GFE vs PSE?

Over the years I have seen many adds stating PSE. Up until a recent visit with a well known provider I quickly learned that the previous experiances were not really PSE IMHO. As others have stated activities could include greek, rimming, COF,COM. But the big difference between the 2 is that PSE is full of high energy non-stop activity and lacks senuality........ strait hard core none-personal sex. For me I preferr GFE as I enjoy the senuality when you have the right provider. Originally Posted by Milehigh65
You put what I was trying to say more eloquently and I also prefer GFE over PSE I find it much more fulfilling.

And thanks Zarah I was too lazy to quote him but I knew who you were referring too.
DallasRain's Avatar
I do not consider myself a "pure" gfe or a "pure" pse.......I just consider myself "a good time girl"!
I am just me.....I love high energy/high passion/high excitement.......I am that way in both my personal life and hobby life! What you see is what you get!

If it feels good,do it!
I do not consider myself a "pure" gfe or a "pure" pse.......I just consider myself "a good time girl"!
I am just me.....I love high energy/high passion/high excitement.......I am that way in both my personal life and hobby life! What you see is what you get!

If it feels good,do it! Originally Posted by DallasRain
From what I hear you are a wild and sexy roller coaster ride as my one friend said 'You gotta hold on and brace yourself with her and get ready for a wild ride'
Cpalmson's Avatar
We always have this debate once every 3 months. The terms are defined by each individual in their own way. One persons GFE is another persons PSE and vice versa. In many regards a session can be both. I don't think you can put a label of activities to define each type. They tend to blur.

I think GFE is probably better to define than PSE because most of us know what a girlfriend will do with you. For me, GFE is more about a personal connection and foreplay-- lots of kissing, and slower initial pace of a date. A GFE date can include all of the acronyms many have associated with PSE. I've had a GFE style date with BBBJCIM and Greek.

PSE is more difficult to define because by nature porn imitates life. It is a broad spectrum to cover. It is probably more focused on getting down and nasty without all the chit-chat, kissing and foreplay. I think with PSE, one is more apt to see more uncovered activities-- CIM with swallow, Cum on Body, facials, etc.
PSE, means for me (porn star experience)= greek...I charge extra for that.

GFE,means for me (girlfriend experience)

Everyone terms are different... Originally Posted by Sonya
This is how I would define the terms as well
Soonerman12's Avatar
PSE does sound like a lot of fun! Anyone know of any providers who are known for being really good at it?
Naomi4u's Avatar
Zactly!

We always have this debate once every 3 months. The terms are defined by each individual in their own way. One persons GFE is another persons PSE and vice versa. In many regards a session can be both. I don't think you can put a label of activities to define each type. They tend to blur.

I think GFE is probably better to define than PSE because most of us know what a girlfriend will do with you. For me, GFE is more about a personal connection and foreplay-- lots of kissing, and slower initial pace of a date. A GFE date can include all of the acronyms many have associated with PSE. I've had a GFE style date with BBBJCIM and Greek.

PSE is more difficult to define because by nature porn imitates life. It is a broad spectrum to cover. It is probably more focused on getting down and nasty without all the chit-chat, kissing and foreplay. I think with PSE, one is more apt to see more uncovered activities-- CIM with swallow, Cum on Body, facials, etc. Originally Posted by Cpalmson

PSE does sound like a lot of fun! Anyone know of any providers who are known for being really good at it? Originally Posted by Soonerman12
Dallas Rain.
PSE does sound like a lot of fun! Anyone know of any providers who are known for being really good at it? Originally Posted by Soonerman12
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DR does not consider herself either, but what I can tell you is that a ride with her will be very eventful as she is a ball of fire and very passionant about the act itself.

I only gave my opinion earlier in the thread I have to agree with others that everyones definition will very. Whatever the case may be I do not think either is a bad thing, it's all about preference and what gives you the maximum satisfaction. Watch a good skin flick and focus on the theatrics more so than the activity itself, my definition of PSE. I have been with providers that offer the full menu but I did not consider the the visit to be PSE and there was no up charge. I think if there is a reason for the up charge for PSE it is probabaly due to the the higher level of work involved not the activity.
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DR does not consider herself either, but what I can tell you is that a ride with her will be very eventful as she is a ball of fire and very passionant about the act itself.

I only gave my opinion earlier in the thread I have to agree with others that everyones definition will very. Whatever the case may be I do not think either is a bad thing, it's all about preference and what gives you the maximum satisfaction. Watch a good skin flick and focus on the theatrics more so than the activity itself, my definition of PSE. I have been with providers that offer the full menu but I did not consider the the visit to be PSE and there was no up charge. I think if there is a reason for the up charge for PSE it is probabaly due to the the higher level of work involved not the activity. Originally Posted by Milehigh65
Awwwww thanks yall!
{Mile babe...you are an awesome guy to play with}

The only reason {I THINK} that pse would be more work for a provider is when it is "out of their character".............

now I do "do" gfe...but a "true" gfe would be more work for me

I am always geared for the pse factor in my life! It's who i am!

Everyone wants to divide the two concepts into classified activities,when in fact the only difference should be attitude and overall experience.
I kinda like it to start as GFE, then if both are into it, move into PSE, then after both are cummed out, slowly wind down to GFE again. Then repeat! lol
awl4knot's Avatar
The general differences between the two genres are an expanded menu (greek, rimming, COF or CIM), a different vibe and a higher price point. The PSE is hyper-energetic and extremely vocal with lots of profanity. Some like it because the parties get to snarl as they hector and challenge the other for "more" of whatever menu item is currently being explored. The higher price point is undoubtedly based on the perceived "extra" value of anal activity.

A more palatable mid-point between GFE and PSE may be sport fucking, which is discussed here: http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=337654. The marketing problem with sport fucking is that it is very YMMV and situational, although I can name one lady who always delivers sports fucking as her normal level of service. I guess the acronym would be SFE.
London Rayne's Avatar
I offer cof and cim in gfe dates, because it's simply what I enjoy doing and it does not cause any extra wear and tear like greek does...that's what the extra tag is for.

The only reason I charge more for greek is because I am not wearing my azz out for pennies, regardless of how much I like it or not. I don't look good in a diaper, so it's common sense.

If it was included, most everyone would want to try it and I would have to put yet another rule up on my website lol. An hour GFE is rather consistent with a PSE in most instances, as there is very little time to do much other than bcd. It varies per time frame. If a guy expects msog in an hour, it's going to mirror a pse because there is simply no time to get all cozy when you are worried about knocking all the acronyms out for him.

I have done 2 hour pse dates and it was still NOT non-stop action. I mean a guy has to have time to recover, so I doubt he will get up and read the freaking newspaper vs. talking to a lady.
Iaintliein's Avatar
I guess it depends on what kind of girlfriends you've had or want (if even for all too short a time).

Sometimes it's as simple as making the choice and letting her know.







My muse even has separate rooms available, depending on taste and mood.
I do not consider myself a "pure" gfe or a "pure" pse.......I just consider myself "a good time girl"!
I am just me.....I love high energy/high passion/high excitement.......I am that way in both my personal life and hobby life! What you see is what you get!

If it feels good,do it! Originally Posted by DallasRain
That's my definition, Dallas

Why do we have to define our time together? Can't we just feed off each others' energy and see where it takes us? Ask, as dirty as you please. I might not say no....
Sweet N Little's Avatar
PSE says I want to get my world rocked and leave drooling and speechless.