How long can it last! WOW! - Page 2

For guys, I really don't buy the quitters after one time due to guilt. I'm sure it is out there, but I think once one embarks down this path, it will be in their blood. It might not necessarily be looking to meet providers, but to meet a variety of women in general to quench their needs (whatever they may be). For a guy, I think it would be really hard to stop or at least stop the urges. Originally Posted by Cpalmson

I agree that a lot of these guys keep looking for a variety of women, but I've listened to a lot who used an escort once or twice, and had the guilt reaction. Somehow they don't see a whole series of bar pickups, etc., as the same thing. They can say, "I didn't pay for it so it isn't the same thing!", even though I subtily point out room + drinks + misc is usually more than the would have paid an escort. The mind (theirs) can really rationalize itself when it wants to.

Been in the hobby for 30+ years myself. My current AFT has been doing it for 7 years. Girls come and go do to various reasons but most of the girls I have seen last average of about 5 years in my experience. Originally Posted by elgato111

Same kind of numbers for me, excapt my very frequent ladies ave a bit more than that. But I doubt the ladies I see are "typical" in that regard. I tend to see the "lifers" as CPalmson referrs to them--I am very selective in who I return to see, and I guess there is something about that group often fits what I am looking for.