Question: Are male escorts often called to be a provider?

Bubba is correct. Women do and will pay to have a quality experience. Generally, though, a man will do heterosexual escorting as a side business, only.

And it IS a business. It's not something that you think to yourself, "Hey, I'd like an extra few bucks and so maybe some hot girl will pay me a couple of hundred and I'll show her a good time".

No. Here are a few places to start researching, though, if you're serious:

cowboys4angels.com (seems like a really nice service)

conciergedumonde.com is a site for male escorts and the women who love them. I'm a member on this one! It's lovely and well, will offer you a glimpse of what the more successful men offer.

Frankly, there are a lot of men who want to do "this" for a lark and they haven't a clue. Other men just aren't aware that if there was a man who was just right for this sort of thing in Dallas, well there would be a market.

The little exploring that I've done off of backpage, though, has been a bust and the guys there just not what most who would pay are going to want.

Several years ago on EROS, they had a male escort section and I contacted a few of the men there but never went through with actually hiring one. It's a tough market for het men. If this is something that you're serious about, though, try it.

As far as the ugly girl thing ... all types of women, like all types of men, would be interested. There are a LOT of female escorts who would probably find it fun to try it out. You would meet pretty women and women who aren't your type. You'd have to learn to overlook that or do what often we do, find something attractive and charming in each person that you meet.

Elisabeth Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers

Such brilliant insight and commentary, Elisabeth ... you are obviously a true professional and pretty smart chick ... I'm in lust with your intelligence ;-)

My case in being is most men tend to help women finacially and well sexually. The backpage and other small sites have men to service their needs but not many women are too open to doing it. So how can men that want to go about the same way, maybe not finacally but sexually. CL gets lame redirection emails, even you respond to someone or post your own. Dating sites are junk... So what is a good way to get someone?

So what are you asking, exactly? That you wish to get laid but not hire an escort?

If you're asking about alternative ways to get the word out there about being a male escort, I've already make a few suggestions. Or better yet, use ECCIE as a base of letting people know.

If you're serious and you have some spunk to you (didn't know exactly how else to say it), there are women here who would be willing to test drive you (again, not sure how to word this) and give you the old college try. You know, TOFTT. Smile.

If you just wish to get laid and you're NOT looking for the financial aspect of it, although I would like to suggest that either way you pay one way or another ... try okcupid.com

It tends to attract more interesting people, in my humble opinion. I tried it and had limited success. ALL of the men want to get laid there. In fact, if you're looking for someone with a no strings attached lover situation, I was, and want someone to go out to eat with, talk to but not that interested in having a girlfriend, there are women who are on that site that are looking for the same thing.

The reason why these sites suck, though, and they DO ... is that individuals have such fucked up expectations, or guys just don't know how to go about having a true friends with benefits thing going without making the women feel trashy about it, that the success rate is limited.

And that is probably the rub either way that you go. You're going to have to figure out a way, like we do, to make the experience of being with you a wonderful type of encounter and not one where the woman leaves feeling worse about herself then she did before arriving.

If you can do that, personally or as being an escort, you got it made.

Elisabeth