has mastered the fine art of coupling the
most enjoyable.

Some things get better with age and practice, like lovers.

When I'm with a younger gentleman that excels in pleasing I'm always
sure to compliment him. If I think I can teach him something, I do.
Old and young dogs can learn new tricks!
Tess
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You know, 40 is the new 20, so I'm actually younger than most of y'all. Originally Posted by Sir Hardin Thicke
I live my the philosophy that "a man is only as old as the woman he dates....."

So my age fluctuates from 18 to 25.....

But I seldom have a problem seeing a lady.... I think I look a bit older than I feel!
Woof woof, Tess
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I will be 27 this year, and I have had ZERO problems because of my age. From what every provider has told me, they look forward to meeting me, because I am a gentleman, and I have a good reputation. (to be fair once or twice accusations have been made about my reputation. When questioned directly, no one has been able to produce any proof, let alone any specific accusation.)

Just act like you imagine you grandpa acted when he "went a courtin'" back in the olden times. And you should be fine.
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  • 06-05-2010, 01:17 PM
I'm definitely well under the "30" age. I've never had a provider that I've contacted turn me down for a session. I've been sad to read in their ads that they don't prefer guys under 30, and then I've moved on to the next one. But never outwardly rejected after trying to set something up.