Question for you Barebackers...

Yes, we can all assume that every provider is bare backing some one, whether it's hobby related or not. But for a guy who enjoys DATY as much as any other activity, it's a mental thing, KNOWING that the provider you want to see openly does cream pies is far worse than just suspecting and has a greater influence on whether or not I will actually see her.

Question for these Eccie New Era Open Barebackers...Why do you allow or have to nut in the pussy? Why can't you make him or why can't you pull out and nut on her stomach, face, titties, ass, back, etc..? Why does it have to be in the pussy?

Secondly, why do you have to increase the odds of putting the whole community at risk? Originally Posted by ManSlut

here's my 2cents. I don't think I would see a bbfs provider that has it available to anyone for just obvious reason(s)- GREATER RISK that's a no brainer. I am not a doctor nor do I work in the medical field but anyone knows the risk of unprotected sex.

However if you are a hobbyist that engages in DFK, BBBJ, or DATY you have no room to talk about BBFS because you can contract an STD from DFK, DATY, or BBBJ. I would always be amazed at ladies who don't offer BBBJ, but allow DATY- do they not know if the guy has a herpes infection in his mouth and he goes to DATY she can pick up the virus.

manslut, to sum it up here's an analogy- there's a spoon, fork ,and knife. The spoon has been heated to 250 degrees, the fork has been heated to 500 degrees, and the knife has been heated to 1000 degrees.

You grab the spoon and criticize and mock anyone who picks up the fork or the knife- when in reality all 3 of them will put you at risk for getting your hand burned.

I reluctantly gave up DATY in the hobby some time ago because of the risk factor and that fact I just didn't practice enough to be any good at it (off the menu at home for decades now).

But as to the OP's questions, certainly if one is barebacking anyway CIP is better than anything except maybe CIM with a lady who keeps going for the duration.

As the second question, even pulling out there is often a dribble or two and plenty of surface contact for things like HPV etc.

I've never BBFS a provider, but freely admit I'd love to if the risk wasn't there. . . but the risk is there, so I just don't want the temptation.

Does it really matter. If it is in the open, fine. You either strap up or you don't. Nutting in a hot pussy feels good, pretty simple answer. The rest is risk level. Originally Posted by Boltfan

I agree with that statement. I'm glad some of the ladies who are BB-friendly are being more open about it. It's then up to me to decide who I want to see, and what I want to do once I'm there.

Every once in awhile I chime in when the question arises, "if you're wearing a condom, why do you care?" I try to explain my reasoning, but really don't want to demonize those that have a different risk appetite. They're still going to do what they do; the demonizing just makes it less likely they'll tell us about it, which does nothing to reduce risk.

Exactly. I am happy it is out in the open. I hope people don't continue to chastise it because it helps assess risk. Keep it all in the open.

Damn now l want my raincoat.
Better to spit at my self.
Lol
Its just pussy and xxxxx

You do realize that it doesn't matter if you cum in the pussy or pull out and paint her tits, right? If you ride bareback and she's got crotch rot, you're going to catch it no matter where you drop your swimmers off.

That being said, your question is about as relevant as asking why squids ride in a tanktop, shorts, and flip flops. Why do most Harley riders insist on wearing a DOT approved do-rag instead of a full-face helmet? The answer is simple: because they choose to. It all boils down to risk mitigation. If you're popping wheelies on the freeway with nothing on your head but your goddamned sunglasses, I'm going to laugh at you. But if you're attentive and careful while riding without a helmet, chances are much better that you'll be ok.

It's the same with hobbying. You want to dip your wick uncovered in a $500 an hour Upscale Escort, your chances of catching the drip are probably less than if you bareback every $60 hooktard on BP. If you choose to bareback her mouth and cover up for the main event, chances are you'll be safe. But eventually the law of averages is going to bite you and it's going to burn when you pee.

And ladies, remember that The Pill STOPS WORKING if you take antibiotics for, say, a case of chlamydia. So if you're riding bare and taking creampies, you might want to consider another form of contraception.

Condoms aren't 100% reliable...I've had one break in a session before. Scared the fuck out of me and into her.

I am really loving this thread, there's a lot of solid logic and interesting points of view coming out of it.

I really like the motorcycle helmet reference coupled with the hot silverware scenario.

I really respect knowing that it's a turn off for some to think of a lady BB'ing in regards to your decision to DATY. Everyone has their preferences as far as that goes and I am truly enjoying all the different drama-free perspectives today.

Yeah, refuse to DATY because she's taken a few loads and ignore the fact that she bleeds from that orifice every month. Don't get me started on DATO.
"Guys, you can't stick your tongue in her fartbox, she took a load of CUM back there!" Yeah, well 30 minutes before you got to your ATF's incall where she never barebacks anyone, corn was making its exit.

If she's got good hygiene, what the fuck does it matter?
Ya'll worry about the weirdest shit.

It feels 100% better.

You do realize that it doesn't matter if you cum in the pussy or pull out and paint her tits, right? If you ride bareback and she's got crotch rot, you're going to catch it no matter where you drop your swimmers off.

That being said, your question is about as relevant as asking why squids ride in a tanktop, shorts, and flip flops. Why do most Harley riders insist on wearing a DOT approved do-rag instead of a full-face helmet? The answer is simple: because they choose to. It all boils down to risk mitigation. If you're popping wheelies on the freeway with nothing on your head but your goddamned sunglasses, I'm going to laugh at you. But if you're attentive and careful while riding without a helmet, chances are much better that you'll be ok.

It's the same with hobbying. You want to dip your wick uncovered in a $500 an hour Upscale Escort, your chances of catching the drip are probably less than if you bareback every $60 hooktard on BP. If you choose to bareback her mouth and cover up for the main event, chances are you'll be safe. But eventually the law of averages is going to bite you and it's going to burn when you pee.

And ladies, remember that The Pill STOPS WORKING if you take antibiotics for, say, a case of chlamydia. So if you're riding bare and taking creampies, you might want to consider another form of contraception.

Condoms aren't 100% reliable...I've had one break in a session before. Scared the fuck out of me and into her. Originally Posted by snarl

This is a rare intelligent post. Thank you.

Well, by taking a look at a number of ManSlut's reviews, he appears to enjoy daty and would just as soon not be sticking his tongue where a hundred dicks have emptied their loads.

At least, that would be my reasoning. Originally Posted by TinMan

+1000

I can't believe that threads like this still pop up so frequently.


VERY SIMPLE. Use a condom if you're scared of catching something.


Risk levels and all of that other shit you guys post about are ALL irrelevant. You have no idea what ANY of these providers may have or how many different balls have been emptied into her. If you want to go bareback. Knock yourself out. I'll cover up for the FS regardless. (Not for the BJ's though. Fuck CBJ, I'll take that risk.)

Assume she has something, cover up. End of story.

Good thread discussion. Unusual.

And the main reason I am going fbsm l1 only....this shit is cra cra. Everyone has a choice if you do.not want to be at risk, dont hobby.