Publicly outing a guy, ANY guy VIP or not, for a ncns should result in severe repercussions for the provider. Originally Posted by JannisaryAnd it will here. In fact its one of the few things a person can do off-board that will get them in real trouble on-board. Outing is outing and will be dealt with swiftly and harshly, in accordance with OUR rules.
- Chica Chaser
- 07-31-2012, 12:31 AM
- Tiffani Jameson
- 07-31-2012, 01:37 AM
I think, between us ladies, we need to understand what we control in a situation like this: Our business. We can't control when guys double book, or have a change in work schedules (or heart), or have emergencies. But there are certain measures a lady can take to minimize NCNS. And enacting some crazy unenforceable cancellation policy is NOT the answer. Threatening to out a person, or to damage a person's reputation (male or female) in this line of business should be punishable in my opinion.
Putting a guy on blast because, in essence, he didn't want to see you isn't the answer either. Granted, there are a few who are serial NCNS, but it wouldn't matter if you made a few changes to the way you set appointments. NCNS once, and pay a deposit to schedule again. Either he's sending it or not. It shouldn't be any skin off your nose if he doesn't. A guy that doesn't respect your time should not be your type of client.
Putting a guy on blast because, in essence, he didn't want to see you isn't the answer either. Granted, there are a few who are serial NCNS, but it wouldn't matter if you made a few changes to the way you set appointments. NCNS once, and pay a deposit to schedule again. Either he's sending it or not. It shouldn't be any skin off your nose if he doesn't. A guy that doesn't respect your time should not be your type of client.
- Ed Highlight
- 07-31-2012, 04:55 AM
VIP as in? There are VIPs on eccie? LOL! Originally Posted by hiddenrose
Some guys don't even know that they are VIPs. ......you might be a VIP. Originally Posted by RandomBlkChickYou mean, even I could be a VIP?!?
.... . But there are certain measures a lady can take to minimize NCNS. And enacting some crazy unenforceable cancellation policy is NOT the answer. Threatening to out a person, or to damage a person's reputation (male or female) in this line of business should be punishable in my opinion.......all this common sense and she can wear you out in the bedroom, too.....sigh......
Putting a guy on blast because, in essence, he didn't want to see you isn't the answer either. .... A guy that doesn't respect your time should not be your type of client.
- Ms. Athena
- 07-31-2012, 11:16 AM
[QUOTE=Tiffani Jameson;2989816]I think, between us ladies, we need to understand what we control in a situation like this: Our business. We can't control when guys double book, or have a change in work schedules (or heart), or have emergencies. But there are certain measures a lady can take to minimize NCNS. And enacting some crazy unenforceable cancellation policy is NOT the answer. Threatening to out a person, or to damage a person's reputation (male or female) in this line of business should be punishable in my opinion.
Putting a guy on blast because, in essence, he didn't want to see you isn't the answer either. Granted, there are a few who are serial NCNS, but it wouldn't matter if you made a few changes to the way you set appointments. NCNS once, and pay a deposit to schedule again. Either he's sending it or not. It shouldn't be any skin off your nose if he doesn't. A guy that doesn't respect your time should not be your type of client.
Ms Tiff YOU are so right on the money. I agree that as Pros we should make our business as professional as we are able to. When a provider feels they must threating someone into doing what they want this is NOT being professional in any way and it will come back to bit them in the ass and I hope sharply. This is a fantasy world and we are all here to have fun and play as we choose. Once one starts to feel threatend and are being guiltied or pushed into doing something/someone not of their choosing then it is no longer a fantasy world.
Putting a guy on blast because, in essence, he didn't want to see you isn't the answer either. Granted, there are a few who are serial NCNS, but it wouldn't matter if you made a few changes to the way you set appointments. NCNS once, and pay a deposit to schedule again. Either he's sending it or not. It shouldn't be any skin off your nose if he doesn't. A guy that doesn't respect your time should not be your type of client.
Ms Tiff YOU are so right on the money. I agree that as Pros we should make our business as professional as we are able to. When a provider feels they must threating someone into doing what they want this is NOT being professional in any way and it will come back to bit them in the ass and I hope sharply. This is a fantasy world and we are all here to have fun and play as we choose. Once one starts to feel threatend and are being guiltied or pushed into doing something/someone not of their choosing then it is no longer a fantasy world.
- VIP Mya Michelle
- 07-31-2012, 12:11 PM
I think, between us ladies, we need to understand what we control in a situation like this: Our business. We can't control when guys double book, or have a change in work schedules (or heart), or have emergencies. But there are certain measures a lady can take to minimize NCNS. And enacting some crazy unenforceable cancellation policy is NOT the answer. Threatening to out a person, or to damage a person's reputation (male or female) in this line of business should be punishable in my opinion.
Putting a guy on blast because, in essence, he didn't want to see you isn't the answer either. Granted, there are a few who are serial NCNS, but it wouldn't matter if you made a few changes to the way you set appointments. NCNS once, and pay a deposit to schedule again. Either he's sending it or not. It shouldn't be any skin off your nose if he doesn't. A guy that doesn't respect your time should not be your type of client.
100% right!